Jamie21

I don’t swallow but I’m fine if the client wants to shoot in my mouth, and then especially if he wants a kiss with the mouthful but unfortunately not many guys are into that, especially after they have cum. I usually just spit it out somewhere appropriate.

Plus, I’m doing my best to turn the straight guys gay. I’m having quite a lot of success.

I don’t agree it’s whataboutism. I’m saying it’s potentially hypocritical to have concerns about bareback sex whilst being unconcerned about clear health risks with other behaviours over which one has a personal choice. Especially when the behaviours have costs to others (second hand smoke, alcohol related misbehaviour and disorder). It seems that if one takes one’s health and wellbeing seriously one does so in a consistent and rational way. To be cavalier about alcohol and smoking and careful about sexual health using the public health argument makes me suspect that the real reason for the objection to bareback sex is moral.

Escort rates will not necessarily follow inflation. They’re a function of supply and demand for escort work. It’s quite possible for general inflation to be around 3% per annum but escort inflation to be higher. If the supply of escorts reduces (perhaps because of social reasons - society discouraging the work, or illegal immigrants being deported for example…) and the demand increases (perhaps because of closure of spaces for casual hookups) then rates will rise. Escorts know the market, if they sense demand increasing they’ll increase rates. One of the reasons for suppressing the supply of escorts in the US is the fact that illegality of selling sex deters people from entering the business. I’d guess it deters more on the supply side than it deters clients from buying on the demand side. Therefore it’s expensive to hire. Regardless of all this, it’s pointless complaining about escort rates. If you can’t afford it that’s tough. You might desperately want it but you’re not going to get it unless you pay his rate. Pay him or move on. No amount of whining will change it. I don’t blame guys for setting their rate and sticking to it. I do the same, I never discount. Guys ask for a reduction in price, or a shorter session for the lower price but I never agree. First it sets the session off on a bad start if I’ve reduced my rate, second those clients don’t appreciate the work and third why should I work for less than I think I’m worth? Other clients pay the rate so I get enough business (demand & supply again). This endless debate on sex worker rates is futile.

Hmm it’s kind of no excuse if you’ve pre advised them you want to rim them. They should be clean. If I know a client wants to rim me, or if he’s seen me previously and I know he rimmed me last time (or he gave me the impression he wanted to) then I’ll specifically clean myself. Similarly if he wants to finger me then I clean out. I get really anxious about being clean for that. It sounds like you hired guys who aren’t that bothered about pleasing you; they just want your money as easy as possible.

Get room service and fuck between courses. It makes for a longer dinner. Order salad for main course because it won’t need to stay hot. Order something smearable for dessert (Eton mess is good) because it can be eaten off a naked body. After dinner go down to the bar for drinks with that post sex glow and likely a load or two leaking out. It’s life affirming.

My regulars are roughly 45% of my business. Regular is defined as anyone who has been back more than twice. It takes a while to build up a regular clientele but it’s true, they are very important!

Get the right guy and he will make 2 hours feel like half an hour. Just tell him the kind of activities you like and a good guy will have a repertoire that will keep you going for the duration no problem.

Never had that on a hookup app…but women liking to watch and especially to hear about man on man sex is not unusual. I did a live sex show with a guy one time and about 40% of the audience were female. After we finished the women were really keen to talk to us about it. It was quite surprising the depth of questions. I wanted to say ‘we just felt horny to fuck’ but that wasn’t an answer that satisfied them! I have some clients whose wives enjoy hearing from their husband about what happened in their session. These guys tell me their wives love to hear them recount their experiences. I think for females it’s less of a visual thing than it is for guys. The females really like to hear and talk about gay sex. When I see mixed sex couples together it’s usually the guy that wants to watch (cuckold experience). The female is more interested in the motivation and feelings of two guys together than the mechanics and visuals of it. Basically women are much more complicated and sophisticated than men when it comes to sex.

Exactly. I find content creators are much more careful about regular testing than casual sex partners. All of the guys I collaborate with seem to test very regularly (and obviously almost all porn is now bareback, everyone is on prep). Only once have I caught something from a filming partner. It’s understandable because if you catch something you can’t work so being mindful of regular testing and using doxypep is just good business sense. However clients generally seem to test less regularly and are not so well informed about sexual health. Some escorts will therefore require condom use in client sessions.

I find most clients want to interact in some way. Of course my focus is on them, and whilst I’m ostensibly in charge of the session I’m constantly trying to discover what the client likes or wants (because they’ll rarely be able to state this before we start - they find it easier to say what they don’t want but not so much what they do want), so in reality they are leading the session. Thinking of clients I saw last week they all wanted to interact with me, and most of them were keen for me to cum. I think clients enjoy it more if it’s clear that I’m also turned on and it’s a great positive feedback loop because the client enjoying themselves is a big turn on for me.

I’m an independent masseur / escort who sets his own rates but I always appreciate a tip. What it does is the next time the client books I’m more likely to be extra flexible to accommodate his preferred time. I’ll make myself available for him and be extra accommodating. I don’t expect a tip but if a client does tip it’s very welcome. I prefer a positive reference on RentMasseur to a tip however. That kind of reference is extremely valuable.

How did a nun get inserted up there? Perhaps it was a habit he got too fond of?

Baby will be fine, but just wait until it starts running around and jumping around the apartment, especially if it’s a boy. You’ve got 18 months until that starts, and it will last about 10 years. Enjoy.

Something is usually in it yes!

Closest I get to that is guys that ask if I’m available ‘now or in next couple of hours’ to which the answer is always ‘no’. There’s one guy who has asked this question 15 times…he asks every few weeks. Every time I say ‘no, best to book in advance’ and every time he says ‘ok thanks’, but never books in advance. I think he is just one of those guys who gets horny and wants to get off and tbh that’s not really my kind of client. I don’t know anyone who works on an ‘available right now, no booking needed’ basis. I’ve done same day bookings but always need at least a couple of hours notice.

Talking of gifts, a recent client bought me flowers which was a marvellous gesture. He’s a gentleman.

Yes I’d leave a load in you (to be fair, I do that regardless of birthday 😂)…

Available on my JustforFans! (Might be a way back in my catalogue though - search it because we filmed it two years ago I think!).

As a provider, I of course don’t have birthdays annually; I age a year every 5 years, so when it does eventually come around to adding 1 to my age then it’s a BIG DEAL and I expect a nice gift. OK?

I’ve filmed with him. I massaged him in the film though. Great guy, very sexy and a lot of fun.

Someone is making heavy use of AI….😂But it does sum up everything nicely.

By the ‘probably’ I meant you are probably right in that I am applying a UK perspective. But it’s not 99% of markets…now that’s you thinking everywhere is like the US. There’s around 50 countries where it’s legal, most in Europe.

Probably yes. It’s hard to imagine living in such an unfree country.

I offer massage on the table or on a futon (floor) at my in call studio. It’s possible to do proper massage on the floor; some of the techniques are same as on a table but some are different and only possible when done on the floor. I think the floor massage can be very intimate with lots of close body contact. I always massage naked and welcome reciprocal touch so it can be quite intense too. If it’s an outcall I take my table because it’s much better than using the bed. However some hotels don’t have the space for the table or the client is happy that we use the bed, and it’s more of an escort type session.