Jamie21

Hmm it’s kind of no excuse if you’ve pre advised them you want to rim them. They should be clean. If I know a client wants to rim me, or if he’s seen me previously and I know he rimmed me last time (or he gave me the impression he wanted to) then I’ll specifically clean myself. Similarly if he wants to finger me then I clean out. I get really anxious about being clean for that. It sounds like you hired guys who aren’t that bothered about pleasing you; they just want your money as easy as possible.

Get room service and fuck between courses. It makes for a longer dinner. Order salad for main course because it won’t need to stay hot. Order something smearable for dessert (Eton mess is good) because it can be eaten off a naked body. After dinner go down to the bar for drinks with that post sex glow and likely a load or two leaking out. It’s life affirming.

My regulars are roughly 45% of my business. Regular is defined as anyone who has been back more than twice. It takes a while to build up a regular clientele but it’s true, they are very important!

Get the right guy and he will make 2 hours feel like half an hour. Just tell him the kind of activities you like and a good guy will have a repertoire that will keep you going for the duration no problem.

Never had that on a hookup app…but women liking to watch and especially to hear about man on man sex is not unusual. I did a live sex show with a guy one time and about 40% of the audience were female. After we finished the women were really keen to talk to us about it. It was quite surprising the depth of questions. I wanted to say ‘we just felt horny to fuck’ but that wasn’t an answer that satisfied them! I have some clients whose wives enjoy hearing from their husband about what happened in their session. These guys tell me their wives love to hear them recount their experiences. I think for females it’s less of a visual thing than it is for guys. The females really like to hear and talk about gay sex. When I see mixed sex couples together it’s usually the guy that wants to watch (cuckold experience). The female is more interested in the motivation and feelings of two guys together than the mechanics and visuals of it. Basically women are much more complicated and sophisticated than men when it comes to sex.

Exactly. I find content creators are much more careful about regular testing than casual sex partners. All of the guys I collaborate with seem to test very regularly (and obviously almost all porn is now bareback, everyone is on prep). Only once have I caught something from a filming partner. It’s understandable because if you catch something you can’t work so being mindful of regular testing and using doxypep is just good business sense. However clients generally seem to test less regularly and are not so well informed about sexual health. Some escorts will therefore require condom use in client sessions.

I find most clients want to interact in some way. Of course my focus is on them, and whilst I’m ostensibly in charge of the session I’m constantly trying to discover what the client likes or wants (because they’ll rarely be able to state this before we start - they find it easier to say what they don’t want but not so much what they do want), so in reality they are leading the session. Thinking of clients I saw last week they all wanted to interact with me, and most of them were keen for me to cum. I think clients enjoy it more if it’s clear that I’m also turned on and it’s a great positive feedback loop because the client enjoying themselves is a big turn on for me.

I’m an independent masseur / escort who sets his own rates but I always appreciate a tip. What it does is the next time the client books I’m more likely to be extra flexible to accommodate his preferred time. I’ll make myself available for him and be extra accommodating. I don’t expect a tip but if a client does tip it’s very welcome. I prefer a positive reference on RentMasseur to a tip however. That kind of reference is extremely valuable.

How did a nun get inserted up there? Perhaps it was a habit he got too fond of?

Baby will be fine, but just wait until it starts running around and jumping around the apartment, especially if it’s a boy. You’ve got 18 months until that starts, and it will last about 10 years. Enjoy.

Something is usually in it yes!

Closest I get to that is guys that ask if I’m available ‘now or in next couple of hours’ to which the answer is always ‘no’. There’s one guy who has asked this question 15 times…he asks every few weeks. Every time I say ‘no, best to book in advance’ and every time he says ‘ok thanks’, but never books in advance. I think he is just one of those guys who gets horny and wants to get off and tbh that’s not really my kind of client. I don’t know anyone who works on an ‘available right now, no booking needed’ basis. I’ve done same day bookings but always need at least a couple of hours notice.

