Jamie21

I disagree with that. If you want it you should ask it. Of course you don’t know whether he will be able to or wants to …that’s why you ask! If he can’t or won’t then he’ll say so. If you really want that then it’s fine to ask him. I like my clients to ask if it’s something they really want. If I’m doubtful about whether I can do it then I’ll just say ‘let’s see’, but I’d rather know he wants it. This part I agree with. Don’t choreograph the session too much. I like to read where it’s going and I think I can tell what my clients like now by just watching how they react to certain things. I think you need to know where it definitely won’t go if you have red lines but outside of that part of the fun is the exploration into the unknown.

Definitely agree. You need to truly enjoy the work and enjoy the people you meet through doing it. If you don’t enjoy it then it’s easily apparent to your client. At its essence the work requires kindness and humanity, it should never be purely transactional (although of course there’s a transactional element to it). When I stop enjoying doing this kind of work I’ll stop.

Unless of course you’re in an enlightened country.

It’s the large 4 inch cock kind of thing..

This reminds me of a client of mine and his dog. My experience may offer you a solution… I’ve a regular massage client who I visit on outcalls. He has a couple of very large Labradors; an older bitch and a young dog. The client adores them. When I visit with my massage table and bag the old girl lifts her head from her snooze and kind of nods hello. The young dog bounces all over me in excitement. His name is Parker (the dog, not the client…in fact I have changed his name for anonymity, I wouldn’t want to embarrass the dog). The client has a large 3 storey house and we use a top floor spare bedroom for the massage. Somehow I make it up the stairs to the bedroom with my table while Parker runs excitedly up and down alongside me. The first time I saw the client at his place he kept Parker outside the bedroom while I did the massage. I try to set a relaxing tone with music and soft lighting etc but for the whole massage Parker is crying outside, scratching at the door and padding around. Every so often the client shouts “Parker…be good!” which doesn’t seem to help. This client likes to begin the massage on the table and then half way through (he books 90m but I don’t keep strict time on outcalls so it’s usually a couple of hours) we move to the double bed for er…more relaxing massage shall we say. My first out call to him must have been good because things become regular. After a few visits the routine is set. Parker greets me excitedly and slowly gets used to me (and me to him actually), the crying outside the door reduces (but never really goes away) and my client gets a massage / bed session. I think we’re all happy. However on one session my client leaves the bedroom door open…and Parker is with us for the massage….My client senses my anxiety and says “don’t worry Jamie he’s used to you now, he’ll be good”. I say “ok” but I’m thinking ‘I’d rather he was outside…he hasn’t seen what happens’. So I start as usual and Parker is sat in the corner of the room watching me….with those eyes. At this point I’ve got shorts on and my client is covered in a towel. I’ve massaged clients before when their dog is in the room but usually that dog is a small lap dog thing and it just curls up in its basket and sleeps. This is different, Parker seems to be guarding his owner. Will he attack me when I’ve got his owners dick in my mouth? Will he attack my dick when my shorts are off? What happens when we move to the bed? It’s difficult for me to get into the massage…but slowly Parker settles and so do I. I can see him laying down, his head between his paws, eyes occasionally catching mine. It’s like I’ve become one of the pack. Both of us serving his master. I’m naked now and so is the client. He’s been touching my cock (the client…not Parker) so I have a semi. Parker is watching us but seems relaxed. Maybe the massage ambience is calming him. Is it my imagination or do I sense a look of brotherly respect in his glance toward me as he sees my cock ‘respect bro’ (did I mention Parker is hung?). I send him back a look that I hope says ‘great balls’ (did I mention he’s laying on his side, displaying a massive pair of bollocks?). We bond like gym ‘bros’ in the locker room. The massage progresses slowly (my client likes a great massage and long build up). Parker stirs himself from his bollock display position and languidly moves to immediately under my table. Does this mean I’m accepted? Now I’m stepping over him as I move around the table. I’m now bent over the table working my client’s glutes with my elbow…my glutes are exposed. Parker re-arranges himself and I briefly imagine he’s going to sniff between my parted ass cheeks. Strangely this is not disconcerting to me. I whisper into my client’s ear “shall we move to the bed?”. He’s definitely ready for that because he climbs off the table and onto the bed, which he’s put clean towels on already. I grab my oil bottle, the lube bottle, chuck them on the bed and join my client who has assumed the position…so I bury my face in his ass and rim him. As I’m down there I sense something else join us on the bed. Coming up for air I see that Parker has joined us. It’s a large bed but he is so arranged that he’s taken half of it. He seems comfortable with me rimming his master (maybe he’s thinking ‘ah so humans sniff each other’s asses too, what hypocrites for laughing at us when we do it’) so I carry on. The bed session is kind of awkward though. Not because I don’t like an audience…on the contrary I love an audience but they’re usually human. Parker is just in the way, I keep almost kicking him or laying on him as me and my client move around the bed. Fortunately he doesn’t interfere, even during more vigorous activity when it could look like to him that I’m attacking his owner. At the climax, and briefly, and in a weird way I have a sense of disappointment because I’ve never had an audience be so indifferent. Couldn’t he show some sign of approval? Perhaps come over and use that tongue to clean up the cum that’s on my leg? Fortunately that feeling quickly passes (gross!) and I’m quite glad when Parker gets off the bed and leaves the bedroom…like some client who wants to dash for the shower as soon as he’s shot his load. I cuddle with the client for a bit and then shower off in the en suite as he makes us tea downstairs. “I think it works better if Parker is in the room Jamie, I hope you didn’t mind, he’s much calmer and I can relax better” says my client as he hands me a slice of lemon drizzle. “Yes I think so” I reply glancing at Parker who seems to be ignoring me. My advice to you @Stormy ….include your dog in the sex (only as an observer of course)!

