Jamie21

Ha ha yes that’s not good. I did a 4 hands one time with another masseur who I’d not previously worked with. My style is quite intuitive and I prefer not to work to a strict plan, which is quite difficult when you’re doing a 4 hands and you need to coordinate with the other masseur. This guy I was working with suggested I turn up at his studio (because the client was his client) half hour before the session so we could plan it. I agreed to that although half hour seemed a bit excessive. When I got there he gave me a plan with the whole 90 minute session worked out down to the minute. As in Jamie - left leg 3 minutes etc. He had planned the whole time out in blocks showing who would massage what part and when. Then he showed me his iPad set up in the room so we could see the time. On the iPad he had each section counting down…so I could see I had for example 45 seconds remaining to finish ‘left leg’ before I was due to start right arm for 2 minutes. Thoughtfully he’d allowed 4 minutes for cock work…that was 2 minutes each. I said to him was it necessary to be so prescriptive with the timing and division of work and he looked at me as if I’d asked to suck his boyfriend off while we waited (actually his bf was hot, and was working downstairs). So I just went with the plan… It turned out ok, the client was one of those who doesn’t go ‘off piste’ and starts to suck you after 5 minutes. He just enjoyed receiving and seemed to be happy but I found it exhausting to stick to the plan. I could see the client liked having his feet massaged so I’d normally have spent longer there but since only 1 minute of foot massage was allowed then I had to stop after 1 minute on his left foot because my partner had stopped on the right foot. I did throw in a couple of unscheduled moves just to keep things interesting but it seemed to throw my massage partner off so I wasn’t able to go completely off script. Oh and yes, the client shot his load just before the 4 minutes on cock were up. Not sure what would have happened if the 4 minute deadline had passed and he hadn’t reached climax.

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It depends. If he’s hung, and I’ll be in lots of different positions, or it’s a group session and will take a while then I prepare thoroughly (a few hours before, with a shower attachment and then a bulb douche half an hour before starting). If I know the guy is small or it’s going to go in and stay in then either a quick bulb douche is usually ok or nothing at all. My diet is good so that helps. I wouldn’t worry about it if I was you. Your guy knows his body so if he says he’s ready then I’m sure he is. He could already have prepared or it’s possible the overslept thing is a story and his earlier client has over run slightly….

Hey thank you for the recommendation 🙂.

Having a liking for feet is not uncommon. Mine are size 11 (everything in proportion 😉) and although I really don’t like my feet there’s a few clients who love playing with them. So I’m not surprised by masseurs showing sexy feet pics. It’s always fascinating to me what things get clients going. I’ve tried with some clients all different parts of their body with little reaction but then suck their toe and fireworks go off!

We’re in a long term relationship, it’s fine. My table is very supportive of me.

That’s exactly what I do! Except my portable table is a bit too large and too heavy to properly be described as portable. I like a big table because I mount it during massage but it’s not ideal for carrying. I keep it in my car but the problem with driving in London is the parking. Some hotels don’t have parking on site and street parking is random.

I do outcalls and I have a table. I offer the client the choice, bring my table, or use the bed. A few clients have their own table at home but most of my out calls are to the client’s hotel, so in those cases I take my table or they ask to use the bed. In some London hotels the rooms are small and there’s not always space to set up the table so the bed is the only option. Although a recent client I saw at a top hotel in Knightsbridge had a very large suite so there was plenty of space for dozens of tables!! He chose to go for the bed option which was useful because my table isn’t very portable. The logistics of me getting it around London are challenging especially if I drive. When I replace it I’ll get a more portable one. Massage on the bed is ok but I think you get a better massage if it’s on a table tbh. Bed is ok if you like the massage to have more body contact and it often develops into an escort style session. In my studio for in calls I can either offer the table or do a massage on the floor (on a Futon). I think if you’re serious about doing out calls as a masseur you really do need to have a portable table.

It sounds like a load of bollocks to me 😂.

No that was The Man With The Golden Cock. Or maybe I’ve misremembered that….

So true. Not much massage happens. I did one with another masseur friend who I’m very much into (and he’s into me). We more or less had sex with each other while the client lay there sensing it all going on around above and on him. It wasn’t a massage. He liked it but there’s no way you could call it a 4 hands.

Yes, totally I agree. Sometimes though people don’t get beyond the initial physical look. As in ‘he hasn’t got abs so I’m not interested’ approach. He has everything else but you never saw it because all you see is abs…or the absence of them. Doing sex work I meet lots of guys, of all shapes and sizes. Those with natural confidence, who know and accept themselves are definitely those who are the most attractive. There’s no correlation to physical looks.

I think often those negative reviews, where the client just takes the provider down and it’s not considered or constructive, the review tells you more about the client than the provider.

I started by doing porn films. I applied to be in a massage movie (as the receiver on the table). Found I enjoyed being on camera so I did more films, but this time as the masseur. The guy running the porn site said I should do massage as a job, as I had the attributes, which persuaded me it could work. I think otherwise I wouldn’t have thought it possible. So I did some training and with advice from others in the industry I set up on my own as a masseur. I still film porn and combine it with seeing massage clients. I couldn’t go back to working a regular 5 day a week 9 to 5 job.

