Jamie21

It’s unfortunate but so many potential clients are just fishing for pics or sex chat with no or little intention to book. It makes one wary of engaging in too much back and forth to build a rapport. Plus there’s the time issue, how much time am I going to invest in a chat where someone is needing to be persuaded to book. Very little because those guys are usually flaky, they’ll book but then cancel nearer the time or even no show. So it’s not worth too much time to engage. Best approach is as someone said earlier ‘hi I’d like to book a session at 3 on Wednesday etc’. That will get a positive response. You can the ask any follow up questions. The best clients (those that get responses) have done their research and decided to book. It’s just a question of details after that.

Work time is extremely random because you never know when you’ll get clients and they tend to book with short notice (a few days in advance at most, often on the day). So you end up having wide working time availability to maximise bookings. That still leaves you kicking your heels sometimes so you have lots of ‘plan B’ activities ready in case no one books. It does mean lots of juggling and last minute changes of plan. I’m mainly available 10am to 10pm weekdays (that’s the window not the shift!!!) and weekends it’s daytime. The pattern I see is that most guys want to schedule within those broad times and Saturday or Sunday evening is quite unusual. I try to keep those times clear to do other pre planned things. That’s probably why you find guys more flaky those times. He probably was doing something else and took your booking in the expectation/hope he’d be free but it didn’t work out. He probably shouldn’t have taken it or he should have warmed you he might have to postpone when you booked. I decline the booking if there’s a good chance I’ll be delayed because it’s just too stressful trying to make the time and then giving a good service.

It’s not unusual or strange. I’m often asked to find another guy to work with by clients. Obviously it has to be at the client’s request, I would never foist it on them. I usually send the details of guys who I work with who I know are good (I don’t work with guys I’ve not met before) and ask the client to pick who he likes and then I try to set it up for the client. It’s part of the service and saves the client a lot of hassle. They pay me the total quoted and I settle up with the other guy. The client gets two guys who work well together, focused on the client, and doesn’t have to do much coordination.

I prefer not to count the cash when the client is present. I also prefer that they don’t hand it to me, not because I’m worried about some kind of law enforcement ‘trap’ (because it’s not illegal here to be paid for sex) but because it just feels a bit ‘off’ to take the cash by hand. I try to play down the transactional aspect of the experience. It’s much better for me if they just leave the cash somewhere visible for me. I’ll count it after they leave. It’s only been short once (by quite a lot!) so I messaged the client and he came back and was very apologetic because he had miscounted. Somehow if they pay by card it doesn’t have the same ‘off’ feeling about the transaction. I don’t know why!!

Being British of course now I’m embarrassed at having my own thread 🫣. Combine that with being needy for validation (why else would I have an Onlyfans?) and one can only imagine at how conflicted I feel right now….. but I think I’ll take the compliments from @FLFunSized and let my head grow as big as my 🍆. Thanks!! It was great to see you. X

Most of my friends know I do sex work. Those who didn’t approve aren’t friends any more! That’s not many to be fair. Most of them are intrigued by it, love to learn about it and are supportive. A few have been clients! (Although I find that a little awkward tbh). I’m careful about who else I tell (like family) because people can still be quite judgmental about it. Personally I don’t think it’s a bad thing to either sell sex or buy it. It’s liberating as long as it’s all done with agency.

If you have to ask for a review then you don’t deserve a good one! Reviews should be voluntarily given if they are to have any value. If my client says he loved the session immediately afterwards I sometimes say ‘feel free to leave a review if you want to’ because of course I love to see the feedback. If they didn’t like the session I’d rather they told me personally but it’s their call. What would I do if I was in your position? I’d probably ignore his request. If pressed I’d tell him he was great but not 5 star so I wouldn’t want to spoil his rating by giving him a 4, and I’d tell him why he wasn’t a 5. I’d stress that I still enjoyed it etc. Because he asked there’s no good outcome however. He simply shouldn’t have asked you.

You dodged a bullet. His ‘urgent need’ would have resulted in you paying him full rate upon booking and then him disappearing. That’s what I think would have happened had you sought to book him. Don’t hire guys off Sniffies. They are either scammers or are downright unprofessional. You’ll get conned or you’ll end up disappointed.

Just ask. If you want him to cum and then fuck him some more until you cum then it’s best to ask. I’m always appreciative of clients who ask for specifics if they want something that particularly gets them off. If I’m bottoming it’s more down to the skill of the top if I can continue to bottom after I’ve cum. I think a good top will slow down or stop briefly after the bottom cums and then start again after a couple of minutes. If he’s good then it’s likely I’ll get hard again.

Yes those are in call at my studio in central London. Out call is more and it depends where I’m going to. If it’s a local hotel it’s £20 more, but sometimes it’s at an airport hotel or out of London and that depends on how far away it is.

That’s exactly it. In a massage session I can decide how far I go (and it regularly goes quite far!!) but the essence is that I’m in control of the content. I also do escort sessions where the massage element is very secondary or none at all but that kind of session is only ever with clients who I’ve seen previously to give massage. I’ve found that doing an escort session is too stressful for me if I’ve never met the client before, especially if he expects me to top (and most escort session clients want that).

Everyone has different levels of service regarding what’s included in a sensual massage. I’m fine with clients sucking my dick. It usually happens when they’re on their front and I’m standing at their head working their neck or shoulders. They suck it for a few minutes. But it is a massage so a whole session of dick sucking would be an escort session for which a different rate applies. If you really want a session where you suck him to completion then you should ask for that up front to ensure he’s ok with it.

