Jamie21

Although at least if you’re the one making the call then you can do it from a discreet and quiet location. I’ve answered calls before whilst shopping in the supermarket. It’s difficult to describe a sensual massage in terms of a shopping list …. “Yes your er 🍆 is rubbed, you can touch my 🍑….oh and of course there’s plenty of 🥛”

My oldest client is in his late 70’s. He’s fantastic. I get as much pleasure from seeing him enjoy himself as I do clients in their 20’s. I do understand the perception that somehow it’s more fun with a young fit guy. I’d have said that too before I started doing massage. I did wonder at the start of doing this work if I’d be able to be the same with every client but actually I find that’s not the challenge at all. Now that I’ve been doing sensual massage for years and seen all sorts of clients I can definitely say that age or body type makes no difference to my approach (except that I’ll be less firm with someone who’s less muscular). The biggest challenge isn’t their age or physical appearance, it’s their attitude. Some older guys take longer to get hard or climax so that’s different but otherwise I find most people regardless of age are looking for similar things; a relaxing proper massage, some intimacy, some fun and to feel at ease and be themselves. If the person I’m seeing is coming for those reasons then it’s great. If their attitude is they just want to use me to get off then it doesn’t work. Fortunately I can screen those type of clients out before they book. The driver for me is that my client is enjoying themselves. The more they enjoy our session the better it is for me…in a virtuous circle kind of way. If a 75 year old has great time then so did I. Age is irrelevant. Attitude is everything.

Awesome! I never knew that. Must see that musical 🙂

Yes this. Mindless fucks may be had on hook up apps but someone professional who is focused on your enjoyment and who understands male arousal (or female arousal for that matter) is usually more often found via providers. I think the biggest sex organ is the brain, start there and work down 😉.

I’ve no axe to grind with you, I’m just trying to explain that I think you’re viewing something as binary when it really isn’t so. At one end of the spectrum is pure escorting, at the other end is therapeutic massage, however there is a middle point where the two merge; aspects of massage and aspects of escorting. That’s where I operate and where I think many on Rentmasseur do too. There’s a market for it evidently, hence the number of providers on Rentmasseur. I apologise if I misread you but it does seem to be that you’re more annoyed at the rates being requested on Rentmasseur than the nature of the service provided?

I’m not suggesting you do need to experience it, but many do. No I disagree that Rentmasseur is to be geared as a massage site. It’s completely legitimate to offer a proper massage (by someone who is trained) and include as part of that sexual services. There’s a demand for it, and Rentmasseur serves that market. In some jurisdictions (fortunately not mine) guys offering sexual services as part of massage have to be discreet about it. I expect that’s why some of the adverts on there are ambiguous. It sounds like you’re wanting to order an Italian dish in a Mexican restaurant so to speak. If you want Mexican go to a Mexican restaurant. Don’t complain that there’s only Pizza and Pasta on the menu in an Italian restaurant.

I think that if you’re looking for therapeutic only massage then there’s probably more appropriate sites than Rentmasseur. Just look at the pictures on Rentmasseur, most of the masseurs are wearing very little and it’s clear that the service is more than a spa style massage. If you’re looking for therapeutic only on Rentmasseur you’ll not find it very easily. Also if you equate a Grindr fuck with a session with a good escort or masseur then you’re not comparing like with like.

Versatile. To be a good top it’s important to know how to bottom.

Unfortunately it’s hit and miss. You can ask the therapist about what’s included for the price etc but until you try him out you’ll never know for sure whether his massage style / technique is good for you. I see clients who just want a great massage done by a guy, some even don’t want me to do it naked. There’s no sexual arousal included - at their request. They just like the massage but my rate is the same. Other clients like the massage to progress quickly to more of an escort type session. Kind of half massage and half sex. Usually that’s an outcall and the massage is on a bed. Unless I’m bottoming the rate is the same. I think it ruins the session if we have to stop part way through for me to say “oh that’s extra, are you ok to pay for that” or to stop from doing something that has progressed naturally because it wasn’t in the pre paid menu. I charge extra to bottom in a massage because of the extra time it takes to prepare but that’s the only extra.

