Jamie21

It’s not quite as simple as that though. I’m up for clients filming their session with me, but only if they sign a consent and release form (online) for me to publish it on OnlyFans. You can’t simply publish a film on Onlyfans without all the participants agreement provided on the Onlyfans platform. Most clients, when confronted with putting their real name and ID into OnlyFans decide they’d rather not do it! So no filming happens. I’m ok if they want a few pics or a short clip but that’s just for them to keep, it doesn’t get published. Filming the whole session for them to keep is not happening, it’s too intrusive and distracting. Yesterday I had a client want a couple of pics of me and him during the session so he could show his wife. Happy to oblige with that.

It’s the worst part. But you can learn to spot the signs of a flake. They all have them. Long chats for over an hour on the plans is a definite red flag for flakiness. If the chat goes on for ages about what they want to happen then basically I discount the booking as being unlike happen and I won’t do anything to prepare or commit to it. When the time comes to commit (last minute to douche or travel or whatever) I send a message asking him to confirm and if I get no response then I take it as a cancellation. Nothing lost on my side except the time chatting. What happens is like @PhileasFoggsays. They book when horny. When the time comes they’re no longer horny and the prospect of a real situation freaks them out. It’s usually guys on the down low. They watch porn, think it will be fun, build up a fantasy while booking and then come the day it’s all too much so they go quiet and ignore you like you’re just some loser who doesn’t deserve the respect of a message saying ‘sorry I changed my mind’. I keep their number, because sure enough in a years time they’ve forgotten, it all happens again and this time when they message me I can say ‘last time you no showed so I’m not dealing with you, goodbye’.

I never do sessions where I don’t know the other guy. I need to be comfortable with who I’m working with. If I was a client booking multiple providers my advice would be to book your favourite guy and then ask him for suggestions of additional guys. He’ll go to those guys he knows are good. You can then choose which of these you like and the chances of getting someone who will derail the session will be zero. Get your main guy to do all the arrangements over fees etc and you just settle up with him.

This happens the other way around too. I ran into a client at a naked beach in Mykonos. He was with his husband. He saw me walking along at the edge of the sea. Told me he recognised my cock first 😂.

I agree the rates with the guys I’m working with and simply quote the client the total rate. Almost every time the split is equal between us but occasionally a guy has a higher rate. That’s fine, everyone needs to be comfortable doing the job for a rate they’re happy with.

I’ve filmed a porn film with him. Great guy, big cock. Even bigger than mine 🤪

They might outwardly present or describe themselves as straight, many are married (I see a ring on their finger), some tell me they are exploring, occasionally they say I’m their first experience with a guy but if they’re contacting me they aren’t 100% straight. I don’t think it matters. I just want to know what they are looking for not what label they give themselves.

I’m always surprised when the client wants to top me bare and he asks if I’m on prep. I am of course, and I’m fine to get fucked bare, but me being on prep should be of no interest to the client. I tell him, it’s protecting me, the important question is are you on prep. Amazingly some aren’t on prep yet they’re happy to bareback. What they should ask is how frequently I get tested.

I’ve been hired for this kind of thing. Sex isn’t the point of the hire, nor is massage. It could happen but the purpose of the session is connection, companionship and closeness (physically and emotionally). If those things are achieved then sex sometimes happens just because you’re intimate with someone. There’s no pressure or expectation to have sex. We have done things like have a meal, bathe together, watch TV, go for a walk, visit a sauna, swim, gym session, lay in bed cuddling. The important thing is you do what the client wants, focus on them.

It’s happened with me a couple of times where my client has asked if they can swap roles for a little bit of the session. They were ok at it but it makes me anxious and I can’t relax, maybe because I think they’ll do something wrong and injure me. I much prefer to be giving the massage.

Lube up your hole before you travel.

That’s not a barrier for me to be able to release. I can get there (you just play a scene in your head that gets you there) but what is a barrier is how many times I’ve cum already that day. If you’re a client and you definitely want him to cum then tell him when you book so he can save it for you.

Yes, book in advance. I’ve someone booked for next May! That’s extreme. If you leave it to ‘hey are you available today?’ I probably reply with ‘sorry I’m busy’ because I plan things ahead. I’ll probably have someone booked, or another commitment. Last minute rarely works. Last minute clients are usually flaky anyway; they haven’t mentally committed to it, it’s a whim. ‘Hey, free now / next hour or so’ is a big red flag.

Yes there is a look that content creators will go for. I film with some extremely sexy guys, they look fabulous but let me say that that doesn’t mean they’re easy collabs. What you see in the final edit belies the fact that there may not have been much chemistry. The action is performative. We get a decent looking film but there’s not really any 🔥. Whereas sometimes with ‘average’ looking guys who might think they couldn’t be in porn there’s absolute fireworks and insane chemistry so the film works great and you can see we are really into each other and it’s hot. That’s why I like to mix it up and film with all sorts of guys. If you live somewhere with lots of OF creators try asking a few if you can be in a film. You’ll need to do release forms and provide ID etc for it to be published but that’s reasonably straightforward.

I’m not familiar with Tinder, but I do know Grindr although I’ve not used it in ages because I got banned from it (it’s now on my spare phone lol). Does it now have a matching feature? I thought it was just pages of nearby hookup opportunities? I have found guys to film content with me for my JustforFans from hookup apps or other similar sites. It’s more difficult to find random guys for my Onlyfans though because Onlyfans have more stringent processes to ensure release forms etc have been completed. Many guys make a lot more money from filming Onlyfans films than they do from seeing clients. This is why I think they prefer to just do Onlyfans. The content grows subscriptions, so that it’s possible to earn tens or even hundreds of thousands a month without actually doing anything. If you have a strong catalog of films and have months worth of content yet to be published you can take a few months off work yet still earn from subscriptions. It’s much easier and more flexible than seeing clients in person.

