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Reality check: you hired a guy you really like for an overnight. 12 hours. The evening started well, a drink in the bar, some flirting, getting to know each other. He’s engaging, intriguing, sexy. He looks only at you as you talk, he touches your hand as it rests on your thigh, he squeezes it while he casually orders you another drink. Over dinner he listens to your stories, smiling, nodding, asking questions. All the while dropping you teasers about what will happen later, in the bedroom both on and off the bed…especially off the bed. You’re hard under the table, driven there by the anticipation he’s built up. As you eat dessert your excitement causes you to get some ice cream on your fingers. He reaches over, takes your creamy hand slowly lifts it to his face, and licks your fingers clean… all the while maintaining eye contact with you. The lift takes for ever to reach your floor, stopping at every floor to let people out. He’s holding your hand, standing so close to you that you’re sure he can feel your heart beating. Now there’s just the two of you plus a hotel employee, who must be going to your floor, because the only remaining floor button lit up is yours. The lift ascends and as it does he leans in and kisses you, cradling your head with his hand, his body pressing you against the lift wall. The hotel employee turns to face the doors, and she exits quickly as they open on your floor. You try to move towards the door but he’s pinned you to the wall, kissing you passionately, his hard cock pressed against yours. Finally he steps back and taking your hand he leads you out of the lift and then he pauses, realising he doesn’t know your room number. You look at each other and grin, but before you can do anything he pulls you in for another kiss, and as he does so he reaches around to your back pocket and pulls out your room card, reads the number and silently leads you to the room. It’s early hours of the morning. You awake at the glint of light peeking through the gap in the curtains. He’s asleep next to you, facing away from you. Your arm is around his body, your chest against his back, you feel his warmth and slow deep breathing. You recall the two, three, was it four rounds of passionate sex. The shower session, the bedroom floor, the chair. Now he sleeps. A thought pops into your head: I paid $2400 for this, that’s $200 an hour…am I being ripped off for the hours he’s asleep?

I do. ‘We shall go on and fight it out, here or elsewhere, and if this long island story of ours is to end at last, let it end when each of us lies choking in his own blood upon the ground’.

WSC would be a great choice.

That’s it 🎯Get two ‘it’s all about me’ guys together and I’d say it’s going to be a frustrating experience. Most providers are focused on the client, which is helpful because that’s generally why clients hire.

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Their focus is on you. I’m quite happy not to cum (tbh it’s much easier if the client isn’t bothered about me cuming). If it’s clear to me that he really wants me to cum then I will (or I’ll try) but if it’s up to me, then I won’t cum. The other guys I know who do this job have the same approach. I think you’re right to assume they won’t cum unless asked.

Only if you swallow it.

I get massage clients asking me to cum. It’s not unusual. Some want it on specific body parts or in their mouth. Always happy to oblige. If you want it, ask them.

😳😳😳😳 That’s extremely niche, verging on S&M scenes. I’m not sure how I feel about a nazi uniform, makes me very uncomfortable. I know this is role play but that’s something I’d decline. Similarly I’ve declined to wear stockings/suspenders because it really isn’t me! Clients tend to ask me to wear a jock, shorts, wrestling singlet (with open back 😉), and of course socks. Sometimes it’s also special underwear that the client has bought me.

Your kind nature is evident by you actually considering the request and asking here whether the request is reasonable. I totally agree with everyone who said ‘block him!’. Lucky you didn’t go through with meeting him.

Tell them when you first message. Say you’re totally inexperienced and about what you’d like and why. Not a long message but just the headlines. You’ll get a few declines and guys who ignore you: that’s fine because they’d have been unsuitable anyway and that’s how you find out. I’d suggest to book an hour with a sensual / erotic masseur rather than an escort but the label matters less than finding the right person. Just aim for intimacy, not full sex or anything. Experience touch and being close to someone. Just be present with him and have no targets or anything other than to touch and cuddle. If you feel comfortable with him (does he make you feel approved of? - that’s the test) then book another session perhaps longer and explore further. After two or three sessions of this, without losing your virginity to him, try meeting people and socialising. I think it would be preferable for you to find a partner to progress further rather than with a provider, if it’s to be your first time having sex. The provider can get you over the initial difficult hurdle but you can do the rest. Good luck X

I’ve filmed with him (available on my platforms 🤪). Great guy; friendly, professional, hot.

My regular clients mostly don’t tip. I don’t consider it bad form. This is the UK, where tipping is not such a cultural phenomenon. I have regular US clients though (regular visitors to London) and mostly they don’t tip. It doesn’t matter to me. I’m grateful for tips but it doesn’t make any difference to my approach. Maybe I’ll be a little more flexible in trying to make myself available for a high tip clients preferred booking time but that’s all. The biggest compliment is that clients return if they enjoyed their session.

