Jamie21

If he makes that much per massage then good luck to him. I see he’s on Onlyfans so it could be more to drive traffic there.

It’ll be on my justforfans….so yes you will pay!

Give me an hour on my massage table with the straightest of straight guys who is so straight he is straighter than a ruler for drawing straight lines….and I’ll have him legs apart begging for his hole to be used 😂😂😂.

Yes it’s Sleepyboy. That’s the main site here. There’s also Adultwork.com. Plus others. If you try to work from Grindr you’ll get banned by them.

It is a very saturated market now. To make money you need to be committed to it, make good films and promote it.

I remember one time I was ‘using’ a gloryhole (is that the right term?). ‘Using’ as in my cock was through the hole. The guy the other side was doing a fine job. Then he stopped, and I was far from cuming. I think that’s fine because I was keen to try a few different techniques through the hole…so I waited and it wasn’t long before the next guy started. I knew he was different because the technique was very different. Then he stopped too, although it was only a brief stop. But this time it felt kind of different, less wet, slightly tighter and I suddenly realised he’d backed his ass onto my cock. I pulled out and was really annoyed he should assume I’d want to bareback him. For me that’s a definite etiquette breach. In fact it’s more than that, it’s totally unacceptable. If he wanted that he could have offered his ass up at the hole. That’s why I don’t use gloryholes now, and of course I prefer to see the person I’m having fun with (and of course be seen….by them and by others…if my sexual partner is cool with that!!!)

My advice previously was be direct and clear. But that was from my perspective where doing sex work is legal. I have no concerns about my potential client being a police officer (in fact if they’d like to come in uniform that’s good with me 😉….although they should pre warn me if that’s their plan!). As for cuming in my client’s mouth, it’s fine by me. I rarely see more than one client a day. All I’d ask is …kiss me afterwards.

@DrownedBoy Thank you. Although I was talking in my last post from a providers perspective because I was asked “are clients nervous”. In my experience some certainly are! You seem like a great client a new guy would be lucky to meet.

Try “will you cum during the session?”. It is greatly appreciated when clients get to the point. You might add where you would like him to cum too. That’s usually an important consideration.

My porn! Because it features me 😂

Book a sensual massage with a guy you think you can relate to.

Some are yes. I don’t know whether that’s because it’s new to them or they’re just anxious about meeting a new person in an intimate situation or some other reason. Part of the job is helping them to overcome that and feel comfortable and safe. A few have said they’re excited and nervous to meet me, where they’ve been following me on social media or something. I must say that that’s both extremely flattering and very daunting actually because you kind of hope that you live up to their expectations. I’m preferring it if they say afterwards things like that because it actually makes me anxious to be the person they imagine in their minds.

Yes! That’s why I made so many mistakes. But it’s how you learn: you can read about how to do things but the only real way to learn is by actually doing it and making mistakes.

Inspired by these novellas I’m going to do a series ‘10 consecutive nights with My Right Hand’. Obviously there will be ups and downs, things might get sticky along the way but I think me and My Right Hand will be inseparable. I might even give My Right Hand a night off and get his friend, My Left Hand a try. And on the last night I’ll get them both working, I’m a big boy, I can handle them both.

That’s brilliant advice. When I started the guy who I knew and trusted who had started in a similar way to me advised me on pricing. Without that advice I’d have priced it much too low. Once you’ve started low it’s very difficult indeed to change. His advice was err on the high side and only reduce if you find that you’re not getting sufficient business.

Because you’re new to the industry and you’re asking lots of questions. People will make you promises and not deliver.

Table is much better for a good massage. If I see clients on out calls I take my table. Most hotels have no issues about me walking in with the table but sometimes the client’s room is too small to fit the table in and move around it. I offer the client the choice if they want a massage on the bed or table. Bed is a different kind of experience, and I adapt the massage to suit the bed.

