Jamie21

Yeah they tell me you’re a bit off on Tuesdays.

I’m in awe….😍😍😍 Although why is Thursday ‘R’ and Sunday ‘X’?

Is there a chart to show most popular day of the week? I bet there is 🙂 For me it’s Tuesday…strangely

I do love a stats guy. Updated my spreadsheet last night (a very NYE thing to do).

Not here it isn’t.

Everything happens sometimes!

I’ve come across clients who like to get a discount. I think it’s because they enjoy the feeling of getting something that others don’t, a kind of ego boost. They can tell themselves it was because they’re hot or are cleverer than the sex worker. But it’s also my prerogative to decline a discount. After all, I assume the client doesn’t choose to do his work for less than his rate does he? “Hi boss, I’ll work today for 20% less because you’re a hot employer”. No, that doesn’t happen does it. Also, the assumption that because someone doesn’t discount they don’t pay taxes on their income is a false equivalence. In fact I’d say it’s more likely they are punctilious about such things if they are treating the job professionally. Receipts are offered (clients pay by card, it’s easy, I just press a button on my card reader and it sends a receipt). Most don’t want one surprisingly enough lol.

All the comments on here about getting reduced prices because you’re hot seem to be from guys who aren’t sex workers. That’s interesting, and I infer from it that they don’t really understand the nature of the work. I’d have made those same assumptions before I started doing it. I charge the same rate regardless of what he (or she) looks like. In fact, I don’t want to know what my client looks like until they walk through the door. It simply doesn’t matter. All the other sex workers I know are the same. It’s not being PC either. It’s simply having a rule never to discount. I get young guys contacting me asking for student discounts, or free sessions because they think I’d be attracted to them. The answer is ‘sorry no discounts’. Why? Because this is work. I’m not doing it for recreation, I’m not doing it for fun (even though I enjoy it) but I’m also not doing it for free. Free implies I don’t value my work, so why would I do that?

I prefer clients book via my website or WhatsApp/text message. It’s because in the past I’ve had bookings in my calendar and I’ve needed to contact them ahead of the session but it’s been a hell of a job to work out how the booking was made. I probably should note the source when I update my calendar. That can be a new year habit! The problem is that my clients have booked via all sorts of routes: phone call (yes, that still happens!), text message, via various messaging apps, email, Twitter DM, via my profile on various websites, RentMasseur message, on Scruff and even one time someone booked in person whilst we chatted at the gym. It becomes difficult to manage. So I find it simpler to encourage the final booking to be via WhatsApp or text. That way I can find it easily should I need to contact them. I do find that older clients prefer to book via a phone call. Questions can be asked, and you get more of a sense of the person than via written word. It’s nice, although it is sometimes difficult to talk detail unless I’m somewhere discreet.

Diet helps too. High fibre diet is best. If I’m bottoming for someone especially hung or if it’s going to be a long session with lots of different positions then I’ll use a shower attachment a few hours beforehand, and then a last minute check with a bulb douche.

I find it’s easier to schedule with clients on a messenger app like WhatsApp or Telegram, or Signal. I’m generally not checking my RentMasseur profile although I have a notification set for any messages so that I don’t miss them. It’s just easier and more instant to deal with the booking arrangements via a messenger app rather than a website.

I ask clients to leave their shoes outside the door (they’re safe, in a hallway). It’s to keep the floor clean but the added benefit is they can’t get far without their shoes if they’re going to do a runner!

My advice remains though, don’t pay deposit unless you’re prepared to lose the money. I’m trying to view it from the hirer perspective. I have incurred costs because clients didn’t turn up (not as much as an airfare or hotel booking but still I’ve spent money travelling or had opportunity cost of lost alternative bookings) so I do understand how annoying and painful it is to have someone flake on you last minute. But from a client’s perspective I think the risk of being naive and paying a deposit to a bad actor in this business is high. I’m saying when you book a provider think with your head not your dick. Your wallet will appreciate it.

