Jamie21

I do massages, and I provide sex. It’s included in the massage. What am I? Masseur or Prostitute? Or the all encompassing Sex Worker? I don’t mind what you call me. The label isn’t important.

Very rarely visit the US unfortunately. But it’s available in London …😉

Do the bathroom first. It’s always the most satisfying to get done.

Come to London. I rim and you can sit on my face the whole session if you want to 😂. Though tbh I find clients like it extremely light and suggestive at first, even just blowing on his hole initially and then the softest of touches around the edge. I don’t just dive in and bury my face as deep as possible straight off. That needs building up to. There’s a few massage moves one can do such as starting with kisses on his neck and working your chin slowly down his back towards his hole (and balls) as he lays on his belly. I do it slowly to build the tension…will he lick my hole? Will he stop at my tail bone? First time I stop before the hole, massage back up and lay on him with my body so he can feel my cock on his balls. Then I slide down again, even more slowly, and as I reach his hole I hold his hand and gently rim him.

Yes, but some of his plans were destroyed so later architects have had to interpret and try to piece together what he wanted.

From my perspective as someone who is hired I do get some clients asking for a face pic and I’m happy to send one. Occasionally they say ‘thanks but no thanks’ which at first caused me some consternation but now I just don’t care. I’m glad they had the decency to reply. If my face isn’t to their liking it doesn’t cause me upset because I’m confident in my services through being successful. You can’t be everything to everyone. The worst thing is sending a pic into the void. I’d recommend clients to always reply to your ‘provider’ (or whatever terms we use, I prefer sex worker tbh) with a ‘thanks but not for me, best wishes’ or something like that. There’s a person the other end. Always remember that.

Outside it seems a bit of a muddle, probably because it’s had so many different architects. Inside it’s astonishing and the light and space is astounding. It deserves its place in the pantheon of cathedrals.

Hmmm your German genes are evident, I was being light hearted. But since you mentioned it, all those in the 13 colonies were subjects of British King George III …who was mostly German (but we aren’t fussy where we get our Monarchs from as long as they aren’t Catholic).

You were 250 years ago. That’s where it went wrong.

One could use ‘one’

I agree that with big parties it’s good to allow arrivals at various times and to allow people to leave early too otherwise what tends to happen is no one wants to cum until the end. If you have guys ‘dropping in’ there will be those who are happy to cum and go so to speak. It keeps things fresh and interesting. Also with larger parties you need a few play rooms because it allows a separate groups to get going. Guys can join the group they like. Important to have a rule of ‘no closed doors’: all play areas must be accessible to everyone. It’s simpler to have a rule of ‘only bareback’ sex or ‘only safe’. That way everyone knows where they stand. Finally the best parties I’ve been to have had a wristband system where the colour of your wristband denotes your role preference. Wear one on your ankle too because in a pile of bodies it’s sometimes not possible to see a guys wrist 😉

For many guys sex happens too quickly. Guys rush to penetration, and then it’s over…all too fast. This could happen easily with an escort. Massage slows all of this down. Sensual massage is like choreographed foreplay, the build up of tension (including ‘will he fuck me? or will he let me fuck him?’) is part of the journey and the journey counts just as important as the destination. Good masseurs can have you absolutely begging for it after an hour 😉

@Vegas_Millenniallives in a constant porn scene. He orders a pizza and the delivery guy gets blown. The plumber arrives to fix a blockage and leaves minus a load and when he visits church on Sunday the priest fucks him through the glory hole in the confession box. He’s amazing!

I understand why you say this but I think it reveals a misunderstanding about the work: I never discount for anyone, including regulars. It’s simple that way and they don’t get mixed messages. It’s an important rule that most experienced and successful providers will follow. It’s your work and your income, and as such you take it very seriously (be punctual, sober, client focused etc). That approach actually makes for a better experience for the client than someone who is monetising their sex life and charging different amounts depending on how much they like the client. Those guys tend to be flaky with arrangements and have lots of things they won’t do. Not a good experience. Just because money is exchanged doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying it. Again it comes to a professional approach vs someone just trying to earn from their sex life. It’s not easy doing sex work properly so you need to enjoy it to be able to do it sustainably. The money is for being available when the client wants (within reason), for your experience and expertise and for your focus on the client. It’s not ‘compensation’ for having to have sex with someone you’re not enjoying.

