Jamie21

Yes I totally understand this. For female clients there’s a lot of risk attached to hiring someone, much more so than for a male client. The female clients I see tell me they do a lot of research before hiring.

Both. Mainly though it’s that I tend to want to ‘save myself’ for work sex. I do have ‘non work’ sex and there is a small element of thinking it could have been monetised but the main issue is just wanting to save my energy for work. When I took a week away on holiday recently I was somewhere where there was plenty of opportunity and time for sex but I didn’t do anything! It was a genuine holiday from work, including sex 😂.

I contact other providers for work purposes, whether that’s to work together for clients or to collaborate for filming. I don’t do anything with them just for fun, it’s always got a business purpose. This is the trouble with doing sex work, getting paid for it, directly or indirectly means you feel like you’re giving away value if you have ‘free’ sex. That might sound weird to guys who don’t do sex work, and it feels strange to acknowledge it but it’s definitely a thing.

You were close enough to have me recognise the allusion! 👏

I know of no reason…. 😉

😱. Please don’t re-open that wound. It must never be mentioned here. Never!!!

I think the succession is secured for the next 100 years or so. Charles is proving to be a good King, he’s well liked and very well supported by the Queen. They clearly were meant for each other. William is like the late Queen Elizabeth, dutiful and fully aware of the role he’s destined to play. This model has worked more or less for over a thousand years (with a short break while we checked out Republicanism - which didn’t work here) so I think the institution will adapt and survive. It’s not good looks, charisma, eloquence or popularity that is needed to do the role, it’s a sense of destiny, determination and humility. William has those. Harry doesn’t.

Agree. It’s a bait and switch. You’ll get drawn in, probably pay a deposit and then your chosen masseur ‘Oliver’ or ‘Lucas’ won’t be available and you’ll get someone else who won’t look like Oliver or Lucas, if you get anything atall. Book me instead. I don’t look like those boys…but in a moodily lit room, with good ambiance and of course stimulated by my expert hands you can imagine I’m Oliver 😉. (And my 🍆is undoubtedly bigger than his too). Plus I’m real, less expensive and give a fabulous massage.

I’ve filmed with him. Great guy. Fabulous massage (although we didn’t do much massage 😂).

I’ve done all those for clients except 18, 22 and 38 😂.

Make sure the 3 guys can work well together, sounds like you’ve done that. Then let them know what you definitely don’t want (hate your toes being sucked? Tell them about it). Avoid setting out too prescriptive a list of what you do want because that can make it too choreographed. Tell them how you want to feel rather than what you want done. As in I want to feel like I’m your plaything, I want to feel slutty or whatever. They know how to make that happen because it’s their job. If you say I want to be DP’d while having my throat used then that becomes the fixation and it’s likely to make your session too focused on that activity. Let it happen naturally, it’s so much better.

Correct. WW2 era cruiser. @CuriousByNature’s rundown of activities is a good list of some of the main interests. You could spend weeks here and just scratch the surface. The famous quote by Samuel Johnson ‘when a man is tired of London he’s tired of life’ is quite true. You should spend some time just walking around and you’ll come across medieval churches next to modern skyscrapers in the City (London is two cities…London and Westminster…that’s even more for you! 2 for the price of one!) or walk along the river and come across a thousand year old castle at the Tower of London, go further down river (on a boat) to Greenwich Royal Naval college, a UNESCO World Heritage site. Wander through Soho and Chinatown and watch the people. Go in pubs at lunchtime for a drink. If you like sports there’s every top sporting venue, Lords, Wembley, Wimbledon. Visit the parks - Regents Park is best I think. And definitely avoid Madame Tussauds, it’s full of tourists.

