Jamie21

Another hotel tale. I met a client at an out of town hotel for a 3 hour session. Mid session the client took a phone call from an associate of his. It seemed there had been some kind of attack on one of his properties. He gave instructions to have the perpetrators ‘dealt with’. After he’d finished with the call he phoned his wife to let her know. All the time I lay there naked on the bed. I’d offered to leave but he indicated to me to stay so I heard everything which didn’t seem to bother him. After the calls he told me his wife was a high power city lawyer who knew everything about his business. He seemed to do something in construction or property but he was vague about the details. I asked him what had happened and he told me there was some dispute with a business rival. He said he’d arranged to have them ‘sorted out’. I didn’t like to ask what that meant but I think it involved broken legs. I didn’t doubt him because he seemed like a complete wide boy. Translation for US readers - a ‘wide boy’ in British English is someone involved in criminal activity. Strangely I never felt unsafe with him. Despite him talking and appearing tough he just loved kissing and cuddling. Much of the session he cuddled me while telling me what was going to happen to the guys who had crossed him, about his work, and letting me know that if I needed anything (me: ‘like what?’ him: ‘anything you like Jamie’) and about how his wife was much posher than he was. Such an interesting client.

I’d say me tbh. It’ll take your mind off the sex 😂

I’ve done that for a few clients. I’m not a PT but I am a regular at the gym and know what to do. I’ve had a few clients staying in hotels who book me to start out with half hour or so work out in the hotel gym, then back to their room for a massage etc. it works quite well especially if the gym is quiet and you can work out just wearing shorts. As for getting back to fitness I think the best advice is to build it into your routine, have a set time to workout, mix it up with weights, stretching and cardiovascular work like running or swimming. Avoid doing too much too soon because injury is likely to knock you out of the routine. Once you’ve been in the routine for 4 weeks or so it’s more or less set and you just keep it up.

It’s not kissing without tongue. Kiss properly or not at all.

Kiss him.

I recall an interesting visit to a regular client at his hotel just off Piccadilly in London. My client was a regular (visitor from abroad, couple of times a year, I guess he was about 70 quite large, total bottom). He usually enjoyed a bit of massage on the bed, then play, and at least half the session, during natural breaks, would include discussion about the royal family, politics, theatre. This time was to be no different except he told me he was travelling with a lady friend from Brazil. We’ll call her Maria, although it wasn’t her name but for discretion that’s what we shall use. I never worked out their relationship but I think she was a long standing travel companion with shared interest in theatre, travel and food. He asked was I ok with Maria being there? I said ‘of course, it’s fine’ although I didn’t check what he wanted to happen between the 3 of us. Perhaps I should have. His room was an apartment so when I arrived I was introduced to Maria in the lounge area and we chatted for a while over drinks while my client showered. Maria was a very well proportioned lady in her 40’s with that kind of cool sophistication and allure that seems to come effortlessly to Brazilians. After a while my client invited me to join him in the bedroom and said that Maria would join us in about an hour… Unfortunately that day I’d already seen two clients so I was fairly whacked already. I wouldn’t have normally accepted his booking but this evening was his only opportunity and because he was a regular, great fun and a generous tipper I confirmed his booking. I struggled to stay hard during the session with him and was thinking I hope he doesn’t want to watch me and Maria when she joins. Then I heard the door open and Maria walked in wearing nothing but a massive strap on. She dragged the client to the end of the bed, bent him over and saw to him while he sucked me. After about 2 minutes he was finished. I’ve never been so relieved. We then the lay there on the bed and discussed what theatre shows they were planning to see on the visit. I was tempted to ask Maria if she’d see to me with that strap on but I hadn’t prepared so it was a missed opportunity.

Yeah but you could use the giant swinging porn dick to club the game animal to death. It saves having to carry a club.

All it takes is some disgruntled potential client who sees your profile, tries to book, gets upset at the price, and then reports your profile to Sniffies or whatever platform you’re lowkey advertising on for your profile to be banned. It’s happened to me. I don’t bother advertising there now. The quality of client is poor anyway.

Not by the gym or hotel though!

Yes indeed. There’s a lot going on in that original post.

