Jamie21

It’s normal. It doesn’t just happen to you @JB_Studio38. If all my enquiries came off I’d be richer too. <50% of my enquiries result in a booking, usually because the client just goes quiet (I never chase them, if they really want to book they will do so, I’m not interested in indifferent clients), or the timing doesn’t work or I’m too expensive or in the wrong place, or they just get scared of booking. Plus there’s timewasters who are only interested in the chat. It’s all just part of the industry, and my modus operandi caters for all of that. And to keep it on theme, if they all booked I wouldn’t be able to get hard for all of them anyway!

Try RentMen. Ask for what you want, don’t be coy. Usually you pay afterwards. The duration depends on your budget, but beware, if you book 3 or 4 hours and for some reason you find you don’t find him compatible after half an hour and want to curtail it he will expect full payment. Best to book someone for an hour, see what he’s like and then book a longer session next time. It’s highly likely that you’re going to have some trial and error with this. There’s no such thing as a ‘sure thing’. Don’t go into it with that expectation.

I agree that natural light looks great but you need to be careful of the light changing if you’re filming for any decent length of time. The sun might be providing great light through windows at the start but it can get cloudy or the light changing can make the edit difficult. I always make sure if using natural light that it won’t change during the shoot. It’s simpler to use lighting and adjust the tone with a colour light.

Merry Christmas to all. I was a naughty boy this year and Santa is delivering me what naughty boys get…so that plan worked out well.

It’s a lot of work!! My films are edited by a professional editor who uses Adobe PremierePro for editing. The best camera for filming is a i phone tbh, especially the latest ones. Most of the guys I collab with use i phones. I also use a go pro for getting unusual angles. You’ll need tripods, lights (ring light) and plenty of memory storage to keep all the content.

My preference is weekday mornings. But I’m available most times if someone can give decent notice. I’ll rarely accept bookings for ‘now or the next couple of hours’ because it’s just not practical for me. Nor will I take last minute late night bookings, those guys tend to be bad clients.

21 at heart @PhileasFogg…

If they’re paying they can call me whatever they like. Lots of young guys like to hire older experienced guys who know what they’re doing. I work that market: ‘Let daddy massage you boy’. 🤪

Subscribe to his sites then 🙂! I know Nick, he’s a great guy. When he visits London he borrows my massage table for his films. I filmed a nice 4 hands with him which you can see on my OF and JFF -link in my bio😉 (and it’s on Nick’s one too!).

I think people do, because whilst there’s lower risk of catching HIV from oral sex than anal sex the risk isn’t zero, so if you want reassurance then it makes sense to be on prep if you’re having sex with different partners where you don’t know their HIV status. If I were you I’d ask questions at the sexual health clinic. They’ll advise you on the risks and choices.

The fact that many providers are on prep shouldn’t be a consideration for you. They’re on prep to protect themselves. Also, even if they say they’re on prep you shouldn’t necessarily believe them. If you want to reduce risk to yourself you should go on prep and use a condom. Get yourself tested regularly, take doxy prep too. Research these things or ask at your sexual health clinic. Professional providers have a strong interest in keeping themselves free of any infections. I get regularly tested, I’m on prep, I have vaccinations against things like hepatitis etc. I ask questions at my sexual health clinic (which is fantastic by the way). I’d say that having sex with a provider is less risky than a casual partner who probably doesn’t get regular tests or take much interest in his sexual health until something goes wrong. You should be sensible, understand the risks, take precautions but above all go for it and enjoy yourself. Overly focusing on risks prevents you from discovering so many opportunities.

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I send nude pics if a client asks. There’s lots of nudes on my website too. But I don’t include my face. If this guy is selling a sexual service (which a sensual massage is because often the masseur is naked and will allow touch) then I think he ought to provide pictures of himself naked. They don’t need to show him hard or include his face, just a nice naked picture because effectively his body is part of the service with a sensual massage. His reticence may be due to him being new, or perhaps because he’s aware there’s a lot of ‘picture collectors’ who have no intention of booking. They waste your time by asking for ever more explicit pictures.

Don’t mention this in the ‘law enforcement’ thread!!! 😱

Tell me you’re from England without telling me you’re from England: Starting a sentence with ‘mind you…’ 😂. That’s so English. My dear old thing you are quite correct, it’s perfectly legal to sell or buy sex here, within certain parameters - for example it’s not legal to do so from the street or in a brothel but then neither of those are my cup of tea…I prefer to work independently in a more salubrious environment for discerning gentlemen of good character.

