xyz48B Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 “Hey 👋🏻“ Imagine if I had sent an escort that So many providers want you to be specific when you reach out to them. They say so in their ads even. We’re supposed to include what we’re looking for, when we’d like to meet, our favorite color is…So we don’t waste their time. Then I get this… “Hey 👋🏻“ I guess my time isn’t valuable… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 (edited) If your time is valuable, why did you even reply to a cold call that just said "hey"? If this was because you clicked on his provider's page, you can set your preferences to a more private setting in which he won't see you looked. Edited March 10, 2022 by azdr0710 + José Soplanucas, Antonio1981 and MscleLovr 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 1 hour ago, xyz48B said: “Hey 👋🏻“ Imagine if I had sent an escort that So many providers want you to be specific when you reach out to them. They say so in their ads even. We’re supposed to include what we’re looking for, when we’d like to meet, our favorite color is…So we don’t waste their time. Then I get this… “Hey 👋🏻“ I guess my time isn’t valuable… Ouch. Don’t forget escorts….are still humans. Antonio1981, + LIguy, + José Soplanucas and 3 others 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 10, 2022 Author Share Posted March 10, 2022 1 hour ago, azdr0710 said: If your time is valuable, why did you even reply to a cold call that just said "hey"? If this was because you clicked on his provider's page, you can set your preferences to a more private setting in which he won't see you looked. It’s not. My preference are set that way. I had never seen the guy til I looked at the ad. I replied because unlike some folks, I find it impolite to just ignore other people. I’m not a jerk. HoseMaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 10, 2022 Author Share Posted March 10, 2022 1 hour ago, nycman said: Ouch. Don’t forget escorts….are still humans. What? Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans? The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich… I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response… I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort. HoseMaster, Antonio1981, Gadfly22 and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 3 hours ago, xyz48B said: What? Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans? The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich… I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response… I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort. You should probably avoid escorts. It will be good for you, and great for them. pubic_assistance, Antonio1981, + BenjaminNicholas and 9 others 3 3 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 1 hour ago, latbear4blk said: You should probably avoid escorts. It will be good for you, and great for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 2 hours ago, latbear4blk said: You should probably avoid escorts. It will be good for you, and great for them. On further reflection…That’s just a jerk thing to say. And you probably disagree. But your disagreement doesn’t change my mind. It’s still a jerk thing to say. But I wanted to say my piece. If you can’t put together what I’m saying here, that’s not my fault. The point is obvious. I don’t understand the apologetics for all manner of bad behavior for escorts that is rampant on this forum, especially among clients. Most escorts aren’t asswipes and most clients don’t waste time. Maybe we ought to all stop assuming the worst and act like fucking adults who could have a drink together in person… So whatever. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 5 hours ago, xyz48B said: On further reflection…That’s just a jerk thing to say. I'd rather say it is an objective observation based in your pitiful whining. 5 hours ago, xyz48B said: But your disagreement doesn’t change my mind. It’s still a jerk thing to say. What a surprise! 5 hours ago, xyz48B said: But I wanted to say my piece. Well, you are quite generous sharing your pieces. 5 hours ago, xyz48B said: If you can’t put together what I’m saying here, that’s not my fault. The point is obvious. You seem not to understand how telling of your mindset about sex workers your raw generalizations are. 5 hours ago, xyz48B said: Maybe we ought to all stop assuming the worst and act like fucking adults who could have a drink together in person… Finally, wise advice. You should start following it. Antonio1981 and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 @latbear4blk– Would you have me not say my pieces? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 11 hours ago, latbear4blk said: You should probably avoid escorts. It will be good for you, and great for them. This game isn't for the thin-skinned. Life sucks sometimes. + José Soplanucas and Antonio1981 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 9 hours ago, xyz48B said: I wanted to say my piece My old-fashioned parents were sticklers for good manners and etiquette. One of the rules they drummed into me was “Not every thought has to be voiced”. Have you ever considered @xyz48B that life would be easier for you, and those around you, if you were not always so sanctimonious? Kevin Slater, pubic_assistance, Antonio1981 and 4 others 3 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 4 minutes ago, MscleLovr said: Have you ever considered ... that life would be easier for you ... if you were not always so sanctimonious? *Takes to the smelling salts and fans oneself* Kevin Slater, romanz, Act25 and 3 others 1 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 1 hour ago, MscleLovr said: My old-fashioned parents were sticklers for good manners and