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Wow this is pre internet I guess? With the internet kids these days have access to unlimited porn from very young age, I am not sure if that is a good or bad thing though

I've not thought about this voice effect but feel like a conversation on phone before meeting usually leads to good outcome 😊

Even with prosthethic penises, they look very real and super sexy, I find it more sexy to watch movies/TV series that pepper nudity with a real plot and serious acting than watching porn. I wish they made more products like this, I am sure there will be huge demand! Another series that is very sexy is another grand production TV series "Marco Polos" by Netflix. It is one of the most expensive TV series ever made and was really thrilling, I am so sad when they decided to cancel it half way due to cost!

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A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

Usually a one-word or abrupt messages such as below are redflags: "Sup?" (100% ignore, I hate this so much!!) "Hey, free?" "What ya rates?" "hi 👋" (100% ignore) "face pics?" "pick up ya phone" These are all real and very common first contacts from clients and most of the time they ended up not the type of client I want to engage. Asking for rates before telling what's your expectation is also a redflag. If you go to any service provider and ask for a quote, they will need to know what exactly do you want first. Even a very simple description such as "I want an hour massage at my place at.... with these requirements: ..." will be enough for providers to give a quote. Be straight to the point and clearly describe what you want is often very welcomed! Requesting for face photo in the first message is also a bit awkward to me. There are reasons why providers chose not to put their face photos in public. They may want some discretion and will only share face photo when feeling comfortable. Usually after chatting with a client and I feel comfortable about him, I would he happy to share my face photos but not at the first contact.

Daddy types are hot everyday and not just today 😊

In certain jurisdictions, this is very risky. For example, in New York, to obtain a license to be a massage therapist, one needs to complete a college degree or equivalent of 1000 hours in training (including biology, physiology and anatomy, etc) from only a few state approved educational institutions where the cost is upward to 80K and as long as 2 years of full time study. Then after completing the education, they need to pass a license exam and then will be issued a license to do massage. Doing sensual/erotic massage is against the rule of their license and if got caught they will lose it. Most massage therapists in New York with a real license can earn a decent living from that job in spa/salon/clinic and because it is so hard to obtain a massage license, they will not risk their career doing sensual/erotic massage. Of course, some will still do it but they do in a private setting and would not advertise openly.

This time it is not an overnight one, client is in another state and we chatted and he likes to meet for a few hours. He thought about travelling to NY but the cost would be even more than inviting me to visit him so he suggested if I could travel to meet him instead. I would be more reluctant if it is an overnight for the first meeting but he assured that it is not and I can fly back the same day if I wish. I have done overnight before and it was really great because I was with someone I have already met a few times. We met early in the afternoon, had a good dinner, went to watch a show together, walking back to the hotel on busy streets and spent the rest of the night chilling. We slept on different beds and in the morning we enjoyed some cuddling and fun before having breakfast together and say goodbye. It was at a nice hotel with spectacular view of the city so we feel like on top of the world. It was a great experience to remember.

You seem like a great client and treat your providers so well. I think for extended trip like this, it would need both parties to be very careful and to make sure that both sides are comfortable spending such a long time together. Ideally, both should have met for a brief time before deciding to do overnight or weekends. However for clients out of state, it would not be an option. Even when dating, people do not see the bad sides of each other until they move in together. As @Simon Suraci mentioned, some providers do not like to do overnight because they don't want client to see the not-so-good side of them such as morning breath, snoring or fighting for blanket at night etc.. People also have different preferences such as room temperature, level of noise, lighting.... and without knowing the other well enough, it would be hard to predict if both would share similar preferences to have a good night sleep. To me I would only spend extended time with a client if I know that it would be a pleasant experience because there is some chemistry. Overnight can be very intimate, very romantic, very passionate but it could also end up in a nightmare situation where both can't sleep and tired the day after because you can't tolerate the other party sharing the bed at night. Staying up all night to play is not really a thing for most people, the goal of an overnight experience is to simulate a bfe experience as much as possible and couples do not stay up all night when they date, do they? I always tell myself that overnight or weekends can be lucrative but at the same time it could be your last contact with a good client if it ends up a bad experience, so proceed with caution.

If it is really oversleeping then I would not have any problem with that. However, anyone can see this is just a lame excuse to get out. Between ending of business dinner and walking back to hotel, there are plenty of time to send a simple text replying my request for update but instead he chose to be radio silence and only send a short message "I fell asleep" the next day. A bit more context, the previous 2 meetings were good but same pattern. Meeting was set in early afternoon but only happened late at night. But they did happen though, unlike this time. I also replied to him that I am not happy he stood me up as I have spent time preparing for it and was also worried if anything happened to him since we texted a lot before the day of appointment but he suddenly stopped. His one word reply "Bummer" shows lack of sympathy and at this point I decided to write him off.

Not a movie but have you watched the TV Series "Spartacus"? Not only there are tons of full frontal muscular men, there are also lots of nude fighting. It is a mainstream TV series but closest to porn ever produced and where male actors are nude more often than female counterparts

You are right, I will have to learn to develop a thick skin and protect myself from these nonsenses. It is also important to have a set of rules for moving on, like I am not waiting for hours, if you do not reply a request for update for more than 30 mins then the meeting is cancelled. If you delay the meeting for more than an hour then it is cancelled. If you miss appointments twice then you are not welcomed any more.

It is a common perception that providers are lowly educated, have no real job or can't do anything else. In mingling with some providers, I found that many of them, however, have extremely accomplished careers or are very highly educated. There are providers who are medical doctor, lawyer, nurse practitioner, college professor, bankers, Phd candidate, just to name a few. Some providers graduated from Harvard, Columbia, Wharton, Oxford, Cambridge, Stanford, UCLA etc. The reasons they became providers are abundant and sometime very personal but all of them do not regret what they do and most are very happy with this gig. Have you ever met a provider that are very successful in real life and scratch your head why on earth they became provider?

If the pics are AI generated then 100% profile is scam, I am wondering how these photos passed the verification of RM? I saw some profiles with verified photos but the pics are obviously AI generated or even like a cartoon. For those who don't know, you need to take a camera selfie photo with your name hand-written on a piece of paper for them to validate!