Interesting topic and I thank @JD-Angel for raising it. It takes a bit of courage to admit to embarrassing sex situations. I’ve had plenty, from horrendous mess situations when I’ve bottomed (which I have described previously, and probably don’t want to recount), to situations when I couldn’t get it up - and the harder I tried the more difficult it became, and being with a guy while his wife and children were upstairs (they knew I was there…I wonder if they knew what we were doing 😱). Let me add that these were all situations where I was present in a professional sense (either filming porn or seeing clients) which makes it even more awkward. I’ve learned that this stuff happens, and usually it’s best to laugh it off and not get too anxious or upset about it. There’s many more situations where it all went fabulously. The embarrassing situations are just part and parcel of participating in the first place. They serve to put the great situations into context.

Ah, you’re a challenge. I like the game…. My internal monologue: Ugh, I’ve tried almost everything and he hasn’t responded…is he asleep?, is he dead?😱..no, he’s still breathing that’s good. Maybe a nibble of his ear? Nope, nothing, rim his hole perhaps, is that too unsubtle at this point? Nothing! Everyone groans at being rimmed. Very unusual, I bet he’s a total top. Oh well let’s go left field and suck a finger…..Ah!! There it is, found his button. He’s turning over…ohhh hello that’s large. I hope he is a top 😂

Yep. Blatant! I’ve had ‘straight’ guys say ‘ohh just a little external touch on my bum’. 10 minutes later they’re ass up and I’m applying lube. 🤪

There’s a lot: Legs apart, hand brushing my shorts, pelvis tipped forward (arch in back), lifting head when I’m standing that end, adjusting groin area, groaning or sighing when touched in certain areas, changes in breathing, toes curling, fingers moving, skin tone changing, tightening of bulbospongiosus muscle (perineum area)….many signs people give, some of them intentional some they aren’t even aware it’s happening. Then there’s pulling my shorts down and sucking me which is a fairly subtle one that gets me thinking that maybe this client is looking for a little more…🤪 But I only do sensual massage so I know that clients are looking for that kind of service. But still, the signals you get are the same because what you’re doing is pressing all the buttons that turn people on. I know what the buttons are, although they vary between individuals, so one simply tries them all until you find the buttons that work for this person. Then you get the body language feedback.

I find Cigarettes After Sex (the band not the activity) is good for slow sensual sessions. Or Vivaldi. You have to be careful though, I was playing one of my favourite playlists recently in a session with a client and he told me (afterwards) that one of the tracks brought back some unwelcome memories for him. Difficult to ask everyone ‘is there something I shouldn’t play in case it’s triggering’ though!

I find the boys like you to verbally acknowledge your daddy status. “Does boy want daddy’s cock in his holes?” “Suck daddy’s big cock like a good boy” that kind of thing. At first I found it jarring but it certainly gets them going and that helps.

I’ll usually need a bit of hand to get me close then he can finish off using just mouth action. Some guys can manage to get a mouthful from me with just sucking only but few it seems have the right technique. When I’m sucking I don’t usually combine hands with it because they’re otherwise occupied. I find guys tend to blow their load in my mouth if I’m using my hands to play with nipples or their hole / balls while I suck. It’s the combination of sensations that gets them to climax.

Replying to this 10 hours later, I hope you haven’t moved on! I try to respond promptly but if someone texts me say just before I’m going to see a client for let’s say a 2 hour appointment then it’s highly likely I won’t respond to the text for 3 hours. I think 3 hours is quite tight. I get enquiries from abroad when I’m asleep so it could be I don’t reply for up to 8 hours. Actually in some ways this is beneficial to me because I’m not looking for or wanting clients who’s interest in hiring me is so transient and immediate that they’ve moved on after 3 hours and they can’t appreciate I might actually be busy. I don’t do ‘last minute’ sessions (the motivation for those is not something I’m wanting to satisfy) therefore those potential clients who do ‘move on’ after 3 hours is a great way for me to weed out the superficial and transactional type of client with that mindset. Nothing wrong with that type of client, but they’re not the kind I market to.

If you mean how do I respond to the question ‘what’s the difference between sensual and erotic?’ I’d say it depends on the masseurs opinion about what’s included so ask him for details if that’s possible. Some jurisdictions mean that the conversation has to be worded carefully, elsewhere you can ask for a blow job if you want one.

Near where I am there’s a well known hotel that is used by guys who set up pump and dump sessions in their room. They set themselves up in a room, ass up on the bed, door unlocked and advertise on Sniffies for random guys to turn up and dump a load in them. No conversation, no foreplay or any wasting of time. The top simply walks in, drops his trousers and unloads, then leaves. It gets busy so sometimes they have to queue (this is England, I imagine it’s a neat line), but otherwise it’s all very quick and efficient. The bottom gets multiple loads and is satisfied. When I open the app there’s a session on there almost every day. You can do some shopping nearby, drop in and leave a load in a cum dump and then return to your shopping or whatever plans you have. I’m really impressed by the ingenuity of it all. Trouble is I worry it takes business away from me but I guess I offer a more sophisticated kind of service so it’s a different market.

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