Did it in the shower with him, using cream. I think the blade was too sharp, and I wasn’t slow enough.

Sexual attraction is only superficially physical. Of course everyone has a physical type that they find attractive and many people don’t explore beyond that, so they don’t discover that in reality sexual attraction is a mental thing. Those who do sex work and are able to do sexual activity with anyone realise that it’s a state of mind. They can get into that state of mind for their partner.

OMG I did that for someone one time (not as a paid gig) and nicked him on the shaft and balls. It was like a scene from a hospital documentary. He wasn’t happy. It’s very different doing someone else to doing your own because you can’t feel when there might be risk of a cut.

The world comes to me 😘

I was on holiday in Mykonos with a friend one time, and we ended up hooking up with another couple. One of the other couple had had laser hair removal on his body (torso and elsewhere) because he’d been a drag performer and so wanted to be hair free. He told us a horror story about the laser procedure going wrong and leaving him with ugly marks all over his torso for ages. He had to sue the practitioner and have loads of treatment to fix the damage. This was some years prior to us meeting him and his partner and so it wasn’t especially noticeable on his body, but if you looked closely (which we had done ha ha) then you could see the scarring. I think that story put me off having any kind of laser hair removal. I just wax and shave.

I’ve found that guys tend not to want to cum at orgies, unless they’re ready to go home and then they’ll cum. So everyone is having sex (some just watch, which I find strange but I’m glad of the audience) but no one is cuming….they’ll stop or ease off a bit if they get close. Some want to save it for someone they had their eye on, some seem to lose all interest as soon as they cum so to prolong the fun they hold off cuming until they’re ready. I was at a party recently and after it had been going a while I was chatting in the kitchen. A guy who had just arrived came in (to leave the bottle he’d brought) and I see that I know him. He saw me, looked at my soft cock and said “hey Jamie! have you already cum?” I had to laugh because all he was interested in was taking my load, not even a ‘hi how are you?’. I told him I knew he was coming late and had saved a big load for him…where would he like me to leave it? Obviously that was a lie…one of the guys I was talking to had already received a load. My late coming friend got some too because he promised me I’d get his. We had a deal.

If he makes that much per massage then good luck to him. I see he’s on Onlyfans so it could be more to drive traffic there.

It’ll be on my justforfans….so yes you will pay!

Give me an hour on my massage table with the straightest of straight guys who is so straight he is straighter than a ruler for drawing straight lines….and I’ll have him legs apart begging for his hole to be used 😂😂😂.

Yes it’s Sleepyboy. That’s the main site here. There’s also Adultwork.com. Plus others. If you try to work from Grindr you’ll get banned by them.

It is a very saturated market now. To make money you need to be committed to it, make good films and promote it.

I remember one time I was ‘using’ a gloryhole (is that the right term?). ‘Using’ as in my cock was through the hole. The guy the other side was doing a fine job. Then he stopped, and I was far from cuming. I think that’s fine because I was keen to try a few different techniques through the hole…so I waited and it wasn’t long before the next guy started. I knew he was different because the technique was very different. Then he stopped too, although it was only a brief stop. But this time it felt kind of different, less wet, slightly tighter and I suddenly realised he’d backed his ass onto my cock. I pulled out and was really annoyed he should assume I’d want to bareback him. For me that’s a definite etiquette breach. In fact it’s more than that, it’s totally unacceptable. If he wanted that he could have offered his ass up at the hole. That’s why I don’t use gloryholes now, and of course I prefer to see the person I’m having fun with (and of course be seen….by them and by others…if my sexual partner is cool with that!!!)

My advice previously was be direct and clear. But that was from my perspective where doing sex work is legal. I have no concerns about my potential client being a police officer (in fact if they’d like to come in uniform that’s good with me 😉….although they should pre warn me if that’s their plan!). As for cuming in my client’s mouth, it’s fine by me. I rarely see more than one client a day. All I’d ask is …kiss me afterwards.

@DrownedBoy Thank you. Although I was talking in my last post from a providers perspective because I was asked “are clients nervous”. In my experience some certainly are! You seem like a great client a new guy would be lucky to meet.

Try “will you cum during the session?”. It is greatly appreciated when clients get to the point. You might add where you would like him to cum too. That’s usually an important consideration.

My porn! Because it features me 😂

Book a sensual massage with a guy you think you can relate to.

Some are yes. I don’t know whether that’s because it’s new to them or they’re just anxious about meeting a new person in an intimate situation or some other reason. Part of the job is helping them to overcome that and feel comfortable and safe. A few have said they’re excited and nervous to meet me, where they’ve been following me on social media or something. I must say that that’s both extremely flattering and very daunting actually because you kind of hope that you live up to their expectations. I’m preferring it if they say afterwards things like that because it actually makes me anxious to be the person they imagine in their minds.

Yes! That’s why I made so many mistakes. But it’s how you learn: you can read about how to do things but the only real way to learn is by actually doing it and making mistakes.

Inspired by these novellas I’m going to do a series ‘10 consecutive nights with My Right Hand’. Obviously there will be ups and downs, things might get sticky along the way but I think me and My Right Hand will be inseparable. I might even give My Right Hand a night off and get his friend, My Left Hand a try. And on the last night I’ll get them both working, I’m a big boy, I can handle them both.