They don’t care. I must admit I don’t stay at a hotel and meet multiple clients. It’s usually me visiting a client at their hotel, and I’ve taken my table in to many of them (although often the client opts for massage on the bed rather than the table). I’ve never been challenged taking in the table, even at high end hotels. At most hotels the client comes to meet me in the lobby because a key is needed to access the lifts (elevator 😉). Hotel staff are not bothered as long as you are discreet and look professional. I also book hotels to do filming in. I have the massage table and lights / equipment for filming. Obviously I’m very discreet about it, and I ask the guys who I’m filming with to arrive discreetly etc. There’s never been a problem. Just leave the room nice and tidy and don’t make too much noise. Hotel staff have seen everything, they’re cool about sex work as long as it’s discreet and quiet. No drugs, no loud music, no drama.

Yes! This exactly. That’s what my experience is. They like the intimacy of it, especially the kissing. It seems so normal to me but I guess they never really see men being vulnerable.

Ha ha yes sometimes, although usually it’s the guy wanting to watch his wife get fucked. Women love to watch two guys together, especially if one of them is their partner. I think generally women are much more open minded about sexuality than guys are (especially straight guys who seem to get very hung up about any activity they think is ‘gay’). When I did a live sex show (me and another guy) most of the audience was female 😂. I was very surprised at the ratio vs single males.

I’ve a M/F couple booked with me this weekend. I’m bi so that works fine 🤪. I’ve had single female clients in the past too. It’s fairly unusual, especially for them to book alone but it does happen. Most of the time female clients come with their male partner (and when it’s booked by their male partner often the guy tells me he wants it as a surprise for her 😂. In those instances I insist he tells her and that she makes contact with me before the session…which of course she never does because it was simply his fantasy 🙄).

Some aren’t. I offer a shower beforehand. Some decline and aren’t clean. Their massage is less intimate than it might otherwise have been. Their loss.

Yes exactly that. It’s why my two hour rate isn’t double my 1 hour rate. I’ve got to prepare and sometimes travel etc for an hour booking. If that is a 2 hour booking the second hour requires less effort, as in I’m already there and prepared etc. So it’s lower price for a longer session to incentivise maximising income. A 90m session is a really nice sweet spot for me.

It’s to screen out the cheap clients. I get a few who say I’m too expensive for them, and some ask if they can have a special discount. Sorry but no, those are exactly the type of client the pricing structure is designed to avoid!

I liked his chutzpah. But it didn’t happen…he was window shopping…‘please send pics etc’. I send one (despite there being lots on my advertising), it goes quiet then ‘got any more?’ 🙄

Yes 🚩! My second hour is 15% less than the first hour. I don’t publish rates longer than 2 hours but the % reduction would be about the same. It really depends on the set up and my willingness to do a longer session. I generally am not keen to do multiple hours so I’d price it accordingly. I had one guy ask me for my rate for a 4 hour booking. I gave him a number. He divided that by 4, came up with an hourly rate….and then asked to book just an hour. Smart. Of course I said ‘sorry it doesn’t work like that, the first hour is more expensive’ so he said ‘ok I’ll book just the 4th hour then please’ 😳

I sometimes suggest to clients who are reluctant to verbalise what they want to send me a link to a video of a porn film (even one of mine! 😂) which shows what they’d like. It’s easier to say ‘this movie shows what I’d like to happen especially the bit from minute x to minute x’. They don’t have to use any words or descriptions. As always a picture is worth a thousand words. However, even better, I think it’s important for clients to describe how they want to feel rather than what they want to happen. It gives me a better understanding of what they’re looking for. If there’s activities they want that I’m not able or willing to do I can perhaps include something else that gives them the same feeling. Of course getting guys to say how they want to feel is almost as difficult as getting them to say what they want done to them 😂, but if you can get there with that understanding then as a provider you can really make a difference for them. As always, I say sex work means working their biggest sex organ - the brain.

From the masseur’s perspective I like the client to have their eyes open. Nothing better than gazing into his eyes. Some decent writer once wrote ‘the eyes are the window to your soul’. He knew.

Yes the straight guy thing is definitely one I recognise. I love seeing my ‘straight’ clients. Often they’re extremely naive about sex, and especially about their own attributes and how to explore them. It’s like being able to show someone a whole new world that they never knew existed and be on that journey with them.

I know him. I’ve filmed with him. Very sexy guy, really lovely and friendly.