Jamie21

Just ask. If you want him to cum and then fuck him some more until you cum then it’s best to ask. I’m always appreciative of clients who ask for specifics if they want something that particularly gets them off. If I’m bottoming it’s more down to the skill of the top if I can continue to bottom after I’ve cum. I think a good top will slow down or stop briefly after the bottom cums and then start again after a couple of minutes. If he’s good then it’s likely I’ll get hard again.

Yes those are in call at my studio in central London. Out call is more and it depends where I’m going to. If it’s a local hotel it’s £20 more, but sometimes it’s at an airport hotel or out of London and that depends on how far away it is.

That’s exactly it. In a massage session I can decide how far I go (and it regularly goes quite far!!) but the essence is that I’m in control of the content. I also do escort sessions where the massage element is very secondary or none at all but that kind of session is only ever with clients who I’ve seen previously to give massage. I’ve found that doing an escort session is too stressful for me if I’ve never met the client before, especially if he expects me to top (and most escort session clients want that).

Everyone has different levels of service regarding what’s included in a sensual massage. I’m fine with clients sucking my dick. It usually happens when they’re on their front and I’m standing at their head working their neck or shoulders. They suck it for a few minutes. But it is a massage so a whole session of dick sucking would be an escort session for which a different rate applies. If you really want a session where you suck him to completion then you should ask for that up front to ensure he’s ok with it.

These are physical characteristics. Do you get my point? The best escorts disregard these. What matters is how you behave not what you look like.

Clients: providers are allowed to have preferences that they want to keep for their non work encounters. They can use hookup apps and express those preferences in any way they like on the app (fully aware that potential clients might see that and make decisions on hiring). This should be non controversial. I’m on apps and I selectively respond to certain guys that I like and I state my preferences. It’s not my work and shouldn’t be conflated with that. But I’m ALSO able to see any client (well…almost any client!) and make them feel like I really want to be there even if it wasn’t a financial transaction. If you think that me stating preferences for non work meetings impacts my ability to see any client in a work transaction setting then you’re fundamentally misunderstanding the nature of doing this kind of work. I guess that’s understandable because most clients simply couldn’t do the work and they view the issue from that perspective. But…that’s what makes a provider a provider: the ability to see anyone. Guys who know how that ability works (other providers) will know that physical characteristics aren’t the relevant factors.

Phuket…

I don’t need any information except their contact number or email and their first name (could be an assumed name). If they’re willing to share a bit about what they like then that’s fine, but it’s not necessary. I give them my website so they can see what I’m like and what I do so if they’re willing like what they see it’s likely their session will be good. The unsuitable clients tend to reveal themselves in how they approach me to book; two or more red flags and I’ll decline to book them.

It’s all part of your due diligence. Sensible to do that before deciding to hire. It’s his problem given that it’s caused him to lose business but perhaps he’s not bothered about that risk. Some masseurs actively or passively deter clients who they’re not especially attracted to. Those masseurs aren’t really proper masseurs; they’re just monetising their hookups. You’re best to avoid that type of masseur. The good guys don’t care what you look like (as long as you have no contra indications for massage).

I never use them for oral and I’ve never had a client ask me to use one. I’m always happy to give oral including if they want to cum in my mouth. Have never caught anything from it. Condom use for oral really detracts from the experience so I’m not surprised most clients don’t want them used for oral.

Send me a gift and I’ll look you up 😂

You got a good rating @mike carey 😉

Thanks! I hope it starts the day off well with a smile. It’s my British sense of humour. I hope it travels.

We already have a site. We discuss clients and share useful information about them such as dick size, body shape and whether they know how to suck a cock. They get a rating on various aspects of their ability as a client. There’s 8 scores that all add up to an overall rating. When you’ve seen a client you put his scores into the system and it calculates the client’s overall rating. That is then used to help us decide what to charge or indeed whether to respond atall to the client’s enquiry. The 8 scores are: 1) Desirability: 1 to 10 (where 10 is provider level desirability). Obviously on the site the scores 5 to 10 are greyed out since it’s not possible to award those. 2) Interest: 1 to 10. This is an indication of whether the client is able to hold a conversation on anything other than his desire to get off. 3) Communication: -10 to 10. An evaluation of his opening enquiry. ‘Hey’ gets a minus 10 score. Dick pics -11 which actually throws the system and deletes the client’s profile. The administrators are trying to fix that. Clients: don’t send dick pics if you want to keep your profile on the system. 4) Kindness: 1 to 3. The score used to go up to 10 but it never got used. 5) Hygiene : 1 to 10. This score has a multiplier. It’s worth 2X the other scores when calculating the overall rating. 6) Ease of use: 1 to 10. Includes aspects like does he arch his back or just lie there like a sack of potatoes. (Yes I’m thinking of you- yesterday’s client…you score 1 on this). 7) Ability: 1 to 6. Not much is expected tbh. 8). Defrayment: 1 to 10. Does he pay without haggling and how much is tipped. These 8 scores: or the D.I.C.K.H.E.A.D rating for short all add up over time to give us an indication of how suitable the client is to be seen. The system is hosted in the British Virgin Islands…so there’s no hassle with data protection. If any clients are wondering why they often get no reply from providers it could be they need to work on their Dickhead rating.

It’s short for cuckold. It means having sex with one partner while the other partner watches or is otherwise aware that the sex is happening (they could be in another room for example). The necessary thing is that the cuckold (the partner not participating) is humiliated by it. Often this is at the initiative of the cuckold who enjoys the humiliation of it, rather than it happening to them unwillingly. Either way, willingly or unwillingly they’re a cuckold. I do these sessions for clients occasionally, usually there’s a dynamic where the cuckold has a small cock and they enjoy the humiliation of a hung guy fucking their partner. The cuckold just watches and isn’t allowed to participate. They enjoy it more if the partner is clearly having a great time. It’s an interesting dynamic.