The endless debate about rates 🙄. “I won’t pay more than x”….”he’s asking too much” etc. If a guy wants to work at a rate of $500 per hour that’s entirely his prerogative. You don’t have to pay it, no one is forcing you. Just move on to someone who’s charging what you’re prepared to pay. His price is his estimation of his worth, not yours.

I guess the provider could have got himself delivered by Amazon.

He should have told you it would be a requirement. But the reason he’s doing it is because it means you’re not a time waster. I’ve done out calls where the client is all keen and seems legitimate but when you arrive he goes silent and you don’t have the correct address (or it’s incomplete). You’re left with no booking, you’ve travelled and wasted your time. Now I’m much more careful with out calls. I never bother with the Uber request (because I prefer to be in charge of the travel) but I will ask for a deposit if he seems flaky and I’ll use google maps to research the location (and do other checks). I’ll include the cost of travel in my overall rate. Clients don’t like surprise extra charges, and I agree with them. It’s unprofessional to throw in extra charges late in the day.

I used to combine sex work with a demanding full time job, plus other commitments. It was too much and I had to decide what to let go. I liked the regular income from my conventional job (which was extremely well paid) and I liked the excitement and variety of the sex work. I wanted it all but it was so challenging and I was ending up short changing both careers. I didn’t like having to compromise on either job but events resolved things for me. Covid happened, I had the opportunity to leave the conventional job with a lump sum, and it enabled me to focus fully on sex work (including making films). I now mix the sex work with other work that is very flexible and I can enjoy the variety and independence that this model brings. If you’re going to do sex work properly you’ll find it’s extremely difficult to do that around a 9 to 5 job. You need to be extremely flexible with time when doing sex work otherwise you’ll find yourself turning away a lot of business and that will be irritating at best. Now I can be available at the times clients want (within reason) and fit my other work around that. I’d say once you’ve built up regular clients you’ll probably need to carve out more time from your 9 to 5. Of course these days with flexible work hours and WFH it is a bit easier to fit other commitments around that.

For an escort session I’ll never promise a client he’ll be bred, it’s too much pressure. If I’m bottoming then I don’t have any problem with the client breeding me though. On the subject of the nudes and texting, I’m fine to share nudes but one does get picture collectors. A line gets drawn once it becomes evident he has no intention of booking.

I’d say it’s probably more to find collab partners than subscribers. Plus he may pick up the occasional client who wants to hire him to model for them.

I absolutely love rimming (clean holes only). I notice though that after rimming some clients they’re not keen to kiss. They like being rimmed but kissing after my tongue has been in their hole is a step too far for them. Everyone has their limits and it’s important to understand and respect them.

Those 4 letter Anglo Saxon words are so descriptive and pithy aren’t they!!

One guys pleasure points won’t be the same as another. Cocks can come in all shapes and sizes - cut, uncut, tight foreskins, big, small, micro….The same thing that gets you off doesn’t work on everyone. It’s very nuanced. Ok some provider tricks here 😉: if you’re working his cock and it doesn’t seem to be getting him close - what you do is stop, whisper in his ear ‘I love to see guys wank themselves’ < an aside….apologies to non Brits for using ‘wank’…do I need to translate? > and then watch him wank himself. Watch both hands (guys will have points of their body they touch that get them there). What he will show you, without realising it, is his technique to get himself off. You can then take over and copy him or even let him carry on whilst helping. Works every time 🙂. Same applies to yourself, some clients love to watch me get myself off especially if the load is on their face. Of course I know the best way to do it so I let them get me close (if they’re able to) and then finish the job myself while they expectantly wait for the cum on their face. I usually do that before finishing the client off. I was interested that @Simon Suraciprefers to cum after the client. Of course I prefer most not to cum atall because it’s the client’s session but if the client wants it then I do cum and it really doesn’t matter to me if that is before the client. I’ve a few that like the ‘cum on my face thing’ and then kiss. If I tried that after they’ve cum they’d no way want to kiss 😂. If you prefer to finish the guy yourself and you’re not sure the technique on his cock is right watch his breathing and his toes. Breathing gives lots of clues as it gets faster and deeper as he gets close, and as his climax builds his toes will stretch out. When you see them starting to stretch out he’s close…keep going. Free advice from someone who has given thousands of hand jobs 😂

Hmmm now there’s a question. It might slip in a bit further and tbh sometimes the bottom pushes back so yeah I might end up balls deep.