Jamie21

Ha ha I only just saw this but it reminded me of a session I did for a couple of clients. I wore shorts and had somehow lost my underwear in the session. On train ride home it was leaking out. Big wet patch. I was so proud 😂

And providers get tested very regularly. I’m amazed at some guys (non professionals) who don’t get routine tests yet have lots of casual partners.

Should always be the client’s choice if the provider is open to either. Personally I don’t use them to top but if a client wants to use on when they top me that’s fine. I find the opening the package and putting it on really detracts from the moment but of course catching something really detracts from a much more significant period of time! Best to be careful, test regularly, take prep and doxy prep etc.

But would you offer the hanging ritual in a spiritual conscious presence? Hanging each strip with a profound reverence to honour the divinity in the wall? Would you invite the sacred wallpaper to celebrate the celestial nature of its existence as it elevates the transcendence of your being? You can’t just slap a bit of paste on and stick it up, job done mate. Not for $555 per hour (minimum 2 hours).

It reminds me of the Nazis. Sharp uniforms and a really focused propaganda campaign: great visuals. And totally morally corrupt and reprehensible just beneath the surface.

Don’t ask on Onlyfans! I get asked and I can’t reply there because it’s against their rules. Find his X profile and send him a DM.

Very large indeed.

Hold up! I’m not so young 🤪. I wouldn’t worry about putting off providers who baulk at your age. You’re best to avoid those guys and to find out before you meet them! Decent guys will not be bothered. I’ve clients who are in their 70’s. I love it that they hire me. Fantastic guys. My issue with ‘hey’ is that it comes alone. ‘Hey’ …then nothing until I reply. Then it’s ’how are you’ 🙄. My heart sinks. It’s going to be a long exchange until we get to what he wants. I know he thinks he’s being polite etc but when you’ve responded to the same kind of approach 100’s of times it gets a bit challenging. It’s polite enough to just say ‘hello I like your profile/ad (or whatever) and I’d like to book a session on day / time’. We can take it from there.

Nothing. I don’t look at them. Your initial message tells me everything I need to know, even if it’s ‘hey’….Especially if it’s ‘hey’. Name. Preferred date, time, duration, location, where you found my details (so that I know you’ve read my profile/website) and any specific requirements. That’s all you need to do.

Each to his own. I’m sure there’s people who will be up for @Devah services and who will get something out of it. I find that if you’re looking for something Orphic there’s always people who are willing to provide it for you. If it helps you then it works. I get asked by clients for Tantric sessions. I say I don’t do them. I’ve attended Tantra workshops out of curiosity and I find it impenetrable: too couched in obscure language and insider speak. I ask clients who want a Tantra session to describe what they’d like without using ‘tantric’ language. Turns out they want to feel approved of. I can do that. I think these services that offer to unlock secrets and awaken consciousness etc is like religion: if you want to believe then you will find it. If you aren’t bothered then it’s just another snake oil salesman’s pitch or fairy story. Nothing wrong with believing, it meets a need for those who are searching. I just don’t buy the pitch. Call me cynical! As for the price. He can charge whatever he likes. No one is forcing anyone to pay it. If it’s more money than you want to pay, don’t buy!

Nice idea

He is. You should be glad you walked away. If you hired him it’s most likely to be disappointing and you’d regret it.

One is total bottom. The other I’m not sure about, I think he’s on an exploration.

I know that at least two of my clients are politicians. Discretion prevents me from revealing their party or anything. However, I don’t mind what party they’re from. They don’t discuss politics with me and I don’t raise it with them. They come to escape all of that!

If a client shares his political views with me and they are the opposite of mine, I just respond neutrally but I make sure that when working out their tight knots (because these people do usually carry a lot of tension 😂) that I apply extreme pressure whilst saying ‘if it hurts it’s doing good’…as they groan in pain. I might even slap their bum ‘playfully’. They deserve it. My answers: 1: No because it’s not allowed. But one can usually guess people’s political views by their comments anyway. 2: Yes ask if you want to know. If it matters to your hiring then you need to know (and so do I…. which is the most important thing…see my response above 😉). 3: I get hired so it’s not a question for me but I don’t see why one wouldn’t take it into consideration if a provider is known to have extreme views.

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Maybe a little perspective is needed? As a masseur I know there are clients who are scammers- these people prey on sex workers (often female sex workers because of the power imbalance, but also on guys). I know because I’ve come across one or two and because I get informed of them through sites where we (sex workers) can report such individuals. This isn’t about reporting clients who are just a bit difficult to deal with or who are awkward (that stays private) but it’s clients who are physically threatening, refuse to pay, or who deliberately harass. So we as providers do have places to report such individuals and share information about them. I know the numbers and names they use, I know how they operate. I’m glad I know. What the OP is talking about is I think the reporting on here of the worst masseur / sex worker scammers. Not the guys who give a mediocre massage or who promise to kiss and then don’t etc. That’s just a bad product or a buyer who bought with his cock not his head. I see some examples of that on here…where the client was disappointed but it’s not a scam, it’s just either the client had unrealistic expectations or the provider over promised or even there was a misunderstanding about the service. The same provider is mentioned elsewhere by other clients in glowing terms. Readers can almost always see things for what they are: the client being unrealistic or the provider having an off day. It happens. I’m mentioned on here by some clients (always in glowing terms of course 😉) but I’m sure there’s somewhere online where a client mentions me expressing some kind of disappointment. We can’t please everyone. I hope that most discerning clients can look at the overall reputation of a masseur or escort on here and elsewhere and come to their own conclusions. To be honest if a client makes a decision not to hire based on one comment from someone they don’t know then I probably don’t want that kind of client anyway.

Yep, I remember 😉. You’re telling me I could have charged you more 😳. Damn..

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Wow, you truly understand it. This is exactly how I try to work. That’s the answer.

If you’ve done the massage correctly then the ‘happy ending’ is simply the sine qua none to a great sensual massage. It cannot therefore be a chore unless the whole sensual massage is a chore, in which case why would one even do sensual massage in the first place?

There’s also Sweatbox in Soho, which is larger than Pleasuredrome, and it has a gym. There’s a few other smaller saunas around (one in Kennington, one near Marble Arch) which feel ‘local’. If you want a nice massage after your visit to the sauna my studio is within walking distance of Sweatbox or the Covent Garden sauna (just saying 😉).

I have Revolut. It’s very easy and flexible. Better than PayPal IMO.

Don’t overthink it. Just book him if you want to try him. You don’t say how you saw he was offering services though? I assume he wasn’t advertising on Grindr (they don’t like you soliciting for work on their app). Book him via his massage services profile, wherever that is, rather than via Grindr.

I was referring to misconceptions about the costs independent masseurs have. Guys assume that because I charge say £150 for an hour then I’m on £1200 a day, £250k a year, and use that as justification for not tipping. That I have zero costs (no advertising costs, no supplies costs, no accommodation costs, no healthcare costs). That’s the misconception about how the business works.