One of the reasons I stay here. To share my experience: There’s no correlation between being physically attractive and being sexy in bed. None whatsoever. Being sexy is about having self confidence, empathy and intuition. Plus some humour, intelligence and communication skills. The other misconception is that it’s mostly closeted ‘unattractive’ guys that hire. My experience is all sorts of guys hire.

As a provider with pictures and videos of me out there advertising my services I realise my body is going to get criticised. (Although the only criticism my cock has ever had is that it’s too big…just wanted to make that point…). Seriously if you do get sensitive about punters criticising your body then you probably shouldn’t be in this business. However, I think some of the very personal and cutting comment is guys being critical because taking you down makes them feel better about themselves. They’d love to do the work themselves but can’t, so they enjoy criticising those who do put themselves out there.

Well, I’m not going anywhere. So everyone is going to have to put up with my opinions and subtle put downs 😂. One has to fight for civility, decency and the ability to refer to one’s self in the first person… This forum is just a slice of the whole population. There will always be some shallow, un-self-aware, or even malevolent people in any group. They stand out because of their behaviour. They spoil the view of course but they do serve to highlight the contrast of the good stuff that exists if you can keep them in check. I see ignorant comments where guys resort to ad hominem attacks when they can’t argue the point. (That usually gets stopped by the moderators). I also see some quite astonishing ignorance and prejudice about working in the business which sometimes I try to address but then I get told I’m wrong by guys who aren’t providers (strange word btw). Then there’s those who are purely superficial who comment on providers looks as if that’s all the guy has to offer. It’s all here. I have to go back to my point about this place being a microcosm of society. The trouble is society is pretty bad right now where we have leaders who display all of those characteristics: shallow, bombastic, disregarding of experience and expertise, and even sometimes malevolent. Is it any wonder those of a similar nature feel emboldened when they see supposed leaders behaving like this? I know politics isn’t allowed…(moderators please don’t take this down!) but I’m not taking a political side: leaders of right and left are like it. I’m pointing out that when we ignore or hide from these bad actors we allow them to grow and become emboldened. Eventually you run out of hiding places and have to tackle them, so you should never let them get away with it. Ridicule them, hold the mirror up, argue, undermine and challenge them.

If you book through the licensed massage route all you’ll get is a therapeutic massage. Don’t try to make that session an erotic or sensual type of massage: you won’t have paid for that kind of massage (which will undoubtedly be more expensive) and he will not risk his license by offering that kind of massage in a therapeutic session. It’s a definite mistake to try and turn a therapeutic session into something different. Only the masseur can do that. If you want the massage to be sexual then book it via the other route and ask him what activities are included (if it isn’t clear from his advertising). Guys have different definitions of what erotic or sensual involves, so check with him. He might be coy about it if this is in the US where such discussion of payment for sexual services is unlawful, but in grown up countries it’s safe to have such adult conversations. Guys who do both types of massage will keep both services very separate. Different names, different platforms to advertise, different contact arrangements. If you don’t separate them you risk confusing your clients, offending them, losing your license, and giving sexual services for therapeutic prices. Also, someone mentioned to see if he advertises on RentMasseur. Every masseur advertising on that platform includes sexual services as part of massage. It’s the go to site for that kind of massage. Guys offering only licensed massage simply won’t be on there.

Yes agree. I’d add however that if I genuinely wasn’t what someone thought they were hiring or my service wasn’t professional enough then I’d expect that they raised it with me privately first to give me a chance to explain or rectify it. I don’t mind fair criticism (call it feedback: which is a gift) but I’d rather it given to me first before it’s shared everywhere. The kind of review on here that says ‘x was good but for these things y and a which I raised with him and this was his reply’ is much more informative than ‘I didn’t like x’.

Don’t tell everyone Mike! 😱

I’ve done it a few times…hired to be the catalyst at sex parties, although these events were the type where people pay to attend. The organiser wanted to make sure there was a couple of guys happy to go with anyone at the party and who would bring those who were more anxious about participating in the action into things. They were quite large parties (60 people) so there’s always a mix of chat, action in various groups or one to one and just making sure everyone gets to have a good time.

Yeah I know. Thanks for confirming it for me. <<stands back awaiting abuse>>

This isn’t a site to promote your services on. There are much better places to advertise. No provider will waste their time creating profiles to influence their reputation on here. Providers are well aware of the existence of sites like this (and LPSG, Justusboys etc). You just set up a google alert or similar to report to you when your name is mentioned. You find everything. Most don’t engage for the reasons already mentioned: there’s little upside, you can spend the time better, and tbh the site has a reputation…

I don’t think that would happen. A few might try to pose as clients but it would mean going to the bother of creating lots of different profiles: a waste of time. As for ruining the reputation of other providers well that’s something that reveals to me exactly why it’s important for providers like me to comment on here… because that perception that we are competitive is wrong. We’re cooperative. I know dozens of other providers and none of them are competitive. I’ve received so much help and advice from other guys and helped them too. Whilst I do engage on here, I’m very wary of what I say because of the issues that other providers have recounted earlier in this discussion. But I think on balance it’s better to engage, and educate (and be educated) than to disengage. Most people on here seem reasonable. I know I’ve had a few clients off here, and those guys have been great clients. Also I think the site is well moderated. While that persists I’ll continue to participate.