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It was meaningful in its day, but now it seems trite and campy.

It is fine. My mother and I had a difficult relationship, we loved each other. I do appreciate your words, though. Thank you. It wasn’t always the healthiest relationship with her, but I feel her absence… Anyhow, we don’t have to dwell on that.

I like the ones with the male symbol, ♂ Not excited about the rainbow anywhere.

More like golden sprinkler…

This has made me squeamish.

Yes. People already suggested I was wrong in thinking that some guys would consider his lack of abs chubby and it was in fact his bulge. I suppose that’s valid, but I also believe it’s just as valid to maintain that many guys would find his physique chubby. We don’t have to agree.

At the risk of going off topic, I am a lexophile. I love words. They have personalities…each of them. There’s always a good word for every situation…You just have to know it – or create it. Language is a living thing and neologisms are the mutations of its DNA.

Los Angeles, California

Reasonable…if I didn’t have my RM settings such that I’m not visible when I visit a profile. Also – I had never seen the guy’s profile before he messaged me. Look – I was polite. The problem isn’t this guy; the problem is the incessant talk here that such a message from clients is inappropriate but when a provider does it, we have folks who will find a host of explanations for why it’s acceptable. Both providers and clients will engage in apologetics about it. It seems to me, if you’re soliciting someone for sex, you’re a client. The one who makes the first move in the transaction is the client. If a guy who’s normally a provider approaches someone for sex, in a transactional sense, he’s a client. If a guy wants to come up to me and ask me to fuck him, I’m likely to say no. If he offers to pay me, I may reconsider. The lines of what makes a client and a provider aren’t nearly as defined as some might like. If you’re horny, bored, and hit someone up for sex with an expectation that it’s transactional, why would I pay you to satisfy your boredom and libido? It seems to me that’s the very definition of being a client…approaching a potential guy for transactional sex. I’m not paying a provider to satisfy his needs; I’m paying him to satisfy mine.

I didn’t say they are. But communication can be frustrating with folks under 30…That goes for anyone under 30, not just escorts.

Wow. There really is everything imaginable out there… Not my cup of tea.

Fair enough. I hadn’t thought of it from that perspective. That said, if he’s bored and wants to sext or to fuck, he can comp me my time.

But seriously… My father is still living, and was the oldest of my two parents. He was 30 when I was born and my mother 21. She died just this past November from COVID, so that clock has stopped. My grandma is who was my “real” mom though. She raised me from the time I was 11. I always figured I’d have to say goodbye to her before my actual mother, but fate had a different idea. Grandma is still going at 90…I still call her daily, although she’s not the woman she once was. Dementia is a fucking bitch. And she has CLL, which causes issues. If her husband were still alive, my grandfather, he’d be 114. I have stepparents too. Stepfather is 18 years older than me and my stepmother is 29 years older than me. All over the board in other words.

Jesus. Some of you are dinosaurs!