I didn’t realise it was possible to tell the difference either. There are sites where you can check out numbers against lists of known troublemakers. I occasionally use them. Sometimes I get calls from ‘number withheld’ and I don’t answer them. If someone wants to avoid revealing their number they can always reach me and book via email. Otherwise I’ll answer calls from any number but I prefer clients to text or WhatsApp first. If they want to talk then we can arrange a time for a phone call. Why don’t I like answering random calls? Because invariably the caller will ask about what happens etc and I’m usually not in a position to discuss all the details in case I’m overheard. Therefore I prefer that we arrange a time via text and then I can make sure I’m somewhere discreet for a conversation. I find the older clients prefer to book via a phone call. Sometimes it is nice to talk and answer questions in person. Texts can be misinterpreted but of course it is easier to arrange via text when people are busy.

I get back and bum waxed, including my crack. It’s not very hairy but I like the feeling of smoothness and if I’m filming then a smooth bum looks better on camera I think. I don’t wax my balls because the trouble with waxing is that the hair needs to grow a bit before it’s possible to have it waxed (otherwise it doesn’t come out) and I like my balls smooth every day, so I shave them daily. My wax guy is very thorough and after my crack has been waxed he gets his tweezers and pulls out any remaining hairs whilst I’m on my hands and knees on his table. We discuss the weather or what was on TV last night while he wields his tweezers on the stubborn hairs around my hole. It’s truly the strangest and least erotic thing I’ve ever experienced whilst being naked and on all fours with another guy. I kind of hope that to end the session on a high he’s going to get turned on at the sight of my freshly smooth bum and he will grab my thighs pulling my hole to his mouth and bury his tongue deep inside… but instead he just wipes it with a baby wipe and says “all done” and I say “good, thanks” and we behave ourselves. He’s a professional but I can dream can’t I?

No I’ve never seen that site before.

I’ll keep this on topic. I got condoms supplied by BA in my complimentary night bag on a Business class flight to from LHR to JFK….or was that just the cute cabin crew guy hitting on me? 😉

I do bareback in porn. It’s the self produced kind (justforfans) so there’s no certification or anything like that. It’s almost a necessity to do bb in porn. I’d get far fewer subscribers if my porn showed condoms. All the guys I shoot with are doing bareback too. All are on Prep, and so am I. The sexual health clinic I use is excellent and I test very regularly so I feel relatively confident to do bb. The problem is if I do catch something then I’m not able to work for a couple of weeks. As a masseur I don’t routinely top for clients, it’s not something I include or promise, and my clients generally have no expectation for that. However it does sometimes happen (with regular clients) or if I’m booked for an escort style session. In those instances I usually bareback unless the client wants me to use a condom. I think the flow of the session works better without having to stop to wear a condom, plus it’s just a better feeling. Of course there are risks, as with anything.

Some would hope that the friend/electrician/whoever might arrive while the action is still taking place and join in. I’m very anxious to turn up on time for my clients and definitely don’t want to mess up their schedule. However the prospect of a visitor showing up during the session is quite exciting! An audience or another willing participant is not a bad thing for me. Probably best to say your mother is visiting…that would focus minds 🙂

I like the surprise of what my client looks like when I open the door. Some clients send pics but I really don’t want them, it’s much better to not know what the client looks like. I met a client a few months ago at his hotel. He said he’d have his partner with him this time. That’s fine by me, as long as they know what the meeting is about. I’ve seen the client on his own previously, he’s around 55 and in average shape. He likes me to massage him on the bed (I don’t like bed massage but hey, he’s paying so he calls the shots) and he enjoys a lot of body contact and sucking etc. Lovely guy and he seems to enjoy my style as he’s a regular. I didn’t know what to expect by way of his partner, or what they both wanted. I just assumed they’d each have a massage and it would probably end up with the 3 of us at some point during the session. My client doesn’t specify a duration and as it’s a hotel out call I usually block out at least 3 hours just in case. I turn up to the hotel on the day and text to say I’m in the lobby (hotel requires key to access the lift, it’s one of those 5 star ones in central London). My client says he’ll be down to get me. As the lift opens I see my client (he’s very recognisable) and with him is a slim dark haired and olive skinned female I’m guessing around 35, who he introduces to me as his partner. This was a big surprise to me, I’d expected a guy as his partner…although I hadn’t completely discounted a female partner. In the lift to the room she is chatty and very engaging. Once we’re in the room my client says he’d like to watch me massage his partner, so that’s what happens. I massage her as he watches (fine with me, an audience is always welcome) and he occasionally gives us direction. She’s very responsive and interactive so the massage goes well. For me the surprise was a good thing. Had I been sent a pic beforehand it would probably have taken the edge off the session. I do wonder whether my client had hired her for the session. They clearly knew each other and were very comfortable but I got the feeling she was a professional. Anyway my client was happy and he saw a good show lol.

