urbanfetish

Seeing the hole doesn't bother me. Sometimes it can be helpful, either to see if they have a super loose hole or if they have a nice hairless ass crack for rimming.

I met an escort who was not that good of an actor. The first time we met was fairly hot. At the end, he was moaning how he could feel me cumming inside him. Ok, well, I have had orgasms that were strong enough for the bottom to feel, but this was not one of those times. The second time we met (and the last), he said the same thing but with even less enthusiasm. haha While I appreciate the effort, it was too fake for me.

I usually do like it when my paid companion enjoys himself too, at least a little bit, but there have been times when it is clear they "over-promised" their willingness to bottom, for example. Of course, I would never rape them, but if they are willing to complete the task that they agreed to, then that's on them. I'm very clear that I'm looking for a bottom and if they agree to it, I hope they are willing to complete the job. If not, then they don't get full payment (but again, I would never force them to do it). Ideally, they will let me know their likes in regards to sensitive nipples, kissing their ear/neck or whatever else they like. I do like to make them moan too.

I don't wear pajamas at all. Usually just boxer briefs or occasionally nude.

$350? No way would I pay that, even in NYC. I think $250 is more reasonable. If someone wants to quote $300 or higher, I'll just decline and let them offer lower if they want. I don't like negotiating and risking hard feelings. Some guys ask for higher fees first just to see if they can get it. I have paid higher rates in the past but I've never felt like I got my money's worth for the difference. I don't see the point anymore. There are other guys who will be happy with $250 and do just as good a job, if not better.

If it's important to you, then sure, why not? Especially if the guy has pics with multiple hair styles and/or facial hair. It's good to know what he currently looks like. Facial hair is a turn off for me in general, so I'd want to know.

I think he charges escort level prices for a massage. Not sure if he provides more than massage services for that price. I never took him up on the offer. Too expensive to take a chance for me. lol

I don’t recommend. Met him a few weeks ago. You can DM me if you want.

"Bump" means someone is trying to bump the thread back to the top of the list so it's not buried on page 10 or whatever. This thread was started in Feb but instead of creating a new thread, which is annoying to have multiple threads about the same guy, they just "bumped" this thread to see if anyone has info without having anything to add themselves.

I prefer smooth.

I usually say something along the lines of "Sorry but I don't think we are a good match." It doesn't directly put the perceived blame on them. I'm not into Trans guys in a similar (yet opposite?) way that I'm not into cross dressers/drag queens/transsexuals. I don't find women attractive so why would I want a guy in women's clothes or a Trans man with a pussy? I support them for who they are, who they've become and all that, but I'm not sexually interested in them.

Bump I would love to know where Jerry is, too. He gave me 3 or 4 massages pre-Covid and his hands are electric! He's one masseur I truly miss. I texted Ben a few times around their reopening. He responded to all of my questions except for "Is Jerry coming back?" I haven't seen him on their FB schedule since their re-opening. Had Yura once but I was not impressed. August is great but I still miss Jerry. ? Just curious if he's at another spa or if he's still even in NYC?

For my best practices, I have learned to be as clear as possible of my desires when making the appt. I usually want kissing, rimming and anal with the escort being the bottom. I get my price up front. I've had guys try to pull an "a la carte" deal on me while we're in the middle of things (oh, anal will be an extra $XX). Nope, no more of that crap. Now, if I set kissing/rimming/anal as my prearranged request and then I say I want to add bondage into the mix after we get started, then that's on me. Of course, you still get "yes men" who agree to everything ahead of time but then reality is another story... It's frustrating but that's on them when it comes time to pay (or tip) and the review. ?‍♂️

I think being early is good as long as there's good communication and no expectations. I've set up a few appts saying I might be early. And other times when I arrive faster than expected, I just let them know I'm nearby and they can let me know when they are ready. I mean really, if they are available and can free up 10-15 min on the other end of the appt, why not? Twice I've encountered traveling escorts/masseurs who were running appts back-to-back and were obvious about it. That's their fault for scheduling so tight. With the masseur in question, I passed the previous client in the hotel hallway on my way in and the next client as I was leaving. (Saw them leaving/entering the masseur's room.)

It's funny you mentioned this. I've had a couple of escorts/masseurs over the years that say it's their birthday on the day of the appt or the day I'm setting up the appt. I usually believe them (or don't care if they're lying) but I feel like I should get them a little something. The last guy was a masseur who said his b-day was the day of the appt. I asked if he likes chocolates. No. How about alcohol? No. I asked about one other item (I don't remember what at this point). No. Well, that was enough for me. I tried... Sure, he probably just wanted extra cash over the normal tip but I'd rather give a little gift for the b-day and tip appropriately for the service itself. I mean, how much more money are you expecting to get out of me? I think I'm pretty generous as it is. haha

Ok thanks. If that's all it is then I guess it's not any more intrusive than FB somehow knowing what cereal I buy... ?

Oh yeah, I'm sure it's my anti-virus. Sorry I didn't say that specifically. It doesn't do that with any other adult sites I use (and I am pretty careful about not exploring new sites. I tend to stick to the "tried and true" perverted sites.) ?

I hate paying up front. I have almost always been disappointed when I paid first. There is no incentive to do a good job when they already have the money. I usually still pay the base rate when service isn't good but no tip. I have paid less, like about half the original price, on a couple of occasions when things went south early on in the session and I left early. For example, there was an escort who "promised the world" in our email correspondence but only gave me about 30 seconds of service before saying he needed to use the bathroom to properly clean himself (which he should have done before, of course). He came back in a few minutes but said he couldn't perform anymore - only light stuff for the rest of the session. I got dressed, gave him a little money and left with him yelling at me for full payment. I was probably there for only 15-20 minutes at most and the problem was on his end, not mine. (If the problem was ever on my end, I would pay in full though.)

Anyone else getting a "malicious link" warning (actually a pair each time) when you open rentmasseur.com? It seems that my desktop doesn't like that site very much. I keep getting security alerts whenever I use the site on my desktop, but never on my phone.

I wouldn't even bother to mix business with pleasure, so to speak, in this case. If I'm hiring, I don't want to be distracted by thoughts that the guy isn't into me. The reason I hire is to avoid complications since I already have a partner. I like variety and in the past when I've tried general hook-ups, every once in a while they have gotten too attached even when I specifically look for NSA flings.

I think it's been almost 15 years since I went on their website. Can't say that I missed them. So, they are still around? haha

TBH, I would not. I'm not interested in female genitalia. Definite turn off for me. I'm supportive of trans rights but I want to date a guy with a dick.