Yes, I don’t request deposits. I’d say to anyone booking a provider to not pay a deposit unless you can afford to lose the money because that’s the risk. Pay deposits with full awareness of what you’re risking. I don’t travel though so my circumstances don’t really require deposits. Also I have a sense for flaky clients and simply don’t take bookings from them. After years working in the industry you get to see the signs. On the rare occasion a client fails to show up without a reasonable explanation then I report them to a site that we use to share info on time wasters, and I block their number.

Oh dear this one comes up with regularity! If he mentions erotic or sensual massage then you can be comfortable asking him what he’s prepared to include in that. It’s best to be clear about what you want. Masseur’s advertising erotic or sensual will be open to most questions but if you want full sex then I think many would decline that because they’re not generally charging escort type rates. I prefer clients to ask me about what they’re looking for because the term ‘sensual’ is very open to different interpretations.

And the answers: 1: don’t do it 2: don’t do it 3: don’t do it 4: do it (please 🙂).

I agree with @nycman and @dbar123. Half his fee sounds like a significant sum and must be extremely annoying to lose. I’m sorry to hear it. But I think you should definitely not chase your loss by going through with meeting him.

He’s a professional (or is supposed to be). He shouldn’t need to know why, nor should he be chasing you for business. It’s not like he’s being faithful to you is it…so why should it work that you only hire him? I don’t think it right that you should treat it like a relationship break up: “Hey!…I met a younger, hotter guy. I’m just trying him out but if he isn’t up to the mark then I might come back to you…but only if you get your act together on X Y and Z. Have a great day”. Hmmmm …no, that doesn’t sound good however you phrase it. Just tell him you’re not hiring right now. If he’s wise he’ll understand why. If he doesn’t understand why then you can be sure that any explanation by you wouldn’t have landed well, and would have surely jeopardised the chances of any future sessions being pleasant.

Next time you visit London…

There are very few indeed who do not compare unfavourably to Tolstoy.

It is fabulous. It ought to be though because it cost £25 billion to build. Pity about the wifi though, on the older parts of the tube it’s kind of nice to put your phone away and just watch people or read a book. Of course one would never interact or talk with a stranger on the tube, NEVER!…. even if someone is completely naked sitting next to you one just carries on as if nothing is happening. Reminds me of a time on the Piccadilly line late one evening. Carriage was half full, a couple got on at Leicester Square. They were quite well lubricated (drunk) and proceeded to kiss vigorously as they stood in the centre by doors. As the doors closed and the train pulled away she went down on her partner…clearly sucking him off. My fellow passengers exchanged a few glances, but no one said anything. Some people didn’t even notice what was happening. We were going eastbound and just before the train reached the next station the girl had very proficiently brought him to a climax, tucked his cock back in his trousers, wiped her face on his t shirt and stood up as they both exited the train at Covent Garden. As the train door closed behind the amorous couple an old guy next to me said “oh I don’t know why they didn’t walk that, it’s much quicker to walk from Leicester Square to Covent Garden”. London at its finest.

Baby oil is disgusting to use in a massage. It’s the wrong type of oil. I warm up the bottle of oil and generally apply it with my hands but sometimes drip it from the bottle too, if say one of my hands is occupied elsewhere, for example my hand is around his cock and it’s getting close. You can’t stop to apply oil at this point so best thing is to use the other hand to squirt some oil from the bottle and keep the other hand working his cock to climax!

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Hey thanks!! I really appreciate that 🙂. Cheers!

I agree with all that. Onlyfans and Justforfans are very careful about what gets posted. When I film with other registered models it’s ok because they have already provided their ID to the platform, as have I. If I film with an amateur volunteer then they have to provide their approval on the site and provide ID to confirm they are over 18. The credit card companies would not allow the sites to accept payments if these checks were not in place. Also agree about the production quality. Good films need proper lighting, lots of cameras and performers who know where the cameras are!