No it means it’s smooth. Sugaring is like waxing - hair removal for a smooth peach!

It’s an interesting corollary to the ‘do you share that you hire’ question. Do providers share that they are hired? I share with most of my friends the fact that I’m a sex worker. Those I don’t tell are some who I think might disapprove. I suspect a few who do know what I do think that it’s not a good thing but mostly my friends are positive and curious about it. A couple of friends do the same or similar thing to me and with those I can be completely open and I know they don’t judge me. It’s sad that so many people have misapprehension about what sex work entails, and why people do it, including why people hire. I was one of them before I started. Now I have a much better understanding of what it involves, what clients are like and honestly… what an interesting job it is. I wish more people could understand it.

Interesting! I feel like some of my clients have trained me. One particular client I can think of: we’ve never discussed it, nor commented afterwards but the arrangement is that at the start of the massage about 10 minutes in (always) when I’m standing the head end, he lifts his head up from the cradle, takes my cock in his mouth and sucks me to completion. He then swallows the load and we carry on with his massage to an ultimate happy ending for him. I make sure that when he books I’ve a nice load ready, and of course that I haven’t eaten asparagus in the preceding day. I can’t remember how we got to this understanding but it must have involved some training of me, especially because I’m never that bothered about client blow jobs (few can do it well), but this guy is an expert. It’s unusual for me to cum from oral alone but he manages it.

Yes tell him you’d like him to decide the pace and positions etc but try to avoid being over prescriptive. A good guy should be able to work out what you like and even show you things you never knew you liked.

Another hotel tale. I met a client at an out of town hotel for a 3 hour session. Mid session the client took a phone call from an associate of his. It seemed there had been some kind of attack on one of his properties. He gave instructions to have the perpetrators ‘dealt with’. After he’d finished with the call he phoned his wife to let her know. All the time I lay there naked on the bed. I’d offered to leave but he indicated to me to stay so I heard everything which didn’t seem to bother him. After the calls he told me his wife was a high power city lawyer who knew everything about his business. He seemed to do something in construction or property but he was vague about the details. I asked him what had happened and he told me there was some dispute with a business rival. He said he’d arranged to have them ‘sorted out’. I didn’t like to ask what that meant but I think it involved broken legs. I didn’t doubt him because he seemed like a complete wide boy. Translation for US readers - a ‘wide boy’ in British English is someone involved in criminal activity. Strangely I never felt unsafe with him. Despite him talking and appearing tough he just loved kissing and cuddling. Much of the session he cuddled me while telling me what was going to happen to the guys who had crossed him, about his work, and letting me know that if I needed anything (me: ‘like what?’ him: ‘anything you like Jamie’) and about how his wife was much posher than he was. Such an interesting client.

I’d say me tbh. It’ll take your mind off the sex 😂

I’ve done that for a few clients. I’m not a PT but I am a regular at the gym and know what to do. I’ve had a few clients staying in hotels who book me to start out with half hour or so work out in the hotel gym, then back to their room for a massage etc. it works quite well especially if the gym is quiet and you can work out just wearing shorts. As for getting back to fitness I think the best advice is to build it into your routine, have a set time to workout, mix it up with weights, stretching and cardiovascular work like running or swimming. Avoid doing too much too soon because injury is likely to knock you out of the routine. Once you’ve been in the routine for 4 weeks or so it’s more or less set and you just keep it up.

It’s not kissing without tongue. Kiss properly or not at all.

Kiss him.

I recall an interesting visit to a regular client at his hotel just off Piccadilly in London. My client was a regular (visitor from abroad, couple of times a year, I guess he was about 70 quite large, total bottom). He usually enjoyed a bit of massage on the bed, then play, and at least half the session, during natural breaks, would include discussion about the royal family, politics, theatre. This time was to be no different except he told me he was travelling with a lady friend from Brazil. We’ll call her Maria, although it wasn’t her name but for discretion that’s what we shall use. I never worked out their relationship but I think she was a long standing travel companion with shared interest in theatre, travel and food. He asked was I ok with Maria being there? I said ‘of course, it’s fine’ although I didn’t check what he wanted to happen between the 3 of us. Perhaps I should have. His room was an apartment so when I arrived I was introduced to Maria in the lounge area and we chatted for a while over drinks while my client showered. Maria was a very well proportioned lady in her 40’s with that kind of cool sophistication and allure that seems to come effortlessly to Brazilians. After a while my client invited me to join him in the bedroom and said that Maria would join us in about an hour… Unfortunately that day I’d already seen two clients so I was fairly whacked already. I wouldn’t have normally accepted his booking but this evening was his only opportunity and because he was a regular, great fun and a generous tipper I confirmed his booking. I struggled to stay hard during the session with him and was thinking I hope he doesn’t want to watch me and Maria when she joins. Then I heard the door open and Maria walked in wearing nothing but a massive strap on. She dragged the client to the end of the bed, bent him over and saw to him while he sucked me. After about 2 minutes he was finished. I’ve never been so relieved. We then the lay there on the bed and discussed what theatre shows they were planning to see on the visit. I was tempted to ask Maria if she’d see to me with that strap on but I hadn’t prepared so it was a missed opportunity.