Jamie21

Hi @PhileasFogg I’ve no plans to visit unfortunately….but I’d have thought you’d be more the travelling type?? Or is the 80 days up? 😉

All this praise will make my head bigger than my cock 😬

oh wow I’m taking a screenshot of this, framing it and putting it on the wall of my office to read whenever the ‘you’re a failure at everything’ voice in my head starts up ugh! Thank you 😘

He seemed very comforted to know I was on prep. I don’t normally offer unsolicited advice (it’s never usually apposite) but in this instance I felt compelled to raise it with him. If he chooses to bb without being on prep and just relying on the honesty of his partner with full knowledge of the risks that’s his call. But he seemed to misunderstand the issue so I felt I had to clarify for him. He did seem grateful.

I’m astonished by the ignorance sometimes. I saw a client today who wanted to bottom as part of the massage. Almost immediately after he’d shot his load as I was inside… (by the way…he’d booked a 90m session and it was as much as I could do to slow him down to result in his climax at about 55 minutes into the session 😂)… he asked me if ‘I was clean?’. I said to him it’s a bit late for that now!!! but he shouldn’t worry, I’m tested regularly and ‘clean’ (a term I hate but that’s a different discussion). Then he asked if I was on prep and I said I was, but that if he was making a habit of engaging in bb sex then he ought to be on prep himself. He said he wasn’t 😳. This kind of lack of awareness is quite common I think with guys who are ‘dipping their toes’ into gay sex. I advised him that prep protected me but not him, and he should look into going on it if he’s going to bb. Lovely guy, but very naive about things. I didn’t want to labour the point because it would detract from the fun he had but I did feel the need to make sure he looked after his health, which he appreciated.

There’s a mood killer! I understand the advice and it’s very good advice …but it might be a little fast for @Nameless. He’s exploring. If he picks the right provider (I agree with @pubic_assistance that a masseur would be a good place to start). If you find a masseur you’re comfortable with you can get to know him and explore with him. At the least you get a great massage. Massage is a fabulous way into intimacy that can lead more naturally to more things.

You can train to take it. I find if I’m struggling then I prefer to be the ‘power bottom’ (I think that’s the correct description) and I’ll ride him cowboy style because then I can have more control over the pace, angle and depth. Tbh if I’m bottoming it’s my favourite position. If you’re learning to bottom you should find a good patient top and start like that. And as for it being ‘harder’ to bottom, as a vers guy I’m not saying one position is harder than the other. They’re different. I mean it is more faff (lovely word) to bottom because of the prep but of course it’s not absolutely necessary to prep. I’ve bottomed without prep (impromptu fucks, not with clients) and he just went in and stayed in until completion…easy, job done 😂. But generally it’s a faff to bottom. In the event it can be just as much ‘work’ to bottom. What sometimes is difficult with so called ‘lazy bottoms’ is they don’t position themselves for access. I’m sometimes thinking, arch your back…let me in!!

I’m usually top, because most of my clients are bottom. However I do both roles, sometimes at the same time in the middle if I’m in a group. You do need to be in the right mindset to bottom though, I find if I’m in that mindset it doesn’t matter how big he is, he can go for it. But so many things have to align: I’ve to be confident about being clean (not perfectly so, but at least thoroughly douched), the position has to be right, empty bladder, lube, the moon has to be waxing (ok maybe I made that bit up). It’s such a faff to bottom tbh. I feel sorry for total bottom guys. It’s much easier to top.

I’d go back to Ancient Greece and hire Patroclus and Achilles….I’m assuming they’d be open to such arrangements.

Totally varies. I get guys some booking ahead but most leave it to a couple of days before or even on the day. At the moment I’ve 6 bookings for the remainder of this month and 1 in September. Often I get asked if I’m free same day and usually I can’t do it because I’m busy. Best to give a couple of options…could you do X or Y? Example: yesterday a client messaged asking about a morning session next Sunday or Monday. I could do one of those so it was booked.

