Jamie21

When I traveled I sometimes ordered in from an online portal called Grindr. It sometimes served up something tasty and protein enriched.

It is supply and demand but be aware this is an industry where the seller has more power. The clients that won’t pay more than 300 don’t get the provider. There’s low barrier to entry into this business and low to zero fixed costs. Providers can decide their rate because if no one buys at their minimum rate they’re prepared to work for then they simply leave the market and do something else. If the market rate is say $300 and the minimum I want is $400 then I will turn away the $300 guys, I don’t drop my rate to $300. If I get no buyers well then I’m not in the business am I? If the market rate rises to $400 perhaps because there’s higher demand or lower supply then I’ll enter the market and get $400. I suspect there’s a lot of frustration from those who can’t afford to hire the guys they want. It seems to come out by blaming providers for being greedy.

That 30mm makes all the difference

I’ve a big dick and I think that results in bottoms wanting to hire me. I’m not complaining because I’m vers and it’s fine either way for me but I do agree it’s much less preparation than bottoming. It can get annoying though when bottoms become desperate for it. The worst ones just expect to offer up their hole and I’ll pump away at it. Guys that’s boring! Interact a bit, suck me, kiss etc. I’m not a fuck machine.

Ah, you worked it out. Now do my cock size: 20.3 cm.

Get it while it’s fresh! But I’d like to return the favour of course because I enjoy nothing better than exploring a hole with my tongue.

My hole has just been waxed…just sayin’ 😏.

I’m 181cm…that’s thrown you hasn’t it? 😂

What he’s saying is the minimum rate is $1200 and for that he’ll stay 3 hours max. If you want to chuck him out after 2 hours that’s your call! I think half hour travel for an out call is fine. It’s not long. I’ve travelled up to an hour for out calls (even those booked for just an hour), although at a premium rate. Don’t bother trying to negotiate. It always sets things off badly. If clients try to negotiate my rate I’ll not go ahead with accepting the booking.

Thank you! I’m extremely reluctant to give x any of my money!!!

Yes and then they take your dignity. Mine went their way ages ago.

I think there’s an even more egregious example than Amazon. It’s Twitter (x). If I post a video on my OF that includes someone using poppers during sex, or if I put a pic on there of me and a guy fucking without tagging the other model or getting the other guy to do the release form process (which requires them to upload ID to Onlyfans third party authentication service) then the content gets deleted. However! Put the same content on twitter and it’s all fine. No problem with poppers, no problem with consent. Yet what’s the difference? Onlyfans content is monetized (I get subscription income) and twitter isn’t. That’s all. Anyone can join twitter, there’s no ID needed, no age verification, no requirement to get release forms for any pictures or videos posted there.

It happens. Unfortunately. I’ve had similar (travelling to clients only to have them ghost me when I got there). It all happens…and there’s a red flag every time. I had it recently with a client who’d booked twice previously and cancelled both sessions for various outlandish reasons. Third time he books and I think ‘ok this time maybe he will go ahead’. Then on the day before he sends a weird message saying ‘hi Jamie I’ve decided to offer my massage to someone else, and I might watch and join in’. What’s that about??? I replied to tell him I’d cancelled it because I couldn’t accept that proposal. He asked me to rethink and he’d come alone but after the previous issues I just told him I couldn’t see him. It’s just not worth the risk. I guess he was anxious about coming and instead of just saying ‘I’m sorry I’ve changed my mind because I’m anxious’ we could have dealt with it but he came up with some weird plan. People sometimes behave strangely when dealing with us. You just have to recognise the red flags and respond accordingly.

Glad to see a sense of humour is in your locker 😘. You can hire me! It’s $555 per hour (min 100 hours).

Ha ha I only just saw this but it reminded me of a session I did for a couple of clients. I wore shorts and had somehow lost my underwear in the session. On train ride home it was leaking out. Big wet patch. I was so proud 😂

And providers get tested very regularly. I’m amazed at some guys (non professionals) who don’t get routine tests yet have lots of casual partners.

Should always be the client’s choice if the provider is open to either. Personally I don’t use them to top but if a client wants to use on when they top me that’s fine. I find the opening the package and putting it on really detracts from the moment but of course catching something really detracts from a much more significant period of time! Best to be careful, test regularly, take prep and doxy prep etc.

But would you offer the hanging ritual in a spiritual conscious presence? Hanging each strip with a profound reverence to honour the divinity in the wall? Would you invite the sacred wallpaper to celebrate the celestial nature of its existence as it elevates the transcendence of your being? You can’t just slap a bit of paste on and stick it up, job done mate. Not for $555 per hour (minimum 2 hours).

It reminds me of the Nazis. Sharp uniforms and a really focused propaganda campaign: great visuals. And totally morally corrupt and reprehensible just beneath the surface.

Don’t ask on Onlyfans! I get asked and I can’t reply there because it’s against their rules. Find his X profile and send him a DM.

Very large indeed.

Hold up! I’m not so young 🤪. I wouldn’t worry about putting off providers who baulk at your age. You’re best to avoid those guys and to find out before you meet them! Decent guys will not be bothered. I’ve clients who are in their 70’s. I love it that they hire me. Fantastic guys. My issue with ‘hey’ is that it comes alone. ‘Hey’ …then nothing until I reply. Then it’s ’how are you’ 🙄. My heart sinks. It’s going to be a long exchange until we get to what he wants. I know he thinks he’s being polite etc but when you’ve responded to the same kind of approach 100’s of times it gets a bit challenging. It’s polite enough to just say ‘hello I like your profile/ad (or whatever) and I’d like to book a session on day / time’. We can take it from there.

Nothing. I don’t look at them. Your initial message tells me everything I need to know, even if it’s ‘hey’….Especially if it’s ‘hey’. Name. Preferred date, time, duration, location, where you found my details (so that I know you’ve read my profile/website) and any specific requirements. That’s all you need to do.

Each to his own. I’m sure there’s people who will be up for @Devah services and who will get something out of it. I find that if you’re looking for something Orphic there’s always people who are willing to provide it for you. If it helps you then it works. I get asked by clients for Tantric sessions. I say I don’t do them. I’ve attended Tantra workshops out of curiosity and I find it impenetrable: too couched in obscure language and insider speak. I ask clients who want a Tantra session to describe what they’d like without using ‘tantric’ language. Turns out they want to feel approved of. I can do that. I think these services that offer to unlock secrets and awaken consciousness etc is like religion: if you want to believe then you will find it. If you aren’t bothered then it’s just another snake oil salesman’s pitch or fairy story. Nothing wrong with believing, it meets a need for those who are searching. I just don’t buy the pitch. Call me cynical! As for the price. He can charge whatever he likes. No one is forcing anyone to pay it. If it’s more money than you want to pay, don’t buy!

Nice idea