Jamie21

I find most clients want to interact in some way. Of course my focus is on them, and whilst I’m ostensibly in charge of the session I’m constantly trying to discover what the client likes or wants (because they’ll rarely be able to state this before we start - they find it easier to say what they don’t want but not so much what they do want), so in reality they are leading the session. Thinking of clients I saw last week they all wanted to interact with me, and most of them were keen for me to cum. I think clients enjoy it more if it’s clear that I’m also turned on and it’s a great positive feedback loop because the client enjoying themselves is a big turn on for me.

I’m an independent masseur / escort who sets his own rates but I always appreciate a tip. What it does is the next time the client books I’m more likely to be extra flexible to accommodate his preferred time. I’ll make myself available for him and be extra accommodating. I don’t expect a tip but if a client does tip it’s very welcome. I prefer a positive reference on RentMasseur to a tip however. That kind of reference is extremely valuable.

How did a nun get inserted up there? Perhaps it was a habit he got too fond of?

Baby will be fine, but just wait until it starts running around and jumping around the apartment, especially if it’s a boy. You’ve got 18 months until that starts, and it will last about 10 years. Enjoy.

Something is usually in it yes!

Closest I get to that is guys that ask if I’m available ‘now or in next couple of hours’ to which the answer is always ‘no’. There’s one guy who has asked this question 15 times…he asks every few weeks. Every time I say ‘no, best to book in advance’ and every time he says ‘ok thanks’, but never books in advance. I think he is just one of those guys who gets horny and wants to get off and tbh that’s not really my kind of client. I don’t know anyone who works on an ‘available right now, no booking needed’ basis. I’ve done same day bookings but always need at least a couple of hours notice.

Talking of gifts, a recent client bought me flowers which was a marvellous gesture. He’s a gentleman.

Yes I’d leave a load in you (to be fair, I do that regardless of birthday 😂)…

Available on my JustforFans! (Might be a way back in my catalogue though - search it because we filmed it two years ago I think!).

As a provider, I of course don’t have birthdays annually; I age a year every 5 years, so when it does eventually come around to adding 1 to my age then it’s a BIG DEAL and I expect a nice gift. OK?

I’ve filmed with him. I massaged him in the film though. Great guy, very sexy and a lot of fun.

Someone is making heavy use of AI….😂But it does sum up everything nicely.

By the ‘probably’ I meant you are probably right in that I am applying a UK perspective. But it’s not 99% of markets…now that’s you thinking everywhere is like the US. There’s around 50 countries where it’s legal, most in Europe.

Probably yes. It’s hard to imagine living in such an unfree country.

I offer massage on the table or on a futon (floor) at my in call studio. It’s possible to do proper massage on the floor; some of the techniques are same as on a table but some are different and only possible when done on the floor. I think the floor massage can be very intimate with lots of close body contact. I always massage naked and welcome reciprocal touch so it can be quite intense too. If it’s an outcall I take my table because it’s much better than using the bed. However some hotels don’t have the space for the table or the client is happy that we use the bed, and it’s more of an escort type session.

20% retention rate isn’t bad. You’ve only been going a year, needs longer. It takes ages to build a regular client base. You say you use a script post session. I wouldn’t do that. A script feels like a hard sell. Have a few messages you’d like to get over but do it in a personal way that is tuned towards the client. You need to get to know them at a more personal level. My guess is they feel ‘sold to’ and massage (whatever the style) is a very personal one to one service. Make it so they feel you see them as a whole person not another client. Contact them after the session to see how the session improved their pain (tell them you’ll do a follow up call in a week or so and are they ok with that?). You’ll get re bookings on those calls (but don’t force it). Also I think offering a one hour session is a good idea. People want to try you out before committing to a longer session. You could do the 1 hour and then offer the next 90m at a reduced rate. That reduces the barrier of the unknown for them and gives them the full experience at a reduced cost. Once you build in them the habit of coming back they’ll come back more. Business courses aren’t the place to learn this stuff. Learn it by doing. Ask the 20% of customers who do come back why they do so. Ask all your customers how they found you and what made them book. Listen to your customers. The answers are there , not in a business course. That would be a waste of money and time. Basically the number one rule is know who your customer is, understand what they want, and give it to them in a way that is satisfying but leaves space for more. In everything think of your customer first. You don’t go wrong if you think about who they are and what they want. Oh and whilst you’ll get great advice on business on here from successful providers (☺️) your client base is unlikely to be on here….

