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I wonder if Chuck (or Ken?) is the same Chuck from 27MS. I haven't seen his name on 27MS's roster in the last few weeks. I thought he was taller than 5'10" though.

Hi Chuck! 🙄🙄🙄

You should absolutely tell them. Part of the whole idea behind hiring an independent masseur, either for an in call or an out call, is the sense of privacy as opposed to going to a spa with others around. As a client, I always go to the masseur's place. I've had a few times when the masseur had company. One time, it was the sister of the masseur and another was a guy who hid in the bathroom except I needed to use the bathroom before the session. Very awkward. Another time, the masseur informed me ahead of time that his landlord was in the house (he rented a bedroom) and he said he told the landlord that I was just a Grindr hook up, not a client. He didn't want him to know what he did for work. I never saw the first two masseurs again because the surprise was just too weird, and frankly, disrespectful. I should not have been put in that position. I can only imagine that the masseur in your situation felt similar. The surprise of finding another person there probably made him nervous. Was this a sting? Was he going to be robbed or beaten up? At least give them a heads up and let them make a decision for themself.

Hmmm, that's probably why they never responded. 😢

Interesting first official advertising lol Welcome to [Spa Name]! We are located at [Location]. We are opening on [Opening Day]. I'm surprised you were able to add your phone number instead of leaving it as [Phone Number]. 🤣

You've gotten my hopes up! I just sent them an email asking if it's him. I only had one massage with him before he left and he was great. I hope it is him! haha If they reply, I'll let you know.

I wasn't impressed. He jumped fairly quickly into "extras" mode and he liked to flex for his own pleasure while staring at himself in the mirror. He gave a mediocre massage.

You are either extremely naive or delusional. 🙄

Yeah, I'm pretty sure those are not French words either.... 🙄

Whichever they choose, I hope they take more time to spellcheck. "Massuage" "M SAA" and what the hell is "Hendsy"???

If you are writing a post like this on this message board, you are the one who is naive. I mean really, what's with all the pearl clutching? OMG "it's illegal"!!!🤣

There's more out there than just HIV. Some guys still like to be careful or at least selective about who breeds them. Getting other STIs can be expensive. They may need to take time off or they could get a bad rep and lose repeat customers if there's a perception of them giving a client an STI.

I messaged him a week or two ago but he never replied. 🤷🏻‍♂️

This is not the Nikko I saw. Nikko was a scrawny, dark haired Greek twink.

I know what you mean. It's not always convenient to make a phone call. Either an online option or a text option would be nice. I saw an IG post with a number to text HK Spa but most of my favorites are at their sister spa, 27MS, and I haven't seen a text option for them. 🤔

I couldn't resist! That is so fetch IMGFLIP.COM An image tagged that is so fetch

It would probably be even easier if there were a sub-category for the NYC spas and then all of threads would be easier to find (maybe...). There are already multiple threads about individual NYC spas here but they get lost among the other misc. threads and then people start new ones.

Yes, I can confirm this is Eason who works out of G Man spa. I've only seen him once but I will repeat.

While it's true that tipping basically doesn't exist in Japan, my experience with Redline was an exception to that rule. The guy I had at Redline had lived overseas and had definitely picked up some more "western philosophies" like pushing for tips, giving the sad story of talking about all of his bills, etc. I think I gave him an extra ¥2000 or so and said "sorry, that's all I have on me." I did not have this experience with other providers.

Did you give a $100 tip or was the total you gave $100 ($65 for the massage and $35 for the tip)? A $100 tip is great, but $35 on a $65 massage (or $30 on a $70 massage, however the math works out to be $100 total) is not good unless it's a strictly therapeutic massage at a "regular" spa. Yes, a 100% tip is normal for anything more than therapeutic. That would be my starting point, depending on the experience.

Can you tell me more about Shangrila's Jack?

Others here don't seem to be impressed by him according to this thread:

Yes, you will both shower together before starting the massage.

What are you even talking about. He's got a freakin' 5 o'clock shadow in one of his pics. He's at least mid/late 20's.

I would never discuss it with a masseur in a spa. A private masseur, sure, but not in a spa. I use body language to convey my interests - lifting my ass when he's massaging it (or nearby), spreading my legs wider, again when he's in that area. And I will "let" my hand graze his groin or inner thigh to let him know I'm interested in more than a regular massage. If he doesn't respond, I don't pursue any further.