Hire in the UK. We’re a sensible country: you can safely discuss buying sex here. It’s legal, within certain parameters.

See my website for my sensual massage training option. Assuming you ever visit London of course.

Law enforcement is happy.

I’ve written previously on here about a client telling me he loved me. It was the most awkward I’ve ever felt in all my years doing escorting/massage. He professed love and asked me to go on holiday (vacation) with him and I’m sure he fully expected me to say yes. So extremely difficult because I could see he was surprised by my response. Our sessions were passionate and intimate of course. If someone is passionate towards me then I certainly find it no problem atall to return the energy plus some. I think some clients misread that for something more than what it is. Ultimately it’s a transaction.

Thanks! He arrived with poppers…I guess he knew what would work. I agree, they do help. They do nothing for me though, I find if I take them my cock goes soft.

I saw a client recently whose hole was very hairy and very tight. Neither is my preference. It was an escort session and he wanted to get fucked but first time I tried it was like breaking into the Bank of England. Eventually I got in but it was a struggle. Later on in the session he’d loosened up so it was easier to go back in a couple of times more. I should charge extra for all the lube. It’s so much simpler with a smooth hole, less lube needed, no hairs in your mouth, and I think visually more appealing.

Really? Wow I would like to know about these feuds 🙂. We all love a bit of drama! I think we need a table showing who hates who, who is jealous of who, who has fucked who (both literally and figuratively) and who is the partner of who. Then we could understand the sub text and less than subtle digs and motivations in the posts? Maybe the moderators could add context to comments like what happens in Twitter: Moderators added context; Poster A started a relationship with the ex of Poster B just one month after Poster B and the ex messily split up.

Yes I agree it’s short for submissive, which can usually mean they’ll bottom for you, and generally be submissive to your demands, hence the ‘sir’. But not everyone who will bottom will do so submissively. If I bottom I usually prefer to do that from a non submissive position. Whatever you see on a guys profile should be taken as illustrative; check with him what he means by it to avoid any awkward misunderstandings…

I think it does help to have a thick skin. It feels like some people are delighted (looking for it) to be offended. My view is if someone is behaving badly it’s their problem not mine, I’ll ignore them, or if I’m feeling mischievous I’ll wind them up a little bit more, just for general amusement. If you’ve engaged in ‘discussions’ on Twitter this place is a kindergarten by comparison. People are generally civil, it’s well moderated and uplifting / informative.

Two clients is more work but not necessarily requiring double the fee. I’ve some massage clients who like to be massaged sequentially (while the partner watches). That’s just like seeing two separate clients with no gap between so I charge my normal rate. I treat it like two separate clients. Having each partner watch is fine by me, it’s actually good fun because I like to perform with an audience. If the session is 90m with both partners participating at the same time then I charge my normal 90m rate, although it depends on what they want to do. It’s kind of unusual though to have that partner/provider session, much more common is me and another provider on one client. Arguably that’s less work but of course the client is paying for two guys. When the client wants me and a female that’s when the price increases significantly because the female providers I know and work with tend to charge more than guys (there’s equality for you!).

Ah! Can’t be from Scunthorpe either.

All the pics say ‘I’m from Essex’.

For next time: What’s appropriate in this situation is…no tip. I’d also suggest you avoid booking with guys who take such a casual and perfunctory approach! He fleeced you.

Makes you realise the value of it when it’s gone for a few days. I missed it. Thank you

Oral skills vary wildly. If the giver is a poor sucker then I’m ’thanks for trying but no…’ I’ve a regular massage client who is expert at it. His visit to me always the same. After 10 minutes I stand at end of the table and massage his head. After a few minutes of this he lifts it up takes my cock into his mouth and sucks me to completion, with a nice creamy mouthful. The rest of the massage continues as normal to a HE for him. It’s rare for me to cum from oral alone but this guy achieves it. I try to learn from him.