Definitely ask. Unless it’s clearly a therapeutic only kind of masseur. It does depend on the masseurs attitude to what he will include. Some are quite restrictive even though they advertise as sensual/ erotic. I am fine with being asked that question. And the answer is I’m cut although there’s pics on my website and RentMasseur advert so I think it’s obvious to potential clients what they’re getting. I find most clients ask questions and that’s good. They want first and foremost a fantastic massage and if say sucking a cut cock or oral to climax in my mouth is important to him then he should ask for that. My attitude to massage is those things can easily be part of the massage but I do understand the definition of what’s in a massage differs from masseur to masseur so you need to check with him.

I pay $40pm to advertise on RentMasseur. I use Twitter too as a way of advertising and that’s free (don’t tell Elon). I’ve my own website, I think that costs around £200 per annum to run.

I’ve never sent any happy birthday / Christmas etc texts to clients unless they sent one first to me and in that case then I reply in kind. I don’t like to send unsolicited messages. It’s a nice idea though if clients are open to receiving such marketing. Maybe I’ll add a box to my booking confirmations…something like: ”If you would like to receive texts or emails with offers and information please tick the box. Your data will not be sold or used by any third party or for any other purpose than to inform you of products or services that may be of interest to you”. Then I can draft a template text or email for my mailing tool to generate the messages to my clients. Something like: Dear [Big boy / Pumpkin / HungDaddy] have a great [21st, 50th, 103rd] birthday! I hope your [massive / fun sized / PA adorned] cock is getting plenty of action on your special day 🍆💦. ***(Select 1, 2 or both as appropriate depending on client’s preference)*** 1 My [mouth / bum ] is available for your attention with a special offer of 20% off this weekend. Buy the ‘both holes’ package and get an extra 5% off! 2 My [cock / tongue / right arm😱] is available to service you this weekend with 20% off pre sale prices. Buy the ‘ass to mouth’ special and get an extra 5% off! Terms and conditions apply. Availability subject to demand. If you wish to opt out of mailing list please complete the form hidden at the bottom of my website and send two forms of ID not including your password or drivers license. Best wishes [Jamie / J 😘 / Your Masseur]

Yes I get a message to say that my private gallery was viewed…and that I might want to contact the viewer. It’s a bit pointless as I’d not want to initiate contact! If he liked what he saw he’d be in touch.

You may! I don’t mind that. But it’s the lack of communication that is the problem. What stops someone from communicating that their plans changed? They changed their mind? Who asks for a time and then simply ignores you? I bet your clients don’t say ‘meet us for dinner at 7’ and then not turn up or not tell you where they are eating.

The best comment on this subject I’ve seen for ages. I totally agree.

I kind of assumed the private pics had to be different? All my private pics are different to the public ones. The site doesn’t let you post sexual pics on your public pics page. If I try to upload a pic showing my cock on the public pics page the pic is rejected. My public one has pics that would be ok on Instagram for example, and the private pics page has pics I’d post on Twitter 😂. Twitter isn’t so prudish about publishing nudity etc.

You sound like an exception. Unfortunately there’s too many who take an extreme transactional view or who just can’t plan or commit. Example yesterday I had a message at 4:51 pm “Hey, are you available for massages?”. At 5:19 pm I replied “Hi, yes I am”….. at 5:41 pm he replied “booked elsewhere, thanks”. I guess I replied too late! Then I had an exchange of text messages around 9pm with a guy who liked my website and pics etc. That exchange stopped abruptly without a request to book or a ‘no thanks’. Just …nothing….it’s like he lost his phone! Also yesterday a guy asked at 6:30 pm if I was available that evening. I was busy so said “no, but I can do tomorrow evening”. There was no reply to that. Then, this morning at around 9am he asked if I was free at 2pm today. I said ‘no’ because I was busy and offered this evening or other times later in the week. He asked for 8pm this evening and I said yes to that and asked how long he wanted. This was all by 9:30am. I got no reply back….so I chased him at 4:30pm because someone else was asking about this evening. He replied to say he was still working out his schedule…and that was the last I heard. So it seems to me that all these potential clients either get off on the thrill of discussing the booking, are window shopping or are simply so self absorbed that they don’t consider that I might have other bookings (from people who are able to organise themselves) or that I have to do things like eat, sleep and do life admin. This is all actually nothing compared to the work it takes to arrange filming sessions or collaborations with other guys for my Justforfans. That is a whole different level of aggravation and frustration with guys who flake, prevaricate and dissemble.

Yes my perspective is that my rates are advertised. So I know that if someone opens with ‘what’s your rate?’ they haven’t really looked much at my profile. If that’s the case then they’re probably just browsing casually and their primary concern is cost. That’s not my market.

Most clients don’t seem to want to kiss. It’s very intimate and wouldn’t be part of 90% of the massage. I think for the majority of my clients they’re looking for a great massage that slowly builds up the sexual tension. If you do that right then some clients can be so turned on by the end that they do want to kiss. If I think he’s looking to kiss I will work my way up his torso kissing the nipples, neck, and then ear before whispering “do you like to kiss?”. That usually results in him turning his head to kiss or turning away if not. He’s in control that way.

If it’s a video featuring you the registered model with another person (even if only their dick is shown) you need to have that person provide approval. In practice it’s difficult for someone to prove it’s their dick…as in you don’t have to get your dick pic in your passport pic! But if you upload a film that has a guys dick or other body part and he hasn’t provided consent (maybe you asked someone else to provide their ID to get the film uploaded and published) he could complain to Onlyfans and they’d remove it.