Jamie21

I think straight men are more scared / censorious of same sex activity than straight women are. Women seem much more open minded to same sex activity whether that’s guy on guy or girl on girl. I’ve done live sex shows (me and another guy fucking) and most of the audience was women, of all sexualities. They loved watching two guys go at it. The ‘straight’ men in the audience were more anxious about it (probably because they were turned on but didn’t want to acknowledge that because that might make them gay 😂). The women just enjoyed it.

Might be. Red flags tend to come in groups: incredible pics, low rates, requests for deposit, request for extra money for an Uber etc. Do an image search on his pics… he could be ‘borrowing’ them. That’ll reassure you that they’re probably genuinely him. Then beware of other red flags cropping up once he’s drawn you in.

I tell clients that they’re welcome to touch me as much or as little as they like. Some like to touch, some prefer to just receive touch, it doesn’t matter to me. The most difficult clients are those who are grabby and have no sense of how to touch. Fortunately they are very rare. I think most clients like to feel my cock brush against them during the massage. I do let it land in their hands as I stand at the side lol. I saw a client a couple of days ago who wanted to wank me off and shoot on his chest as I kneeled astride him on the table. It’s the visuals that he liked. Some clients like to test out my hole too although it can be difficult if I’ve not been expecting them to be interested in that. If I know beforehand they’re likely to go there I’ll prep and lube it up.

I’ve been working as a masseur for 7 years. Best job I ever did.

I did an 8 hands one time. It was hardly a massage. It was more like an orgy. I wouldn’t call it a massage.

I give them regularly. I only give them with other providers who I know because a lot rests on the skill of the providers. Here’s some tips if you’re thinking of a 4 hands: It’s not like a 2 hands but with 4 hands. It’s a less relaxing style of massage. More is going on so the client will probably find it difficult to fully relax like they would in a 2 hands. Often, 60 minutes is enough because 4 hands progresses fairly quickly. The 2 masseurs need to be similar in style and philosophy. It will feel strange if one masseur is mostly firm and the other uses lighter touch. If you want the masseurs to interact with each other as well as you then ask them beforehand. Make sure they’re comfortable working with each other.

I love it!!! Sit on my face. 🤪

@mike careyhas sensible advice. The red flags (well covered elsewhere on here) are what you should look out for when hiring; the location is very much secondary, if it matters at all.

Here is your answer. 100%.

If I have clients who are worried about this I suggest they book a 2 hour session and we start with a ‘happy beginning’. I suck them off or something in the first 15 minutes then they can relax into enjoying the massage and I’ll build the sensual aspects again so he can have a happy ending too. It’s a good way to enable the client to completely relax for the massage.

When I first read that I thought ‘ well of course..that’s the whole idea’ and then I realised you meant the ride to the venue.

It’s like wearing loose fit jeans rather than skinny jeans. Yes they fill the inside with hormones that make you want to buy them dinner, new clothes and undertake DIY tasks. Best to stick to using the ass.

Fortunately not. Also her husband’s cock was in my mouth for part of the time so I couldn’t speak.

Let me peer review your study @Lucky. I’m bi and hung so I feel qualified to add an opinion. I was fucking a clients pussy recently (while her husband watched - which isn’t relevant to the study but I thought I’d add it for context) and I began thinking mid fuck that indeed her pussy was a lot looser than the tight holes of guys I’d fucked recently. It was more reminiscent of the kind of hole on a sub bottom who’s taken a few large cocks already. At the time I was thinking ‘this isn’t going to get me off’ which was fine because she didn’t want me to shoot inside. Afterwards I reflected that whilst some holes are too tight and some too loose there’s a ‘Goldilocks’ zone where the hole is just right.

Around £150 for an hour sensual massage is about par for London. I suspect the £90 rate was for therapeutic massage with no HE? You should expect to pay at least £120 for an hour sensual massage in London. Anything less and it’s likely he’s not any good; no table, uses baby oil, rub and tug technique. That kind of thing.