These are physical characteristics. Do you get my point? The best escorts disregard these. What matters is how you behave not what you look like.

Clients: providers are allowed to have preferences that they want to keep for their non work encounters. They can use hookup apps and express those preferences in any way they like on the app (fully aware that potential clients might see that and make decisions on hiring). This should be non controversial. I’m on apps and I selectively respond to certain guys that I like and I state my preferences. It’s not my work and shouldn’t be conflated with that. But I’m ALSO able to see any client (well…almost any client!) and make them feel like I really want to be there even if it wasn’t a financial transaction. If you think that me stating preferences for non work meetings impacts my ability to see any client in a work transaction setting then you’re fundamentally misunderstanding the nature of doing this kind of work. I guess that’s understandable because most clients simply couldn’t do the work and they view the issue from that perspective. But…that’s what makes a provider a provider: the ability to see anyone. Guys who know how that ability works (other providers) will know that physical characteristics aren’t the relevant factors.

Phuket…

I don’t need any information except their contact number or email and their first name (could be an assumed name). If they’re willing to share a bit about what they like then that’s fine, but it’s not necessary. I give them my website so they can see what I’m like and what I do so if they’re willing like what they see it’s likely their session will be good. The unsuitable clients tend to reveal themselves in how they approach me to book; two or more red flags and I’ll decline to book them.

It’s all part of your due diligence. Sensible to do that before deciding to hire. It’s his problem given that it’s caused him to lose business but perhaps he’s not bothered about that risk. Some masseurs actively or passively deter clients who they’re not especially attracted to. Those masseurs aren’t really proper masseurs; they’re just monetising their hookups. You’re best to avoid that type of masseur. The good guys don’t care what you look like (as long as you have no contra indications for massage).

I never use them for oral and I’ve never had a client ask me to use one. I’m always happy to give oral including if they want to cum in my mouth. Have never caught anything from it. Condom use for oral really detracts from the experience so I’m not surprised most clients don’t want them used for oral.

Send me a gift and I’ll look you up 😂

You got a good rating @mike carey 😉

Thanks! I hope it starts the day off well with a smile. It’s my British sense of humour. I hope it travels.

We already have a site. We discuss clients and share useful information about them such as dick size, body shape and whether they know how to suck a cock. They get a rating on various aspects of their ability as a client. There’s 8 scores that all add up to an overall rating. When you’ve seen a client you put his scores into the system and it calculates the client’s overall rating. That is then used to help us decide what to charge or indeed whether to respond atall to the client’s enquiry. The 8 scores are: 1) Desirability: 1 to 10 (where 10 is provider level desirability). Obviously on the site the scores 5 to 10 are greyed out since it’s not possible to award those. 2) Interest: 1 to 10. This is an indication of whether the client is able to hold a conversation on anything other than his desire to get off. 3) Communication: -10 to 10. An evaluation of his opening enquiry. ‘Hey’ gets a minus 10 score. Dick pics -11 which actually throws the system and deletes the client’s profile. The administrators are trying to fix that. Clients: don’t send dick pics if you want to keep your profile on the system. 4) Kindness: 1 to 3. The score used to go up to 10 but it never got used. 5) Hygiene : 1 to 10. This score has a multiplier. It’s worth 2X the other scores when calculating the overall rating. 6) Ease of use: 1 to 10. Includes aspects like does he arch his back or just lie there like a sack of potatoes. (Yes I’m thinking of you- yesterday’s client…you score 1 on this). 7) Ability: 1 to 6. Not much is expected tbh. 8). Defrayment: 1 to 10. Does he pay without haggling and how much is tipped. These 8 scores: or the D.I.C.K.H.E.A.D rating for short all add up over time to give us an indication of how suitable the client is to be seen. The system is hosted in the British Virgin Islands…so there’s no hassle with data protection. If any clients are wondering why they often get no reply from providers it could be they need to work on their Dickhead rating.

It’s short for cuckold. It means having sex with one partner while the other partner watches or is otherwise aware that the sex is happening (they could be in another room for example). The necessary thing is that the cuckold (the partner not participating) is humiliated by it. Often this is at the initiative of the cuckold who enjoys the humiliation of it, rather than it happening to them unwillingly. Either way, willingly or unwillingly they’re a cuckold. I do these sessions for clients occasionally, usually there’s a dynamic where the cuckold has a small cock and they enjoy the humiliation of a hung guy fucking their partner. The cuckold just watches and isn’t allowed to participate. They enjoy it more if the partner is clearly having a great time. It’s an interesting dynamic.

One of the reasons I stay here. To share my experience: There’s no correlation between being physically attractive and being sexy in bed. None whatsoever. Being sexy is about having self confidence, empathy and intuition. Plus some humour, intelligence and communication skills. The other misconception is that it’s mostly closeted ‘unattractive’ guys that hire. My experience is all sorts of guys hire.

As a provider with pictures and videos of me out there advertising my services I realise my body is going to get criticised. (Although the only criticism my cock has ever had is that it’s too big…just wanted to make that point…). Seriously if you do get sensitive about punters criticising your body then you probably shouldn’t be in this business. However, I think some of the very personal and cutting comment is guys being critical because taking you down makes them feel better about themselves. They’d love to do the work themselves but can’t, so they enjoy criticising those who do put themselves out there.