Jamie21

They exist (escort only website) but their utility regarding clients is marginal. Only a small number of sex workers use these sites. Those that do use it aren’t interested in posting reviews of clients unless the client is a physical threat or a con man. Phone numbers of these people are shared as a warning. However the main benefit of the website is the opportunity to share business information such as where to advertise, legal issues, health info etc.

Some clients ask to book the first appointment of the day. I know why! I rarely see more than 2 a day. Most clients don’t expect me to cum, and then once they’ve cum that’s their interest in me cuming done with! I sometimes get clients who ask for me to cum but I don’t make any promises. Usually it’s ok. Today I saw a client with another masseur, we did a 4 hands but it was more of an escort style session and I cum in the clients mouth (we were taking turns to spit roast him). It hadn’t been discussed except of course the client had said he wanted that kind of session, which is usually how 4 hands develop.

Depends how much cum they want and where they want it.

I prefer it if the client texts their questions or if they want to talk then they arrange a time to have the phone call. It’s not always possible for me to answer questions about activities because I might not be somewhere discreet when called. Here’s my tip to clients: text him first, tell him you have questions that are easier to discuss on a call and ask him when is best to call. I’m fine to discuss anything if I’m somewhere where I can’t be overheard.

This I can empathise with. I assume all clients want a great massage and to include a climax (of more) usually near the end of the session. Occasionally I’ll get a client who wants to move things along faster than I anticipated and then once they climax they immediately want to leave. I check if he wants head massage or more massage or cuddles etc but if he’s of a mind to go, he goes. I’m still charging for the time booked. However more common is the guy who struggles to climax. I’m desperately trying all sorts of things to get him off but he’s just not getting there and the clock is ticking up to and past his scheduled finish time. I don’t mind going a bit over if he’s close but if I have a hard stop then sometimes I have to say to him that we’re out of time.

Multiple hands massages aren’t really massages! I occasionally do a 4 hands for clients, who’s is good if the two masseurs are coordinated and good. It wasn’t for a paying client but I once did a 12 hands for a guy. There was hardly space around the table to get to him. It was too much for him and after a short while he wanted to get up from the table and he left. One of the other masseurs took his place on the table. As is often the case with a more than 4 hands massage it just turned into a group sex session. Not a massage.

I don’t take any booking that is at short notice. Too bad if they miss out, it’s their problem not mine. I get clients who ask 4 or 5 times “hey are you available now / in the next hour or whatever” and each time I have to say “no sorry, it’s best to book in advance if possible” because I’m not available. They eventually stop asking for short notice and book ahead or they go away.

My clients get the full time they paid for. You’re probably not hiring masseurs because they’re not interested in giving you a great massage.

People make these things up. It’s mischief making and fantasy. I’m utterly discreet!

I was there, sat on Chris Evans’s lap while Bradley Cooper was going down on me when I noticed Shawn walk into the room, smile at me and then start to strip. I asked Chris to dump his load so that Shawn could eat me out while I topped Bradley. Being a gentleman he obliged and just as Shawn’s tongue touched home I woke up. Damn. Seriously though, one signs an NDA to attend such parties. No one will mention anything and that’s exactly as it should be. People have a right to their privacy. I was at a sex party in London one time and one of the participants was a celebrity. I noticed a guy bent over the bed with a queue of about 7 guys waiting their turn to use his ass. I walked around to see who he was and between a sea of other bodies I glimpse his face and recognise him immediately. It then makes sense why he has a queue. If you’re wondering who it was, I’m not saying but I didn’t join the queue.

I can tell from the first contact from the client if he is not respectful. Example: recently I had a message ‘fvck now’. What kind of opening contact is that? I ignored it. It’s simple really. Turn up on time, be clean, communicate clearly and openly, don’t haggle. It makes for a much better experience for you. I’m professional, I’ll respect you. If you’re not behaving respectfully I’m not interested in your custom.

I usually start in underwear or a jock or sometimes at the client’s request I’ll wear speedos. Part way through the massage I’ll be naked, unless they want me naked from the start. Some clients like to do a lot of touching and as @Shawn Monroe said earlier they like to get me off.

This is it exactly as @Jarrod_Uncutsays. The price is the price, it relates to the value the guy puts on his time and service. If you think that matches your budget and expectations of value then hire him. If you don’t think it’s value then don’t hire him (and don’t try to negotiate down…that’s no way to initiate a great meeting). Of course if the services included are vague then ask directly what’s the deal. Unfortunately I realise in some backward places (yes, you USA) these things can’t be discussed openly but in normal countries grown up people can have conversations about sexual services…. so ask him about it!

I’m in the dark on this at the moment.

I know him, he’s a friend and I’ve worked with him. A really lovely guy and a great masseur. You will be in good hands.

If anyone has underutilised budget then I’d like to remind them that I am available with a wide range of price points. Cheapest option is a month subscription to my justforfans - great value.

The weather doesn’t affect bookings but transport disruption does. If there’s a train strike in London for example it’s quieter. If there’s transport disruption caused by weather it’s quieter. Otherwise I don’t see a pattern.

Text (or messenger app like WhatsApp or Telegram) is best because it’s faster than email. I like to text the client on the day to confirm (or remind them!) the appointment and that is much easier if I can do that via text over email. People don’t check their emails often and usually don’t have their in box set up to notify them of a new mail. Whereas with text or messenger it tends to get noticed faster plus you can be confident it was delivered.

In the UK we have VAT (value added tax). It’s 20%. I should add that 🙂

Ugh yes that’s so annoying. I’ve a website where I invite guys to apply to be in a porn movie (that’s a different thread!!) but there’s a field for them to put in their email address if they want to be contacted by email about filming sessions. It’s amazing how many emails bounce back because the guy put in the wrong email. I guess I should amend the form so that they put it in twice and the form checks they’re the same. But I find that annoying myself when I have to do that!!

Rule number 1. Know your value, set your rate and NEVER discount or compromise on that.

Ah ok. He’s probably found a way around OF rules or perhaps it was before they tightened up their processes. I’m glad you were ok with it.

OF are strict about getting release forms and ID for anyone appearing in a movie. Did he get those from you before publishing it?

Not wrong in any way whatsoever!. He’s unprofessional and wasted your time. It’s his fault and he should refund you the deposit. He should have turned up just before 7, as arranged or should have messaged you before 7 if for unavoidable reasons he’d be late to give you the option to reschedule to later or refund you. This should just be normal professional behavior and you shouldn’t put up with any lame excuses like “I was asleep”.

Welcome back to the industry. Interesting that you feel the need to return; I think it’s very difficult to leave the industry voluntarily. All sorts of reasons (money, lifestyle, excitement) but mainly because of the connections and people you meet, and that’s why it’s sad to hear of you losing your benefactor- sorry to hear it. I hope your return is successful. I’m very discreet too. I don’t have direct face pics on my advertising (but everything else is on show!). However, I think in this business many clients are looking also for a glimpse of your personality too as well as your face. It’s really important that when clients meet you they not only like the visuals but they feel comfortable with the person inside. If they hire someone who’s pretty, but is an asshole (or weird) or indeed can’t do what they offered because they’re unprofessional, then they’ll never come back and they’ll spread the word about him. This is why I have a website where I put more info about me, and insight into my style and how I think etc. I’ll also share face pics with clients who ask via the contact details on my website. If they like what they see on there then they’ll book and I’m confident it will be a great session. It also stands you apart from many in the industry who unfortunately aren’t very professional. The ‘pretty pics here today gone tomorrow’ guys playing at it wouldn’t bother setting up a website. Good luck! Be interesting to hear on here how things go.