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Mea culpa. I meant "wary," as in "feeling or showing caution." If anything, you could have gotten that from the context clues in my post. 🙄

Yup, that's just what I thought. Thank you for confirming.

Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol

You're going to a place like TSMS just for a "very good massage"? Do you go to McDonald's and expect fine dining too? Most "men's spas" are good for one thing, and a legit massage is not it. These guys are providing a "special service" and going in expecting something else just disappoints both you and the masseur. lol

Stamp cards offer an avenue to encourage loyalty and repeat business. Most that I have encountered at spas offer a free 30 min massage, which I'm assuming is usually used by most people during a 60 or 90 min massage. The spa is still getting some money from the massage and the customer feels like they are getting something as a thanks for their continued business. I use mine to get a 90 min massage (i.e. pay for 60 min) and I tip based on the 90 min rate. Maybe I'm naive but I assume that the masseur is being paid the same from the spa for the massage and it's the spa that's taking the hit on the discount. 🤷‍♂️ And frankly, if you don't want to use it because you perceive that your masseur is being cheated out of their pay, then don't use the card! It's pretty simple.

Whether they are attracted to guys or not is not really the issue. Most providers are probably not attracted to many of their clients. However, there is still a basic interest in having sex with someone who is the same gender. Straight guys generally don't like to take a cock in the ass but a gay or bi bottom would pretty much always be able to do it regardless of attraction. I could advertise myself as a escort for women, but I would never be able to actually perform to any woman's satisfaction.

I'm so sorry that you seem to have trouble with reading comprehension. Or maybe you just get so triggered around the subject of bisexuality and you just jump into attack mode? I don't know. This is what I said: "I'm always weary about bi guys when it comes to hiring. In my experience, it has been more "gay for pay" (bi for pay? lol) and I want someone who actually likes sex with guys." Nowhere in that statement mentions anything about me being "tired of bisexuals" or that bisexuals are really gay4pay nor did I say that bisexuals "don't actually like sex with guys." I literally said the opposite - instead of getting bisexuals who do like sex with guys, most of the providers I have hired who claim to be bisexual are in fact gay4pay and don't like sex with guys; they are just doing the bare minimum (if even) to earn some money. Reading (comprehension) is fundamental!

Sensitive much? I think I was pretty clear that my experience with providers who CLAIM to be bi has turned out to be more gay4pay and therefore lacked in the enthusiasm required for the job. I'm not "mistaking" gay4pay for bisexual. I'm saying the providers in my experience have left a lot to be desired in their claims to be into men or gay sex in general. Outside of hiring, bi is not an issue.

I'm always weary about bi guys when it comes to hiring. In my experience, it has been more "gay for pay" (bi for pay? lol) and I want someone who actually likes sex with guys. I would probably only hire a bi guy if he has good reviews over a lengthy time period (not just 3 reviews in 1 week). Outside of hiring, wouldn't think twice. If we're going to hook up and no money is involved, there's no issue.

Are you sure? I mean, he just joined rentmasseur two days ago and he already has two positive reviews! How could he possibly be fake! 🤣🤣🤣

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I love that HK and 27MS post their schedules. Shangrila sort of does that too, but you have to start the booking process to see names. I find recommendations on this site and then call/text the spa and ask if they are working on the day I want to go. I may not know what they look like, but I usually have an idea from the recommendation.

Wow, so many newbies coming out of nowhere to sing Chuck's praises! It's a miracle!!! 🙄

I wonder if Chuck (or Ken?) is the same Chuck from 27MS. I haven't seen his name on 27MS's roster in the last few weeks. I thought he was taller than 5'10" though.

Hi Chuck! 🙄🙄🙄

You should absolutely tell them. Part of the whole idea behind hiring an independent masseur, either for an in call or an out call, is the sense of privacy as opposed to going to a spa with others around. As a client, I always go to the masseur's place. I've had a few times when the masseur had company. One time, it was the sister of the masseur and another was a guy who hid in the bathroom except I needed to use the bathroom before the session. Very awkward. Another time, the masseur informed me ahead of time that his landlord was in the house (he rented a bedroom) and he said he told the landlord that I was just a Grindr hook up, not a client. He didn't want him to know what he did for work. I never saw the first two masseurs again because the surprise was just too weird, and frankly, disrespectful. I should not have been put in that position. I can only imagine that the masseur in your situation felt similar. The surprise of finding another person there probably made him nervous. Was this a sting? Was he going to be robbed or beaten up? At least give them a heads up and let them make a decision for themself.

Hmmm, that's probably why they never responded. 😢

Interesting first official advertising lol Welcome to [Spa Name]! We are located at [Location]. We are opening on [Opening Day]. I'm surprised you were able to add your phone number instead of leaving it as [Phone Number]. 🤣

You've gotten my hopes up! I just sent them an email asking if it's him. I only had one massage with him before he left and he was great. I hope it is him! haha If they reply, I'll let you know.

I wasn't impressed. He jumped fairly quickly into "extras" mode and he liked to flex for his own pleasure while staring at himself in the mirror. He gave a mediocre massage.

You are either extremely naive or delusional. 🙄

Yeah, I'm pretty sure those are not French words either.... 🙄

Whichever they choose, I hope they take more time to spellcheck. "Massuage" "M SAA" and what the hell is "Hendsy"???

If you are writing a post like this on this message board, you are the one who is naive. I mean really, what's with all the pearl clutching? OMG "it's illegal"!!!🤣

There's more out there than just HIV. Some guys still like to be careful or at least selective about who breeds them. Getting other STIs can be expensive. They may need to take time off or they could get a bad rep and lose repeat customers if there's a perception of them giving a client an STI.