Jamie21

I always walk around naked in the locker room. It’s just more convenient than trying to keep a towel around my waist. Also I admit I like to annoy the muscle guys who show off how much they can lift in the gym. They’re surprisingly reluctant to be naked near me in the locker room if indeed they even drop their pants 😂

Or: 20🍆 + 20🍑 =♾️💦

20 guys = 40 holes. @Coolwave35knows what he’s doing.

Yes agree, I bottom too and prefer it to stay in once in. But sometimes if there’s two guys topping and they keep swapping ends etc then air gets pumped in!

Good for him if he can get that rate. I call it being entrepreneurial, creative and self sufficient. It just depends on your perspective. Some people are happy to work at a job where their future is laid out in a career path and they work to the established norms of corporate life. Others choose to take a different path. There’s many routes to self actualisation.

Ugh! You’re right!!! A missed opportunity 😢 But maybe Face Sitting is a whole new genre of sex work? You have Escorts, Masseurs,Porn stars and now…Professional Face Sitters (not to be confused with the Professional Face Shitters which is a whole separate body). One miss type into Google could get you in the brown stuff inadvertently. I do think face sitting is something that needs to be learned. So there’s merit in your face sitting school idea! It reminds me of a situation I had with guy one time when I was filming a porno. We’d done a fair bit of topping a bottom guy (I was filming with another top) and the next scene we had was the bottom would sit on my face. The bottom had been heavily used and I guess we’d pumped a lot of air in….(no one had cum yet). As the bottom squatted over me, his hole an inch from my face he let out an almighty long and loud fart. I simply couldn’t continue from laughing so we had to stop and take a break while the bottom got all the wind out of his system. It could, I acknowledge, have been much worse (as in the mistype above…) but it’s one of those things that should be taught to professional face sitters: check your face sittee (the receiver of the ass) is ok with a bit of blowback before you go down. That would be lesson 1. Lesson 2 is let him breathe a bit occasionally….

I’ve never heard of professional training in face sitting…

This! 100% And reading it has started the day well 🙂 All that matters is you fit on my massage table (and if you don’t…we can always use the Futon), and that you’ve no conditions that are contra indications for massage. Oh and that you want a good time too 😉.

I think it’s less of a dividing line and more like a Venn diagram where the two circles overlap to at least a 50% degree. Some sensual masseurs will work much closer to escort type work whereas others stick to just naked massage. In my time as a sensual masseur some of my sessions have been just massage and some where we have gone much further so that it becomes an escort session but always there’s been a base of massage.

Well said! A proper massage is important and needs to be done by someone who recognises that massage is an art. It’s not just rubbing your baby oiled hand up and down his back to kill time while you check your phone for insta likes and the mirror for your abs. A masseur knows that sensual massage is a seduction, to be savoured by his client. He knows it’s to enable him to learn about his client’s body and what turns him on so that when the time comes for his client’s climax he can press all the right buttons to get the desired response. Hire a masseur, because the journey is at least as important as the destination.

Yes they do tiptoe. It’s often due to shyness I think, but also I think it’s because they’re trying to be respectful, which I appreciate and is a nice disposition to have. However I’d say that there’s no need to be worried about causing offence by asking for something. You generally won’t cause offence to someone offering sensual or erotic massage because they’ll appreciate the clarity in most instances.

I’m so glad I work in a country where it’s legal to do sex work. It’s simply so much easier for me to discuss with clients what they want, and for them to ask. There’s none of this trying to decipher whether I’ll go further than a hand job from clues in my advert or asking coy questions and trying to guess! My clients can ask for exactly what they want, without worry that there’s any legal lines crossed or that I’ll get offended. Also, I really don’t think up-selling during the massage is a good idea because it interrupts the flow and is awkward. So I prefer to agree what’s included beforehand, and basically anything can be included. I don’t think there should be a hard line between massage work and escorting because it’s just different degrees of basically the same thing. The price will usually be the best indicator of where the service will be on the continuum from therapeutic only massage all the way through to escorting with full bareback sex. In my massage work I’ve worked along that whole range.

Cash is pretty rare here. Especially after the pandemic when many shops stopped taking cash. ATM’s mostly dispense £20 and £10. So £5 notes are rarer.

