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I’m glad it went well for you. Genuinely. I do however find it duplicitous to use someone else’s pictures – permission notwithstanding – as your own for an advertisement, however. 

I had no idea what that meant! 😂 
I love the Chinese zodiac myth story. It’s a shame more westerners don’t delve into eastern history and lore. So rich…Just last night I watched a YouTube documentary about cats in Japan down through the ages. So fascinating…and different from my own experience. 

Communicated with him via text. He wants $70 to talk 10 minutes on the phone to discuss arrangements.

I was going to message him to find out some more information, but I have no desire to do any sort of differential equations or non-Euclidean geometry to determine whether or not I can afford to hire him or not…

I had no idea what that meant! 😂 
I love the Chinese zodiac myth story. It’s a shame more westerners don’t delve into eastern history and lore. So rich…Just last night I watched a YouTube documentary about cats in Japan down through the ages. So fascinating…and different from my own experience. 

I had no idea what that meant! 😂 
I love the Chinese zodiac myth story. It’s a shame more westerners don’t delve into eastern history and lore. So rich…Just last night I watched a YouTube documentary about cats in Japan down through the ages. So fascinating…and different from my own experience. 

Not interested if “money” (or any deviation from that spelling) is in a provider’s name. Also not interested if the provider figures out a way to bring the conversation back to his compensation at every turn before we meet. You’re not going to get a quality experience if he’s only thinking of his wallet. 

I really don’t enjoy being the one that sets the stage, so to speak. I am up front about that when I hire, and so far, I’ve had three guys fail to understand what I mean by it or simply tell me they’d do it but didn’t, and two guys who get it. The two guys who get are now my regulars and the other three haven’t been rehired. 

I wear what fits. My options are limited.

Insensitive remark.
Were guys charging $300/hr in 2002? That was the pre-COVID rate for some. In 2002, I wasn’t even sure I knew what masturbation was, so I definitely wasn’t up on the rack rate for escorts. But something tells me it wasn’t $300/hr.

@nycboi– If you’re poor, popular opinion here is that you shouldn’t be here. This is a rich man’s sport! Now take your things (if you have them) and go eat your gruel…It’s life.

I have to remind myself to think with my neural head when I see guys like this. So many red flags but the penile head wants to say, “How bad could it be?” Bad. It could be really bad.

No so much disgusting but initially surprising…
Honey in turkey meatloaf. Several recipes online called for it, and I was skeptical, but went ahead with it. Turned out great.
I highly recommend turkey meatloaf. Next time I’ll make a poultry gravy with a tablespoon of honey and a splash of liquid smoke in it. It’ll be perfect.
Trying new recipe ideas has always been fun for me.

We bottoms like a nice ass on our fuckers too 😉 

One of the first escorts that I got together with had gone to Harvard. At every opportunity he left that information out. He seems to think that it meant something to me. Was he intelligent and able to have a conversation? Yes. Did he strike me as any more intelligent than anyone else with a college degree? No. He wasn’t some Einstein. Just your average college educated guy.

I doubt I’ll ever, in my lifetime, be afforded the opportunity to meet Keanu Reeves in person.
He was goodlooking in the first Matrix. I’ll say that.

I’m talking not even responding to the initial reachout.
 
Either way, as you say, got to move at some point. It’s a shame because, to my mind, it’s indicative of a wider problem beyond escorting.

One of the most frustrating things is when you see the ✔✔ in RM Messenger and don’t get a response. Assuming the best, you follow up with another “Hey, I’m just checking in” and get ✔✔ again, no response. It’s one thing to ghost after a bit of conversation and another simply to not respond.
 
Simply venting...

Male Sacks
A porno about mailmen who end up delivering you the contents of all their sacks…

And if you read what I wrote, I said that.
I don’t want to spend time with a guy who thinks he’s that special he’s worth that much. It belies, in my opinion, a certain self-importance that I don’t want to be around.
Furthermore, spending time with someone shouldn’t be that much work. My work is spending time with people, and I’m not compensated anywhere near what these guys are. If you have to work that hard at it to be good at it, maybe it’s not something you should offer. Stick to the hourly sessions if it’s so onerous to do an overnight. Unless of course it’s not that much work and you’re just price gouging. There’s no precedent for price gouging in today’s world. None at all.
Anyhow, I’m off topic. As I said was the risk. I’ll just end this by saying no amount of escorts or former escorts on here giving me a justification for exorbitant rates is going to change my mind that anything above $1800-$2000 per night for a porn star is worth it. I’m not even going to entertain that much if you’re not a porn star. I’ve done enough overnights (and paid top dollar for some too – more than $2000 for six hours) and I’ll tell you, they’re not any better just because you pay more. In fact, the decent guys who charge less are usually better because they’re not so into themselves and project an air of doing you a favor for taking your money.
Just because an escort says it’s a lot of work and he’s good doesn’t make it so. I’d like to see some of these guys do what I do for a week and then reevaluate what’s “a lot of work.”

Reasonable…if I didn’t have my RM settings such that I’m not visible when I visit a profile. Also – I had never seen the guy’s profile before he messaged me.

Look – I was polite. The problem isn’t this guy; the problem is the incessant talk here that such a message from clients is inappropriate but when a provider does it, we have folks who will find a host of explanations for why it’s acceptable. Both providers and clients will engage in apologetics about it. It seems to me, if you’re soliciting someone for sex, you’re a client. The one who makes the first move in the transaction is the client. If a guy who’s normally a provider approaches someone for sex, in a transactional sense, he’s a client.
If a guy wants to come up to me and ask me to fuck him, I’m likely to say no. If he offers to pay me, I may reconsider.
The lines of what makes a client and a provider aren’t nearly as defined as some might like. If you’re horny, bored, and hit someone up for sex with an expectation that it’s transactional, why would I pay you to satisfy your boredom and libido? It seems to me that’s the very definition of being a client…approaching a potential guy for transactional sex. I’m not paying a provider to satisfy his needs; I’m paying him to satisfy mine. 

Why would you expect an answer to a rhetorical question?
I’m quite happy. I disagree with people here and they interpret that as complaining. I do see a lot of hypocrisy here as well, and I point it out. That’s not complaining. It’s just telling the truth.
I just had breakfast with a friend who told me I am one of the happiest people they know and I make them want to be a better person. So anyone’s impression of me as miserable is off target. Apparently I’m a joy to be around in person. Is it possible, rhetorically speaking, that because I have the temerity to point out how some people are wearing no clothes that it’s easier to write me off as miserable to save face? 🤔 

On further reflection…That’s just a jerk thing to say. And you probably disagree. But your disagreement doesn’t change my mind. It’s still a jerk thing to say. But I wanted to say my piece.
If you can’t put together what I’m saying here, that’s not my fault. The point is obvious. I don’t understand the apologetics for all manner of bad behavior for escorts that is rampant on this forum, especially among clients. Most escorts aren’t asswipes and most clients don’t waste time. Maybe we ought to all stop assuming the worst and act like fucking adults who could have a drink together in person…
So whatever.

What?
Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans?
The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich…
I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response…
I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort.

What?
Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans?
The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich…
I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response…
I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort.