Jamie21

Did it in the shower with him, using cream. I think the blade was too sharp, and I wasn’t slow enough.

Sexual attraction is only superficially physical. Of course everyone has a physical type that they find attractive and many people don’t explore beyond that, so they don’t discover that in reality sexual attraction is a mental thing. Those who do sex work and are able to do sexual activity with anyone realise that it’s a state of mind. They can get into that state of mind for their partner.

OMG I did that for someone one time (not as a paid gig) and nicked him on the shaft and balls. It was like a scene from a hospital documentary. He wasn’t happy. It’s very different doing someone else to doing your own because you can’t feel when there might be risk of a cut.

The world comes to me 😘

I was on holiday in Mykonos with a friend one time, and we ended up hooking up with another couple. One of the other couple had had laser hair removal on his body (torso and elsewhere) because he’d been a drag performer and so wanted to be hair free. He told us a horror story about the laser procedure going wrong and leaving him with ugly marks all over his torso for ages. He had to sue the practitioner and have loads of treatment to fix the damage. This was some years prior to us meeting him and his partner and so it wasn’t especially noticeable on his body, but if you looked closely (which we had done ha ha) then you could see the scarring. I think that story put me off having any kind of laser hair removal. I just wax and shave.

I’ve found that guys tend not to want to cum at orgies, unless they’re ready to go home and then they’ll cum. So everyone is having sex (some just watch, which I find strange but I’m glad of the audience) but no one is cuming….they’ll stop or ease off a bit if they get close. Some want to save it for someone they had their eye on, some seem to lose all interest as soon as they cum so to prolong the fun they hold off cuming until they’re ready. I was at a party recently and after it had been going a while I was chatting in the kitchen. A guy who had just arrived came in (to leave the bottle he’d brought) and I see that I know him. He saw me, looked at my soft cock and said “hey Jamie! have you already cum?” I had to laugh because all he was interested in was taking my load, not even a ‘hi how are you?’. I told him I knew he was coming late and had saved a big load for him…where would he like me to leave it? Obviously that was a lie…one of the guys I was talking to had already received a load. My late coming friend got some too because he promised me I’d get his. We had a deal.

If he makes that much per massage then good luck to him. I see he’s on Onlyfans so it could be more to drive traffic there.

It’ll be on my justforfans….so yes you will pay!

Give me an hour on my massage table with the straightest of straight guys who is so straight he is straighter than a ruler for drawing straight lines….and I’ll have him legs apart begging for his hole to be used 😂😂😂.

Yes it’s Sleepyboy. That’s the main site here. There’s also Adultwork.com. Plus others. If you try to work from Grindr you’ll get banned by them.

I remember one time I was ‘using’ a gloryhole (is that the right term?). ‘Using’ as in my cock was through the hole. The guy the other side was doing a fine job. Then he stopped, and I was far from cuming. I think that’s fine because I was keen to try a few different techniques through the hole…so I waited and it wasn’t long before the next guy started. I knew he was different because the technique was very different. Then he stopped too, although it was only a brief stop. But this time it felt kind of different, less wet, slightly tighter and I suddenly realised he’d backed his ass onto my cock. I pulled out and was really annoyed he should assume I’d want to bareback him. For me that’s a definite etiquette breach. In fact it’s more than that, it’s totally unacceptable. If he wanted that he could have offered his ass up at the hole. That’s why I don’t use gloryholes now, and of course I prefer to see the person I’m having fun with (and of course be seen….by them and by others…if my sexual partner is cool with that!!!)

My advice previously was be direct and clear. But that was from my perspective where doing sex work is legal. I have no concerns about my potential client being a police officer (in fact if they’d like to come in uniform that’s good with me 😉….although they should pre warn me if that’s their plan!). As for cuming in my client’s mouth, it’s fine by me. I rarely see more than one client a day. All I’d ask is …kiss me afterwards.

@DrownedBoy Thank you. Although I was talking in my last post from a providers perspective because I was asked “are clients nervous”. In my experience some certainly are! You seem like a great client a new guy would be lucky to meet.

Try “will you cum during the session?”. It is greatly appreciated when clients get to the point. You might add where you would like him to cum too. That’s usually an important consideration.

My porn! Because it features me 😂

Book a sensual massage with a guy you think you can relate to.

Some are yes. I don’t know whether that’s because it’s new to them or they’re just anxious about meeting a new person in an intimate situation or some other reason. Part of the job is helping them to overcome that and feel comfortable and safe. A few have said they’re excited and nervous to meet me, where they’ve been following me on social media or something. I must say that that’s both extremely flattering and very daunting actually because you kind of hope that you live up to their expectations. I’m preferring it if they say afterwards things like that because it actually makes me anxious to be the person they imagine in their minds.

Yes! That’s why I made so many mistakes. But it’s how you learn: you can read about how to do things but the only real way to learn is by actually doing it and making mistakes.

Inspired by these novellas I’m going to do a series ‘10 consecutive nights with My Right Hand’. Obviously there will be ups and downs, things might get sticky along the way but I think me and My Right Hand will be inseparable. I might even give My Right Hand a night off and get his friend, My Left Hand a try. And on the last night I’ll get them both working, I’m a big boy, I can handle them both.

That’s brilliant advice. When I started the guy who I knew and trusted who had started in a similar way to me advised me on pricing. Without that advice I’d have priced it much too low. Once you’ve started low it’s very difficult indeed to change. His advice was err on the high side and only reduce if you find that you’re not getting sufficient business.

Table is much better for a good massage. If I see clients on out calls I take my table. Most hotels have no issues about me walking in with the table but sometimes the client’s room is too small to fit the table in and move around it. I offer the client the choice if they want a massage on the bed or table. Bed is a different kind of experience, and I adapt the massage to suit the bed.

Read my website blog. Z to A of Sensual Massage 😘

Oh yes, and not just for money saving. How many times have I opened my washbag, reached in for the massage oil, condoms etc and found that my lube bottle has leaked everywhere. I’ve yet to find a bottle of lube in it’s original packaging that meets the dual purpose of being secure while being transported, and is possible to open easily with one hand whilst your face is buried between your client’s ass cheeks. So now I decant a small amount of lube into a suitable container. It’s the small things that make life easier.

So can you be straight and be “gay acting”? That’s what I’m challenging with the questioning of the term “straight acting”.

I do both. I see clients (mainly for sensual massage) and I do justforfans movies. I’d say I prefer seeing clients (because I like the interaction and I value seeing my regular clients) but it’s actually easier to do videos for justforfans. The most challenging thing with that is lining up guys to collaborate with. Once you have a good bank of content then you start to earn passive income from the catalogue of movies on your site. Of course you still need to film new content all the time but if you do a few filming sessions in a day that’s about a months content, then you can basically take the month off and earn from the regular subscribers to your fans site. However you do need to first build up a good quantity of films and of course you need decent films to win new subscribers. The top models on Onlyfans and justforFans do very well out of it. I can understand why they’d prefer it to seeing clients.