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If the pics are AI generated then 100% profile is scam, I am wondering how these photos passed the verification of RM? I saw some profiles with verified photos but the pics are obviously AI generated or even like a cartoon. For those who don't know, you need to take a camera selfie photo with your name hand-written on a piece of paper for them to validate! 

Both parties are very civilized and treated each other with respect! I applause to both of you! Sometimes things happen and a provider may not perform at his best (many providers have other full time jobs and may have a bad day before meeting you). I would say this is an unfortunate situation, if I were the provider, I would have politely called to explain the situation and ask for postponing the appointment to another time. If that is not possible, at least client does not waste the time and/or money. I would agree that provider should not take the full charge but a token for travel cost would be appropriate and makes both side feel less uneasy in this situation. 

A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

Usually a one-word or abrupt messages such as below are redflags:
"Sup?" (100% ignore, I hate this so much!!)
"Hey, free?"
"What ya rates?"
"hi 👋" (100% ignore)
"face pics?"
"pick up ya phone"
These are all real and very common first contacts from clients and most of the time they ended up not the type of client I want to engage.
Asking for rates before telling what's your expectation is also a redflag. If you go to any service provider and ask for a quote, they will need to know what exactly do you want first. Even a very simple description such as "I want an hour massage at my place at.... with these requirements: ..." will be enough for providers to give a quote. Be straight to the point and clearly describe what you want is often very welcomed!
Requesting for face photo in the first message is also a bit awkward to me. There are reasons why providers chose not to put their face photos in public. They may want some discretion and will only share face photo when feeling comfortable. Usually after chatting with a client and I feel comfortable about him, I would he happy to share my face photos but not at the first contact. 
 
 
 
 

If it is really oversleeping then I would not have any problem with that. However, anyone can see this is just a lame excuse to get out. Between ending of business dinner and walking back to hotel, there are plenty of time to send a simple text replying my request for update but instead he chose to be radio silence and only send a short message "I fell asleep" the next day. A bit more context, the previous 2 meetings were good but same pattern. Meeting was set in early afternoon but only happened late at night. But they did happen though, unlike this time. I also replied to him that I am not happy he stood me up as I have spent time preparing for it and was also worried if anything happened to him since we texted a lot before the day of appointment but he suddenly stopped. His one word reply "Bummer" shows lack of sympathy and at this point I decided to write him off. 

I would never reject a client based on weight alone, more important to me is if client is polite and cleanliness is super important too. Sometimes, it is good to know in advance for safety issue such as using a proper massage table that supports the right weight. Some clients are very thoughtful and up front about this issue, and it makes providers feel very comfortable and give all in for a great encounter!

We are human beings. This is not an easy job, even though we make it look that way. We have bad days at times. You never know what is going on in a person’s life in a given moment. Maybe this was a bad day for him for some reason. He honored your appointment and he made an effort. The professional he was, he declined payment because he did not deliver on your mutual agreements and expectations. That’s fair. Uncommon, but fair. Kudos to you both for behaving so well toward one another.
If the chemistry was such that he couldn’t do this with you at all, maybe it’s for the best. If he was just having an off day, I certainly think it would be worth trying again.
Suggestion: ask him if, when, and under what circumstances would be best to reschedule. Maybe he’s better in the morning when testosterone is at the peak? I know I am. Or maybe he was too ambitious scheduling too soon after the last client. Not your problem, I acknowledge, but still, gives him a chance to redeem himself under better circumstances.

Both parties are very civilized and treated each other with respect! I applause to both of you! Sometimes things happen and a provider may not perform at his best (many providers have other full time jobs and may have a bad day before meeting you). I would say this is an unfortunate situation, if I were the provider, I would have politely called to explain the situation and ask for postponing the appointment to another time. If that is not possible, at least client does not waste the time and/or money. I would agree that provider should not take the full charge but a token for travel cost would be appropriate and makes both side feel less uneasy in this situation. 

A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

In certain jurisdictions, this is very risky. For example, in New York, to obtain a license to be a massage therapist, one needs to complete a college degree or equivalent of 1000 hours in training (including biology, physiology and anatomy, etc) from only a few state approved educational institutions where the cost is upward to 80K and as long as 2 years of full time study. Then after completing the education, they need to pass a license exam and then will be issued a license to do massage. Doing sensual/erotic massage is against the rule of their license and if got caught they will lose it. Most massage therapists in New York with a real license can earn a decent living from that job in spa/salon/clinic and because it is so hard to obtain a massage license, they will not risk their career doing sensual/erotic massage. Of course, some will still do it but they do in a private setting and would not advertise openly.  

Not a movie but have you watched the TV Series "Spartacus"? Not only there are tons of full frontal muscular men, there are also lots of nude fighting. It is a mainstream TV series but closest to porn ever produced and where male actors are nude more often than female counterparts

A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

Daddy types are hot everyday and not just today 😊

"The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas" has plenty of male eye candy.  I about wore out my VHS copy on the "the Aggie Song", where the football players change out of their uniforms, then out of their jockstraps and into the shower, then start dancing in their underwear.  If you advance frame by frame, you can see about three frames of flaccid penis when the men are in the shower.  As a closeted kid in Jr high school, this musical was the closest thing to porn that I could get access to.

Not a movie but have you watched the TV Series "Spartacus"? Not only there are tons of full frontal muscular men, there are also lots of nude fighting. It is a mainstream TV series but closest to porn ever produced and where male actors are nude more often than female counterparts

Even with prosthethic penises, they look very real and super sexy, I find it more sexy to watch movies/TV series that pepper nudity with a real plot and serious acting than watching porn. I wish they made more products like this, I am sure there will be huge demand! Another series that is very sexy is another grand production TV series "Marco Polos" by Netflix. It is one of the most expensive TV series ever made and was really thrilling, I am so sad when they decided to cancel it half way due to cost! 

I'll second the "Spartacus" TV series suggestion (not the 1960 Kirk Douglas movie!!).....it's a few years old (2010-2013) and was on some "cable/premium" channel at the time.......high-quality production, but I'll be damned if it didn't border on soft-core porn with, as said above, a decided bent toward male full-frontal (and -backal!).......there were rumors of prosthetic penises and it's probably true for some of the dudes.......google "spartacus male nudity" at any of the usual porn-y sites for the pertinent clips!.......

Not a movie but have you watched the TV Series "Spartacus"? Not only there are tons of full frontal muscular men, there are also lots of nude fighting. It is a mainstream TV series but closest to porn ever produced and where male actors are nude more often than female counterparts

Last summer after a fall down the stairs, EMT’s filled out their report, referring to this guy, then 66, as “male, over 40”
Almost made the 3-night stay in the hospital worth it. 

I would never reject a client based on weight alone, more important to me is if client is polite and cleanliness is super important too. Sometimes, it is good to know in advance for safety issue such as using a proper massage table that supports the right weight. Some clients are very thoughtful and up front about this issue, and it makes providers feel very comfortable and give all in for a great encounter!

Tons of 411 on whether a certain masseur btms or tops??? How does hiring a masseur for sex work? It's already hard enough to get escorts to do what you want, why aggravate the process with guys who considers themselves masseurs and not escort.
Looking on rentmasseur for sex instead of rentmen just doesn't compute for me
Steve

A good provider is usually very open minded and weight is not the most concern for him. What more important is personality and hygiene. I personally find bears attractive, especially if they come with friendly smiles 😊

Daddy types are hot everyday and not just today 😊