I guess it depends on how well your tailor measures your inside leg? When I increase my prices I update them on my website and inform regulars when they book. No one has complained. People expect things to go up: prices, cocks and things going up their hole. It’s normal.

It’s the low cost airline pricing strategy. Cheap Rubs! Your massage is $40!!! Great value!…… Ok now for the optional extras: You want a table? That’s $30 extra. Oil? Another $20. Masseur naked? $30, want to suck his cock? $20 (per inch). What destination was it you wanted? Was it ‘CHM, Cum in His Mouth’? Sorry we don’t go there… but we do go to the nearby QDH: Quick Disinterested Handjob’. That’s $280….

I’ve attended sex parties in a kind of semi professional way; either paid sometimes or I was there for the networking opportunity - but in either of those situations the host has invited me (and occasionally others if it’s a big party) to act as a facilitator, catalyst and overseer. The role is to get things going if people are reticent or sometimes to put on a show as people are arriving so that the vibe is defined early. I’m also given a list of the attendees and warned about potential trouble makers (those who push themselves on others and who don’t read body language), and asked to make sure people are following the rules (no drugs, no going into off limits areas etc). The final part is to make sure everyone feels included so it will be finding people on the margins and having sex with them or encouraging them to join in. I’m vers so it can also help to balance out any role disparity if the guys/girls doing this are versatile (I’m also bi and have done the role at mixed sex parties where it’s an even more important necessity). In any well run party you need at least one person, ideally more, doing this kind of thing. The attendees don’t need to know that’s what you’re there for but they’ll definitely notice the difference in the overall vibe if this role is present.

I can speak from the other perspective. I’ve been hired by people I know, friends and acquaintances. Given the type of massage I do it can be kind of awkward. There’s an additional dynamic when you know someone but my view is that given they want to hire me, and they understand what I do, I treat them exactly the same way I do ‘normal’ clients, including charging the normal rate (no ‘mates rates’). Actually if they ask for mates rates I find that even more awkward than being nakedly intimate with them!!! My advice is think carefully and if you decide to go ahead don’t ask him for ‘mates rates’, tell him you want him to treat you like any client and assure him that if he’s not wanting to accept you as a client he can decline and you won’t seek any reason or let it affect your friendship. If you can’t make that last point genuinely then don’t even try to book him.

Definitely is. Whisper something in it…

What! My Nigerian prince is 100% genuine. He’s sending me $5m to look after for him until he can get out of Nigeria. We’re just discussing how much he needs to secure the release of the funds. On the matter of sequential or scatter gun I think sequential is preferable from my perspective. I know clients do both, some even reply to my response to their request by saying they booked with someone else (which is better than simply being ignored). I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve had guys message ‘hey are you available tomorrow at 3?’ to which I reply with a ‘yes’ and some details…and then I get no reply. Why do people do that? I think those kind are the ‘scatter gun’ approach. Sequential clients are more likely to at least reply with a yes or no.

No!!! Greatest writer in the English language.

Thank you! 🙏 Tbh I find it difficult to shake hands with the client after I’ve fucked him!!! I prefer to give a cuddle but the more ‘straight’ guys get very anxious about intimacy after they’ve cum. So we shake hands and say ‘good day to you’.

What's in a name? That which we call a rose, By any other name would smell as sweet.

If clients want to think of me as straight that’s fine, I can be straight and talk about sports and shake hands after we’ve fucked. If they want me to be bi that’s also fine, I can fuck their wife while sucking their cock. And if they want me to be gay that’s good too, I can discuss the latest Madonna album and the necessity for good mood lighting as I ride their cock. It reminds me of the Groucho Marx quote on principles. I’ll adapt it to: ‘This is my sexual orientation. If you don’t like it I have other sexual orientations’…

When not faced with a nice hole it’s easy to rationalise the situation and think ‘ohhh normally poo comes out of there, I’m not licking that’. But when one comes face to ‘face’ with a nice hole that’s positively inviting exploration I simply can’t resist putting my face in and digging around with my tongue. If I’m honest I do do a quick visual and smell check (usually) because catching something can be work limiting (no clients for a couple of weeks = no income… and that isn’t good) but mentally running through all the things one could catch isn’t something I dwell on tbh. it’s just a quick check then dive in. I’m very oral anyway (like a baby… if it’s interesting it goes in my mouth) so I can’t resist rimming holes and sucking cocks, even after they’ve come out of a hole, including my hole. I’ve never yet caught anything from it… perhaps one builds up a resistance?