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Posted

I’m sorry I can’t help you.

I own a lot of inflation-proofed securities, but all the things I enjoy consuming seem to increase in price at a faster pace.

If you do find your desirable man at yesteryear’s price, I shall be pleased for you.
It will encourage me to find dinner in a good restaurant (with great food & wine) on the UES for only $250 for two.

Posted
1 hour ago, MscleLovr said:

I’m sorry I can’t help you.

I own a lot of inflation-proofed securities, but all the things I enjoy consuming seem to increase in price at a faster pace.

If you do find your desirable man at yesteryear’s price, I shall be pleased for you.
It will encourage me to find dinner in a good restaurant (with great food & wine) on the UES for only $250 for two.

You do you, but there's something to be said for pricing for repeat customers too. You might make $300/$400 off one visit per year or you could make $1000/1500 each year off of a regular. It takes time and effort to acquire new clients. 🤷‍♂️

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You might consider sniffies or another hookup app and just add coded key words like “generous” to your profile.  

I can’t imagine an actual professional - someone looking to make even a partial living as a provider - taking work for that amount.   Especially in New York City.  

Rather than hiring an actual escort, you might find someone willing to be hired as a one-off. 

Posted
3 hours ago, Unonymous30xxx said:

Hi all, 

I'm looking for a provider who is in the $200-250 range. The going rate in NYC seems to be $300+, but I'm looking for a good experience with someone who I can consistently afford as a regular. Any help or recommendations would be appreciated.

What if you meet someone for his regular price of 300 or a bit more and then after you offer him seeing him once a month for 250.

I guess when you say regular you want someone you can see on a monthly basis at least.

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11 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

That would be another choice 

Is $50 less such a big effing deal?

For some it is and for others not at all.  Figuring on seeing someone 12 times a year for $50 dollars more an encounter runs to $600 bucks.  Cut that back to 10 visits and you get them for the price you are willing to pay over a year's time.     

Posted (edited)
2 hours ago, purplekow said:

For some it is and for others not at all.  Figuring on seeing someone 12 times a year for $50 dollars more an encounter runs to $600 bucks.  Cut that back to 10 visits and you get them for the price you are willing to pay over a year's time.     

I understand your point but is paying $50 less THAT important that would make someone hiring A instead of hiring B.

 

2 hours ago, Milo Janus said:

I once had an arrangement with my favorite escort back in 1980s where for every 10 times I saw him, I got a freebie!   Worked out well for both of us.

I've done the same 

but I would never contact an escort asking for a discount or in this case because he's cheaper than others as my main reason to hire him. 

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Posted
1 hour ago, Milo Janus said:

I once had an arrangement with my favorite escort back in 1980s where for every 10 times I saw him, I got a freebie!   Worked out well for both of us.

Bozo has that same arrangement with the local car wash and panini shop. Every 11th visit is free. Works out great.   Never thought about working out that same arrangement with a favorite escort. May try it some day 😀.

BTC
🤡

Posted
12 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I understand your point but is paying $50 less THAT important that would make someone hiring A instead of hiring B.

For some people, I'm sure it is. There absolutely are people who engage in this hobby on very very tight budgets on salaries where differences of that amount matter. They have to be super picky and careful about their fun spending because whatever thing they're spending on it may not be something they can just do again the next week or the next month. It might be their one shot for a couple months or even for the year.

Posted

Met an absolute cutie on grindr yesterday 

$300

We chilled got to know one another then had great sex 

Didn’t have to worry about being one of many that day - and the vibe was great - he wasn’t age shaving or sharing old pics 

For me this is much much better than rentmen 

Posted
6 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

I have had a regular who said he wants to see me more but can't afford it, so I reduced my rate to 250 and he now sees me weekly. 

In order to get discounts like this - you would need to be a regular first.  

To be clear, that would be to see someone more than 4-5 times. 

This is how you handle business and keep your clients coming back and referring others . Bravo. My regular provider does the same for me and he’s made a lot from that wise decision 

Posted
3 hours ago, Chancealot said:

Met an absolute cutie on grindr yesterday 

$300

We chilled got to know one another then had great sex 

Didn’t have to worry about being one of many that day - and the vibe was great - he wasn’t age shaving or sharing old pics 

For me this is much much better than rentmen 

I am amazed by this. I've been trying to figure out how to make this work and have been pretty obvious in my profile in Sniffies and Grindr with zero luck. 

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11 minutes ago, hungry4darkmeat said:

This is how you handle business and keep your clients coming back and referring others . Bravo. My regular provider does the same for me and he’s made a lot from that wise decision 

Thank you. I have no issue doing this with regulars  - but just FYI for the OP and other people reading this -  we get messages saying "hey I am looking for XYZ, if you can give me a discount I will see be your regular!" and you can be sure as shit, they will NOT in fact become a regular and they just use this as a carrot to dangle to try and get reduced rates. Don't reach out trying to negotiate cheap rates. Asking a regular is very different thing. Please understand that!

No provider will give a upfront discount. You need to show that you will be a regular to get that privilege. (like seeing someone 10 times then getting one free liek someone above mentioned! great idea!) 

Posted
3 hours ago, purplekow said:

Grindr hookups may be fun but it takes a bit of luck to find someone who is actually going to come through.  Glad you hit the bull's eye instead of the bull shit/. 

Grindr guys who do this are younger - most in school or just starting work in a job that doesn’t pay all the bills.  So the incentive is there.  With rentmen guys it’s a job (mostly). A relatively new guy in NYC quoted me $1k to meet I’ve not even seen his face.  On Grindr you’re seeing albums.  
 

 

Posted (edited)
11 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

to get discounts like this - you would need to be a regular first.  

To be clear, that would be to see someone more than 4-5 times. 

Very much agree.

4 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

You need to show that you will be a regular to get that privilege.

That is the essential point: you become a regular client first.

I always preferred to date one guy regularly. Over time, I dated 3 good guys who enjoyed my company (and my wallet, of course). They OFFERED me a substantial discount.

One charged me 50% of market rates because I ended up seeing him 2-3x a week, and I’d pay for drinks & dinner.
Another guy lived in a small room, so he liked to stay with me overnight; we’d have fun and I’d take him out to dinner on a weekly basis. He always took me out for breakfast. He too charged about half the usual rate for overnight dates.
A third man was very good in bed and, after a couple of dates, he told me he wanted to go on an overseas trip with me. He was great company on a one-week vacation; I paid all the costs of course, and he asked only for some spending money equivalent to one overnight.  

4 hours ago, Chancealot said:

guys who do this are younger - most in school or just starting work in a job that doesn’t pay all the bills.

That was my preferred ‘dating pool’, what I termed “enthusiastic amateurs”. I met some very nice men whom I dated for years, and I’m still in touch with several. 

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Posted (edited)
7 hours ago, Pensierol said:

I am amazed by this. I've been trying to figure out how to make this work and have been pretty obvious in my profile in Sniffies and Grindr with zero luck. 

It is hit or miss. I was successful with an absolute hottie. Been my regular for almost 7 years. 

Edited by BonVivant

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