I mean a good proportion of the 50% of enquiries that don’t end up as bookings are because I wasn’t available at the time they wanted. Some don’t book because I’m too expensive, some don’t book because I’m a guy (yes, I get enquiries believing I’m female…some of them are hilarious) and one last week thought I was based in Australia (God knows why?). So it’s often just practical reasons they don’t book, not because they’re being flaky.

That’s an interesting concept. I’ve had clients who like to be blindfolded (especially during an undressing ritual at the start). I find that I’m often not looking at the body, since feel can be improved if you have your eyes closed but I’d not want to massage blindfolded because sometimes it’s important to see the body. I’m thinking of looking for skin conditions, varicose veins or injuries that the client might not have mentioned. It’s not very sexy but hey one has to think of these things when massaging!! Plus if I’m going to suck his cock I like to visually check out it’s suitable to go down my throat if you know what I mean.

100% agree with @Storm4U. When clients contact with a request to book stating a day, time and duration then they’re not going to flake. There’s loads of information about me, pics (even a demo video), my massage styles, location, rates, testimonials etc for anyone to make a decision to hire me before contacting me, so that by the time they contact they’re already committed to book. Then it’s just practical questions about the session and any requests they have. Those that begin the message with ‘I’d love a massage’ or ‘hey sexy’ or ‘how much is it?’ or even worse…a dick or bum pic…are highly unlikely to book and it’s pointless me engaging with them beyond my initial response. I simply direct them to my website and say if they’d like to book a time to let me know the date/time/duration they’d like. 50% of my enquiries end up as bookings, and 99% of those booked turn up. No deposits are taken, no ‘sex chats’ are engaged in, no bargaining over rates happens - I never discount, and no fantasists are indulged. But I’ll bend over backwards (literally 😂) for genuine clients who appreciate great sensual massage, especially my regular clients.

Could mean 4 hands ( which can be therapeutic but is more usually erotic) or some special type such as one done on a futon or floor or even one with restraints etc. I read it as a ‘catch all’ so that a provider can indicate they are open to providing more esoteric massage styles. So if his advert says ‘other’ it’s an invitation to ask for something unusual or hybrid. I’ve given all sorts, therapeutic, sensual, erotic, 4 hands, 6 hands, duo, tandem, restrained, tickling, on floor, on bed, on table, on screen (live streamed demo to an audience on all 5 continents). There are as many varieties of massage as your imagination can dream up!

Just don’t smoke ok?

Drugs paraphernalia. If the client is drunk. Others in the room whom I had not expected to be there (I love an audience of course but I do need to know who they are). If he’s a cop, great! I love a guy in uniform. None of these has ever happened to me.

Oh I’m sure that you take the work very seriously @Jarrod_Uncut. I wasn’t including you in the 80% 🙂. Though I do argue that “after 7:30” is too vague…”between 7:30 and 8” is better. Most of the issues between mismatched expectations arise from wrong assumptions made by either party so I try to reduce the risk of those happening.

That seems too vague for me. “After 7” could mean anytime after 7. I would have said “ok I’ll turn up at 7:30 is that ok?”. I always book clients for a specific time. I’m finding that clients like promptness and clarity around arrangements and this is good. I have many demands on my life, I do other work, so having my day planned is important (even though I like dong things spontaneously). I find the worst culprits for flakiness and not committing to plans are models who I film porn with. Clients are easy to deal with in comparison to filming partners. I have one of those ‘fans only sites’ (justforfans) for my massage porn. I need to shoot regular content because the fans expect a new movie every couple of weeks. Arranging the sessions is even more difficult than dealing with flaky clients. I have to coordinate a location (hotel or studio), my filming/lighting guy, the model who will perform with me, agree with them what we will shoot etc. A few models are very professional and we get it done easily but most just seem to film content randomly at the last minute on their phone…it looks rubbish. I now think that unfortunately many people in the sex work industry take a very casual view of it - hirers, sex workers, and those providing other services. There’s probably 20% of those involved taking a professional attitude as is more often seen in other areas of business and 80% viewing it as trivial and amateur. For me it’s my work, I like to take a serious approach and do it right. It’s actually much more fun and enjoyable work when it’s done well.

Yes that’s exactly it. Can be very dangerous. That’s why it’s always advised to hydrate properly after a massage too.