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Plenty of guys are vers. They can be into kink but are ok with vanilla. They can be dom or sub as needed. It's not like he's claiming to be a twink bear trans cis-male. 🤣 I really don't see anything contradictory in his profile. He can host or travel. (OMG!) He's available 24/7, so no other job or classes to get in the way. (How dare he!). BB or condom. (How scandalous!) He likes bears and jocks. (Impossible!) He's vers, has a passport and can travel. (Oh no!) My god, what has you so bent out of shape about his ad??? Read the room. No one else is having a problem with his ad. Maybe it's just... you? 😱

Grandee is clearly closed if you walk by. The 2nd floor location is empty and fully visible from the street. The windows were blacked out before. It looks gutted down to the beams.

100% for a $60 or $70 massage nothing if you're getting any decent extras. If you are going to a place that's charging $120 or $150, then maybe not 100% but still pretty close if the extras warrant it. I've gone to the $60/70 an hour spas and tipped upwards of $200 (yes 300%) when the extras were essentially escort level service (not naming any spas here or in DMs BTW...). But regular extras? Definitely 100% as a base level and more for better service.

I know why they do it - to secure the deal. However, promising the world and not delivering sours the experience. Fortunately, we have this forum to share our experiences and warn others.

I just can't justify $500 for an hour, not even for my favorite escorts. $300, maybe $350? I'm considering a famous(?) twitter "star" for $400 but even that price has me hesitating. But $500/hour? Nope! 🤣

Definitely agree with tardiness and using a cell phone during the massage/encounter. I will add promising/agreeing to preform certain acts when setting up the appointment but then saying "I don't do that" when the time comes. I've had escorts who promise they kiss during emails/texts but then decline while we are in bed. "It's too intimate!" 🙄 I had an escort, who I had specifically hired to bottom for me, decide that he didn't feel like it after we fooled around for about 30 minutes.

Damn! I had a 50/50 shot with Charlie the other day but I went with Brian instead. They were the two who were available when I walked it. Brian was just ok. Flirty but limited fun. Now I really wish I had gone with Charlie. lol

Part of me agrees with you but part of me would rather call out bullshit when I see it.

WTF? Are you and Manhattan Mild Age the same person??? Why the fuck are you copying what I said and using it here for someone else???

Why the fuck are you copying what I said about someone else and saying it about this guy??? WTF? And are you and Topmannyc the same person? "He" (you?) did the same thing on a post about Zhaung Zhaung at Yeah Man Spa.

He's great. Beautiful body, handsome face. Excellent massage skills. Only perceivable downside (i.e. if you want to look at it as a negative) is that he has a set fee for his tip. It's not a negotiation. He just lets you know what he expects if you want all of the "bells and whistles." While I'm definitely not a fan of negotiations mid-massage, this didn't bother me very much. IMHO, he is worth it.

He's in his early 20's, and cute. Kind of like a k-pop star? lol Not super-toned but he has a nice body.

I definitely recommend Theo. He has always given me a pretty good massage and I always leave with a smile on my face. He knows how I like my massage. 😎

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A table shower at EMS? Where? I don't think any of their rooms are equipped for that...

And now Energy Spa has a guy named Liam. I wonder if it's the same guy or just a coincidence. (I haven't met Liam at either location.)

Budgeting is important. This is pretty much my only "splurge." Otherwise, I live a pretty average life (below average?). I don't spend a lot on extras like going out to dinner often or buying the latest phone every year, etc. When I travel, I hire less before and after my trips so I can A) afford the trip and/or B) afford to hire while on the trip. I recently went to Thailand so I didn't hire for a month before the trip and about 3 weeks after. I used to get 90 min massages quite a bit but I have dialed that back to 60 min (most of the time). I also keep track of my spending for massages and escort services so I know if I've gone a bit crazy on my expenses and need to slow down. And I have a rule about credit cards too - if I can't afford to pay the balance each month, then I probably don't need it. You have to be realistic about what you can and can't afford.

Craigslist? Double red flag! 😝

That's a lot of good choices for EMS. I'm used to a max of good good choices there. BTW, when you wrote "Tory" did you mean Troy? I definitely like Theo and Troy. It took a session or two before Theo warmed up but I thought he had potential and he exceeds my expectations now. He is my current favorite at EMS.

Utatane offers outcall services to your hotel too. While the service can definitely vary from provider to provider, I have used them 3-4 times total the last couple of trips to Tokyo. Their service can range from a light massage with cuddling and a HE to a nice massage with anal. It's difficult to predict until you are actually having the massage though. Officially, they only offer nude massage with a HE. I usually hosted in my hotel but I did venture out to Sasazuka once and it was only a few minutes from Shinjuku via the train and then a 30 second walk from the station. It was about 20-25 minutes door to door from my hotel in Shinjuku to the location in Sasazuka.

They have a new IG account for their weekly schedules - http://www.instagram.com/hk27_schedule

Is Nelson the same guy who used to work at 24 Chelsea Spa (that spa that was on 24th btwn 9th & 10th) and then at East Men Spa? He kept doing name changes at EMS - Anthony, Nels, etc.

I thought New Yorker closed several months ago, around the same time as Grandee closed (but for unrelated reasons)? Is it still open?