Talking of gifts, a recent client bought me flowers which was a marvellous gesture. He’s a gentleman.

Yes I’d leave a load in you (to be fair, I do that regardless of birthday 😂)…

Available on my JustforFans! (Might be a way back in my catalogue though - search it because we filmed it two years ago I think!).

As a provider, I of course don’t have birthdays annually; I age a year every 5 years, so when it does eventually come around to adding 1 to my age then it’s a BIG DEAL and I expect a nice gift. OK?

I’ve filmed with him. I massaged him in the film though. Great guy, very sexy and a lot of fun.

Someone is making heavy use of AI….😂But it does sum up everything nicely.

By the ‘probably’ I meant you are probably right in that I am applying a UK perspective. But it’s not 99% of markets…now that’s you thinking everywhere is like the US. There’s around 50 countries where it’s legal, most in Europe.

Probably yes. It’s hard to imagine living in such an unfree country.

I offer massage on the table or on a futon (floor) at my in call studio. It’s possible to do proper massage on the floor; some of the techniques are same as on a table but some are different and only possible when done on the floor. I think the floor massage can be very intimate with lots of close body contact. I always massage naked and welcome reciprocal touch so it can be quite intense too. If it’s an outcall I take my table because it’s much better than using the bed. However some hotels don’t have the space for the table or the client is happy that we use the bed, and it’s more of an escort type session.

20% retention rate isn’t bad. You’ve only been going a year, needs longer. It takes ages to build a regular client base. You say you use a script post session. I wouldn’t do that. A script feels like a hard sell. Have a few messages you’d like to get over but do it in a personal way that is tuned towards the client. You need to get to know them at a more personal level. My guess is they feel ‘sold to’ and massage (whatever the style) is a very personal one to one service. Make it so they feel you see them as a whole person not another client. Contact them after the session to see how the session improved their pain (tell them you’ll do a follow up call in a week or so and are they ok with that?). You’ll get re bookings on those calls (but don’t force it). Also I think offering a one hour session is a good idea. People want to try you out before committing to a longer session. You could do the 1 hour and then offer the next 90m at a reduced rate. That reduces the barrier of the unknown for them and gives them the full experience at a reduced cost. Once you build in them the habit of coming back they’ll come back more. Business courses aren’t the place to learn this stuff. Learn it by doing. Ask the 20% of customers who do come back why they do so. Ask all your customers how they found you and what made them book. Listen to your customers. The answers are there , not in a business course. That would be a waste of money and time. Basically the number one rule is know who your customer is, understand what they want, and give it to them in a way that is satisfying but leaves space for more. In everything think of your customer first. You don’t go wrong if you think about who they are and what they want. Oh and whilst you’ll get great advice on business on here from successful providers (☺️) your client base is unlikely to be on here….

Oh no! This topic again. He can charge whatever he thinks he’s worth. It’s entirely up to him and his definition of his value. You don’t have to pay it. You might want to hire him but if you don’t want to pay his rate too bad! You can’t afford him. Buy a cheaper guy and see how good he is. If you think it’s an easy overpaid job why not set up yourself? See how easy it is. What price would you put on yourself for an hour of doing escort work (don’t forget to add in all the hidden costs - time spent trying to look good, being available 24/7, handling time wasters, advertising, paying for the benefits that employees get as part of their job, taking risks with your sexual health….). Now his rate doesn’t seem so unreasonable does it…

Many guys are into feet. He’s just showing his assets. We all know RentMasseur guys are offering THAT kind of massage. That’s why I advertise on there 🙂

I’m happy to answer clients questions about my personal life but there’s some aspects I’d keep private. I share with them about my work, my day to day life and what kind of things I like. As a provider I think it’s important to be able to chat in a relaxed way with clients. It’s often after the sex when you’re just laying there naked and covered in bodily fluids that you can have really interesting conversations. It makes the session more about connection and intimacy than about just having sex.