Oh no! This topic again. He can charge whatever he thinks he’s worth. It’s entirely up to him and his definition of his value. You don’t have to pay it. You might want to hire him but if you don’t want to pay his rate too bad! You can’t afford him. Buy a cheaper guy and see how good he is. If you think it’s an easy overpaid job why not set up yourself? See how easy it is. What price would you put on yourself for an hour of doing escort work (don’t forget to add in all the hidden costs - time spent trying to look good, being available 24/7, handling time wasters, advertising, paying for the benefits that employees get as part of their job, taking risks with your sexual health….). Now his rate doesn’t seem so unreasonable does it…

Many guys are into feet. He’s just showing his assets. We all know RentMasseur guys are offering THAT kind of massage. That’s why I advertise on there 🙂

I’m happy to answer clients questions about my personal life but there’s some aspects I’d keep private. I share with them about my work, my day to day life and what kind of things I like. As a provider I think it’s important to be able to chat in a relaxed way with clients. It’s often after the sex when you’re just laying there naked and covered in bodily fluids that you can have really interesting conversations. It makes the session more about connection and intimacy than about just having sex.

I wonder how many of the guys who are critical of bareback sex because of the health risks are at the same time taking big risks with their health by smoking, drinking alcohol or having a bad diet / no exercise resulting in them being overweight? We all make choices but it seems to me that those being critical of those of us who do bareback sex are taking a moralistic approach yet seem to be hiding that behind health arguments.

Depends how many…

I looked at his profile. Rarely will a self proclaimed straight therapeutic masseur be able to deliver a proper sensual massage to a guy (or to a female). They need to forget 80% of what they learn about giving a therapeutic massage to be able to give a sensual massage. The pace, intensity, focus and whole atmosphere is different. Usually someone who converts from therapeutic to sensual just doesn’t get it. The sensual massage is disjointed and is a therapeutic massage with a perfunctory handjob at the end. Total rubbish.

I think I’d freak out if you suddenly took them out before going down on me! Or if when I pulled my cock out of your mouth it came with your dentures around it (could that happen??). Many strange things have happened to me with clients over the years. I once had a guy remove his false leg (above the knee) before he got on the massage table. He’d said nothing about it during booking or pre massage chat. Me : ‘Any injuries or things I should be aware of?’ Him: thinks for a second ‘No’. … Then he undresses and removes the leg and puts it with his clothes on the chair and lays on the table as instructed. Nothing said. So I didn’t say anything either and we both proceeded to pretend everything was normal, except I had one fewer legs to massage. Interestingly he still spread his leg(s) to indicate his hole needed attention so that must be a Pavlovian response to certain stimuli… However, back to blow jobs…some clients are poor / average at blow jobs. Obviously there’s no such thing as a bad blow job, they’re all welcome but some could be better. The reason is usually because of teeth so if you pre warmed me that the teeth come out before giving a bj I’d be totally fine with it because it sounds like it would be a delightful experience.

I wouldn’t ask a licensed massage therapist!! But if he’s offering sensual or erotic massage (easy to identify) then simply ask for it. Guys that do this kind of work aren’t going to be offended! The only reason he might decline is that sometimes once a client has cum he suddenly loses interest (or all the guilt kicks in) and he wants to end the session. Of course if he’s had a happy start and then wants to end the session after 10 minutes the provider will be concerned that the client might not pay the full fee. So if you do ask for a happy start, make it clear that you’re staying the whole session after the climax or that you’ll pay the full fee regardless. If you want to signal your appetite for a happy start non verbally a good way of doing it is to be hard as you undress. I’ve seen that and have asked the client if he’d like me to deal with it before we start? I’m rarely refused 😉

For a few clients I do a happy ‘book end’. They’re extra horny when they turn up, and it’s difficult to restrain themselves for the whole session so I give them a bj at the start, before they get on the table. I get a nice mouthful of cum to give me energy and they get a release so they can properly relax on the table and enjoy the massage. As the intensity builds they can then shoot again at the end. It’s popular for the 2 hour sessions.