etiquette. One of the rules they drummed into me was “Not every thought has to be voiced”. So you decided to ignore that when calling me sanctimonious? Gadfly22 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 No @xyz48B I thought you might answer my (rhetorical) question. I genuinely hoped you might accept some advice to view life and its vicissitudes more joyfully. Your many complaints here about others suggest that you are miserable. pubic_assistance and Antonio1981 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 17 minutes ago, MscleLovr said: No @xyz48B I thought you might answer my (rhetorical) question. I genuinely hoped you might accept some advice to view life and its vicissitudes more joyfully. Your many complaints here about others suggest that you are miserable. Why would you expect an answer to a rhetorical question? I’m quite happy. I disagree with people here and they interpret that as complaining. I do see a lot of hypocrisy here as well, and I point it out. That’s not complaining. It’s just telling the truth. I just had breakfast with a friend who told me I am one of the happiest people they know and I make them want to be a better person. So anyone’s impression of me as miserable is off target. Apparently I’m a joy to be around in person. Is it possible, rhetorically speaking, that because I have the temerity to point out how some people are wearing no clothes that it’s easier to write me off as miserable to save face? 🤔 Antonio1981 and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 So everyone but me is in agreement then that an escort approaching a potential client with “Hey 👋🏻“ as an opener is a-okay, but a client doing the same to a potential provider is an indicator of a waste of time? Just so I have the facts straight… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 3 hours ago, mike carey said: *Takes to the smelling salts and fans oneself* You forgot *obsequious pearl-clutching* mike carey and Antonio1981 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JQ915 Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 22 hours ago, xyz48B said: “Hey 👋🏻“ Imagine if I had sent an escort that So many providers want you to be specific when you reach out to them. They say so in their ads even. We’re supposed to include what we’re looking for, when we’d like to meet, our favorite color is…So we don’t waste their time. Then I get this… “Hey 👋🏻“ I guess my time isn’t valuable… Hmm… when I was in my 20s, this hot Brazilian guy messaged me. I knew he was an escort but I replied to his message anyway. I didn’t get charged nor was a transaction ever discussed. He said he was just really horny and needed a good lay. HoseMaster, + Lucky and xyz48B 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 3 minutes ago, JQ915 said: Hmm… when I was in my 20s, this hot Brazilian guy messaged me. I knew he was an escort but I replied to his message anyway. I didn’t get charged nor was a transaction ever discussed. He said he was just really horny and needed a good lay. That wouldn’t be objectionable! This guy was from LA…I’m outside of Boston. That would a pricey Uber! JQ915 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ StLouisOct Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 22 hours ago, xyz48B said: “Hey 👋🏻“ Imagine if I had sent an escort that So many providers want you to be specific when you reach out to them. They say so in their ads even. We’re supposed to include what we’re looking for, when we’d like to meet, our favorite color is…So we don’t waste their time. Then I get this… “Hey 👋🏻“ I guess my time isn’t valuable… Wow. To each his own, but I would have treated the wave as a friendly ‘hello’ and proceeded accordingly. A good time might have been had by all. Antonio1981 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 @StLouisOct– unlikely that it would’ve “gone” anywhere, as I said, with him in LA and me in Boston. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ The Big Guy Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 1 hour ago, StLouisOct said: Wow. To each his own, but I would have treated the wave as a friendly ‘hello’ and proceeded accordingly. A good time might have been had by all. Good comments. I do not post here very often but spend a great deal of time on this site and do enjoy the back and forth that occurs between the members and those that are somewhat provocative help to hold my interest. That said, I would also welcome the chance to have a dialogue that was initiated by a rentmen provider instead of by myself. That way even if my interest was low, I would enjoy the chat and would not have to worry about wasting their time. Best wishes to all. Antonio1981 and xyz48B 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyz48B Posted March 11, 2022 Author Share Posted March 11, 2022 12 minutes ago, The Big Guy said: Good comments. I do not post here very often but spend a great deal of time on this site and do enjoy the back and forth that occurs between the members and those that are somewhat provocative help to hold my interest. That said, I would also welcome the chance to have a dialogue that was initiated by a rentmen provider instead of by myself. That way even if my interest was low, I would enjoy the chat and would not have to worry about wasting their time. Best wishes to all. Fair enough. I hadn’t thought of it from that perspective. That said, if he’s bored and wants to sext or to fuck, he can comp me my time. + The Big Guy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 I learned the meaning of vicissitudes and temerity from this thread. thank you. + azdr0710, jimbosf, MscleLovr and 6 others 2 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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