Read my website blog. Z to A of Sensual Massage 😘

Oh yes, and not just for money saving. How many times have I opened my washbag, reached in for the massage oil, condoms etc and found that my lube bottle has leaked everywhere. I’ve yet to find a bottle of lube in it’s original packaging that meets the dual purpose of being secure while being transported, and is possible to open easily with one hand whilst your face is buried between your client’s ass cheeks. So now I decant a small amount of lube into a suitable container. It’s the small things that make life easier.

It’s quite likely they will find out. I think @Coolwave35said that the whole idea of doing porn for subscribers is to promote it. He’s right, it’s pointless to create content and then hide it away so you’d need to promote it on Twitter, put clips of the movies on free porn sites like xvideos.com to drive traffic to your Onlyfans. It is possible to film Onlyfans content where you don’t show your face, there’s plenty of guys doing that but if you have a distinctive body or any tattoos or something then people who know you well might recognise you. You seem very keen to get into sex work of some kind, because you ask a lot of questions about it. When I started it was through doing soft porn shoots and I got to know people in the field who I trusted. I then progressed to doing more explicit porn and escorting / massage but always following advice from sensible people that I could see were successful. There’s a lot of people in the industry who would take advantage of your naivety if you aren’t careful. Find someone who you can trust who will guide you.

So can you be straight and be “gay acting”? That’s what I’m challenging with the questioning of the term “straight acting”.

I do both. I see clients (mainly for sensual massage) and I do justforfans movies. I’d say I prefer seeing clients (because I like the interaction and I value seeing my regular clients) but it’s actually easier to do videos for justforfans. The most challenging thing with that is lining up guys to collaborate with. Once you have a good bank of content then you start to earn passive income from the catalogue of movies on your site. Of course you still need to film new content all the time but if you do a few filming sessions in a day that’s about a months content, then you can basically take the month off and earn from the regular subscribers to your fans site. However you do need to first build up a good quantity of films and of course you need decent films to win new subscribers. The top models on Onlyfans and justforFans do very well out of it. I can understand why they’d prefer it to seeing clients.

Are you asking clients? Because it’s in ‘ask a provider’ 🙂. First time I did an escort session was, looking back on it, hilarious and I’m grateful for the client who was really understanding. I’d agreed to meet him outside house no. 8 in his street. But I misunderstood the instructions and knocked on the door at no. 8 which was actually the house across the street. Obviously he wanted to check me out and didn’t want to give his real door number to me until he saw me. Fortunately no one was home at no.8 Then when I was getting showered before we started I didn’t shut the shower door properly and his bathroom floor got filled with water. He was ok about that saying he should have told me about the door thing. In my excitement at my first client I left home without my wash bag which had my massage oil, lube, condoms etc in. So I had to ask my client if he had any oil and condoms. He opened a bedside drawer and provided all the necessities… Afterwards I forgot to ask him for payment. As I was leaving he said “don’t you want paying Dick?” (Dick was the ridiculous ‘nom de plume’ I’d decided on for my escort career but I soon dropped it because guys would call and say “hi is this Dick” and I’d instinctively say “no it’s Jamie” and they’d say “oh sorry wrong number”). I think he was amused by my puppy like enthusiasm and naivety. He gave me a nice tip but didn’t hire me again. Then, when I got home I realised I’d left a thong I’d worn at his place. I really hope his wife didn’t find it… I’d say if you hire a newbie provider then be like my client and be understanding. He enjoyed my enthusiasm and I’m sure he had a laugh to himself afterwards. If he’d been an arsehole about my faux pax I’d probably not have continued with doing the work.

No idea. But if they’re just doing it for fun then I guess it doesn’t matter, it’s not their job or their main income.

I get clients sending me pics, of their own volition. I never ask for pics. Sometimes it’s because they want to be sure I’m ok to see them. Sometimes it’s from guys who think that by sending me a hot pic I’ll offer them it for free. In my experience the clients who send a pic are actually less likely to book. So providers can indeed be choosy. They simply require a pic. No pic means no booking. As I said, these guys are doing the work as an extension of their sex life. The money is an extra bonus for them, so they can feel ok to turn down business.