I think different standards for men and women is fine. There’s a different power dynamic between men and women than exists between men and men. I’d expect a man in receipt of an unwanted grope to feel much more able to reject it confidently than a woman in receipt of an unwanted male grope. Therefore one must proceed much more carefully and courteously in groping a woman. Also any grope is unwanted by definition, it’s a grope. If it was wanted it would be called a caress or a stroke and likely will have been given by someone who the receiver finds attractive. The same touch by someone the receiver finds unattractive is a grope. The former leads to an intimate relationship the latter leads to a slap or a conviction at worst. I recall being at a sex party. I was on a bed in a large group of people. One wore a wristband to indicate whether you were top, bottom or vers. Within the group it wasn’t always easy to identify which body part belonged to which wristbanded wrist. Occasionally a total top might risk being penetrated (This is the advantage of being vers I think 🙂). At one point someone shrieked and withdrew themselves indignantly from the mass of bodies saying they’d been assaulted. The host asked them what happened and he pointed to a guy and said the guy had tried to penetrate him and it was unwanted. The ‘victim’ had a top wristband on. The host basically said to the ‘victim’ to get real - you’re naked at a sex party with a dozen other naked guys on a bed. What do you expect?

Or just subscribe to my site and cancel your subscription to his one? 😂😂😂😂😂

Sometimes my gym is like a filming studio. There’s people with tripods for their cameras filming themselves exercising and they’re oblivious to what’s going on around them. You can’t walk anywhere without inadvertently getting in the shot. Some guys take off their tops which isn’t allowed but the gym staff (if there are any) don’t stop them. I don’t mind them filming if it’s unobtrusive but sometimes it’s like being on a film set. I expect someone to shout ‘action!’. The taking of pics in the changing room is a different issue. I’m not ok with that happening if there’s people around. I don’t care about being in the shot… in fact I deliberately walk around naked in the background to annoy them. My naked pics are all over the place anyway but most people definitely don’t want to be pictured inadvertently whilst getting changed.

Oh you didn’t watch on my JFF site?? 😢 (my one has the Director’s cut 😉).

Yes I totally understand this. For female clients there’s a lot of risk attached to hiring someone, much more so than for a male client. The female clients I see tell me they do a lot of research before hiring.

Both. Mainly though it’s that I tend to want to ‘save myself’ for work sex. I do have ‘non work’ sex and there is a small element of thinking it could have been monetised but the main issue is just wanting to save my energy for work. When I took a week away on holiday recently I was somewhere where there was plenty of opportunity and time for sex but I didn’t do anything! It was a genuine holiday from work, including sex 😂.

I contact other providers for work purposes, whether that’s to work together for clients or to collaborate for filming. I don’t do anything with them just for fun, it’s always got a business purpose. This is the trouble with doing sex work, getting paid for it, directly or indirectly means you feel like you’re giving away value if you have ‘free’ sex. That might sound weird to guys who don’t do sex work, and it feels strange to acknowledge it but it’s definitely a thing.

You were close enough to have me recognise the allusion! 👏

I know of no reason…. 😉

😱. Please don’t re-open that wound. It must never be mentioned here. Never!!!

I think the succession is secured for the next 100 years or so. Charles is proving to be a good King, he’s well liked and very well supported by the Queen. They clearly were meant for each other. William is like the late Queen Elizabeth, dutiful and fully aware of the role he’s destined to play. This model has worked more or less for over a thousand years (with a short break while we checked out Republicanism - which didn’t work here) so I think the institution will adapt and survive. It’s not good looks, charisma, eloquence or popularity that is needed to do the role, it’s a sense of destiny, determination and humility. William has those. Harry doesn’t.

Agree. It’s a bait and switch. You’ll get drawn in, probably pay a deposit and then your chosen masseur ‘Oliver’ or ‘Lucas’ won’t be available and you’ll get someone else who won’t look like Oliver or Lucas, if you get anything atall. Book me instead. I don’t look like those boys…but in a moodily lit room, with good ambiance and of course stimulated by my expert hands you can imagine I’m Oliver 😉. (And my 🍆is undoubtedly bigger than his too). Plus I’m real, less expensive and give a fabulous massage.

I’ve filmed with him. Great guy. Fabulous massage (although we didn’t do much massage 😂).

I’ve done all those for clients except 18, 22 and 38 😂.

Make sure the 3 guys can work well together, sounds like you’ve done that. Then let them know what you definitely don’t want (hate your toes being sucked? Tell them about it). Avoid setting out too prescriptive a list of what you do want because that can make it too choreographed. Tell them how you want to feel rather than what you want done. As in I want to feel like I’m your plaything, I want to feel slutty or whatever. They know how to make that happen because it’s their job. If you say I want to be DP’d while having my throat used then that becomes the fixation and it’s likely to make your session too focused on that activity. Let it happen naturally, it’s so much better.