Oh no! You wouldn’t hire me then. My 90m rate is £185…..but I take card payments so you can pay the exact amount if you don’t have cash 😂

Yes some do. For example if they’re anxious about the risk of catching something (that’s an unfounded concern in my view since I test regularly), but it’s understandable if you’re wanting to be 100% safe, which some discreet married clients are requiring. I respect that even though it’s tempting to suck him!

The endless, and impossible to answer tip debate again! I don’t expect any tip, and to get one is fabulous. But this is from a UK perspective where tipping is not such a big thing as it seems to be in the US. If you tip here then it’s generally only because you received exceptional service. If you tip zero then that isn’t interpreted as being bad, it means expectations were fully met. I’ve said previously that I much prefer a client to come back, or to give a fantastic review, than to tip. Of course they’re welcome to do all three 🙂

Depends on the masseur. You should ask him (although some might be guarded about how they answer because of legal issues). I include blowjob if my client wants it but other masseurs will just do handjob.

There’s a massage demo video on my website where clients can watch me, and hear my voice. I never thought about the voice thing until a number of guys who watched it commented it was nice to hear my voice, so I understand what you say about how it can be attractive, especially to those who like an English accent 🙂.

I never travel to other cities. I’m never listed in other cities. I’m not even on the same Continent as him! My RentMasseur advert always says “London”…..So if someone sends me a message like that my response “I’m in London, sorry” is I think totally reasonable.

On the tube there is only one rule to remember. Stand on the right of the escalator. NEVER stand on the left or you’ll look like a foreigner, you’ll get tutted at and told to move.

You’re a fabulous client @Coolwave35 🙂. Keep spending on your BA cc!!!

Sorry, I didn’t answer that question in my last reply did I (ironic 😂). Likelihood of him actually booking questions start with: “Hi Jamie, I looked at your site, it’s great but I’d like to ask do you do xxxx?” or “…would you do out call to xxxx” or “I’m discreet, can I pay by cash / is your studio private etc”. Questions where he has gone beyond deciding to go ahead but he wants to check some detail are likely to result in a booking and so get a more engaged response. Messages like this: “Hi Jamie I’d like to book a 90m session with you at 3pm next Tuesday please, I’ll pay by card. Thanks Bob” will get a prompt reply with confirmation, address & directions and an invitation to ask any questions or make any specific requests. Ideal 🙂

It’s by experience. My rate and availability times are easily found - it’s on the website. If a potential client has looked there, seen what I’m about and most likely had all his basic questions answered by what’s written on there then he’s more likely to book. Whereas if he’s just found my number somewhere (it’s on lots of places even where I haven’t advertised because these sites just find numbers of guys who do this kind of work and add them to their directory to make it look busy and attract paying advertisers) or if he’s not looked beyond page 1 of my website then it’s more likely he won’t follow through with booking. Example texts I get: ”Hi, I want a girl for tonight, my hotel”. This punter thinks I’m an agency. Ignore. ”I’m a student, what’s your best rate?” This one hasn’t read that I don’t do student rates. “Sorry I don’t discount”. ”Your videos have got me screaming Wow every sec of the way through. Tonites my best nite. Had to give Head for a gram in the office toilets and its gd stuff i can get more for us?” That one is one of my favourites…. one of many examples where the client is drunk or high when they contact me. Ignore. “Hi do you do massage?” That’s obviously someone who has found my number on a list of workers….and often the conversation reveals they expect me to be female…(I guess my name could be female too) and when they discover I’m a guy…it’s my fault and I get shade. Those guys are actually worth being rude to: I tell them guys give a better bj so he should try it out 😂. ”Hi I’m at a hotel on 23rd and 5th downtown Indianapolis. Are you free later tonight?” He believes I’m in some US city (swap Indianapolis for AN Orher place). God knows how he thinks that. “I’m in London, England, sorry”. I could add that if Concorde still flew I might be able to make it but my outcall rate for outside of London includes travel costs…. So you see, lots of questions get asked that obviously aren’t going anywhere. They get a short, polite, response, some get instantly blocked.

So was I! Seems strange to me as I love being covered in cum. Everyone is different though. Since the filming I looked at his films and I see he’s always top. I guess he just shoots his load on or in the bottom or the bottom shoots on himself.

Ones that turn up.