It’s where you go out but he takes ages to get ready, he disagrees with you on the type of restaurant, flirts with the waiter, spends a lot of time on his phone, doesn’t notice that you’re wearing a new top (or comment on it) and then gets drunk at the club, sucks off one of your friends in the toilets and then disappears for 3 hours with one of the go go dancers. Later that evening at home in bed he tries to fuck you but falls asleep part way through. Next morning he denies everything and kisses you so tenderly you end up having sex on the kitchen table. Oh wait no….you mean you’re hiring a bf experience? That can mean anything you like (the above if it’s your thing) or something like that except a little more attentive and giving. I did one recently for a client where they wanted to meet for drinks in the bar of their hotel, we flirt, kiss etc then go to their room, bath together with more drinks (I had the tap end) then a massage and play on the bed. It could also involve going out to a club or restaurant, basically you decide what you’d like. He will plan it and deliver.

I can’t comment on the rate because I work in a different market. I’d recommend avoiding trying to negotiate the rate. I don’t like clients trying to negotiate me down tbh. As for filming I’m ok with clients asking to film a small part of their session but I’m not ok to film the whole session because it’s too much of a distraction. You could ask him and see. It wouldn’t offend.

Good luck. Experienced guys will guide you.

I’d suggest first finding a vers daddy type who appeals to you. I say vers because he needs to understand a top mindset. Then engage him in discussion about what you want. If he’s a good provider he’ll understand what you’re looking for. I find many clients don’t exactly know what they’re looking for - they can’t articulate it and often they don’t know it fully. It takes a bit of time (a few sessions) and some flexibility from me to help them. I’ve had guys change their minds on what role they think they are after a few sessions. It’s good to avoid being rigidly in a box.

Only about time wasters and troublemakers. It’s based on the phone number. There’s no site where we rate and comment on clients or bitch about them. That’s kind of pointless. I discuss a few mutual clients with other masseurs who I’m friends with but that’s just work talk.

I’ve a few clients who are hard before they get on the table. It’s the anticipation. One guy lets me deal with it by sucking him off…so it’s a happy start. He’s then able to relax and enjoy the massage and get hard again for a happy ending too. I call it a happy sandwich style massage.

We’re all intrigued to hear how it goes (well, I am at least!) so please report back. The longest session I’ve done is at parties, of about 6 hours but it wasn’t constant sex and wasn’t playing just one role. There was some talking, eating (nibbles) and drinking interspersed with sex. It’s good to take natural breaks and of course after I’d cum I wanted to take a break before going back to it so that kind of forces a rest. I can’t imagine bottoming solidly for that long, it actually sounds quite uncomfortable. I know some guys use numbing cream to help them bottom more easily and for longer.

I confirm my rate with the client when they book. I send a message to confirm time, duration, date, rate, address and any instructions. Then I send a reminder day before and if he’s new I confirm again on the day with a ‘see you later!’ message. It saves a lot of misunderstandings.

Could be lots of reasons he’s not replied, I’d be wary to assume it’s because you’re less attractive than previously. I think it’s bad of him not to reply to you even with an excuse if he doesn’t want your custom. Unless he’s forgotten it’s really no excuse for not sending a ‘sorry I’m fully booked’ message or something. If this is genuinely how he behaves towards someone who has been a good client is he really worth seeing again? It’s your opportunity to find a new guy who will value your business and you.

Definitely. Some people are pretty dim (obviously none of my clients…). My website clearly states I’m in London, but I get ‘where are you based?’ or worse ‘I’m on 23rd and 4th downtown are you available for an outcall?’ …yes, if you pay the flight costs and my outcall rate for 1000 mile of travel… Or even worse than location misunderstanding…some clients think I’m female! Maybe my name is gender neutral but surely they can see my pics and a massive cock between my legs? When I say ‘I’m a guy’ they get quite upset, as if I’ve accused them of being gay. No…I accused you of being thick. You’re not lucky enough to be gay. Others ask about sex work services via messaging my Onlyfans or via my Instagram. I try to direct them to a more appropriate medium to discuss such things but they don’t get the hints. Don’t they realise it’s strictly not allowed to discuss paid sexual services on those sites. What part of ‘please contact me via the number on my Linktree’ is unclear? And why can’t they find the Linktree or the website link when it’s clearly there on my insta profile? In some ways these seemingly small barriers to access serve to prevent the stupid or the lazy from actually booking. Maybe that’s not such a bad thing?