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I referenced those countries bc the hobby is legal there. But even there providers HAVE to be 18+. It is illegal for anyone under that age. So let’s stop confusing two very different scenarios: unpaid vs paid.

Good approach. Meet in a very public space for the first vetting. Never in a private enclosed space. Then if it is a no, there will be no drama, knives or threats. (There could still be drama. lol. but at least there are witnesses ).

Let us be very clear: in ALL countries, a provider in this hobby HAS to be 18+. Period.

Google is your friend. It is not straightforward. Min age is 18 for this hobby. As it should be.

Go to Belgium. Netherlands. Germany. Etc.

You can do an “Anywhere” search with age bracket and other attributes. Good luck. Let us know ow what you find. !

It is a longstanding gay fantasy to be overpowered by a man in uniform. Cop 👮‍♀️ included. It’s all role play.

It is not. Not at all.

Communications are key. You and the other one need to be clear about what you want to do and what needs to be done for it to happen: i. e. cleansing and cleaning beforehand is the key. 🔐

Is there another link where we can read more? There is more to this story apparently. But do tell us or point us in the right direction!

Is Tampa with a long weekend for beaches and gay nightlife? [i know, I know…. Not on topic. But related.].

I gifted a beautiful pearl necklace to my boi. He loved it. It had gradiated pearls going from small pearls to larger pearls. It was custom made. I selected the pearls myself!

Pride is the worst for this hobby. Too many flakes on both sides.

True. The guys with massive amounts of reviews (20+) typically treat it as an assembly line business. Nothing is set in stone in this hobby. A lot of it will come down to the chemistry between the two of you. Sometimes you should have to go for a swim.

We are fortunate to have so many Brazilian lovers available. Amongst the best. I am not complaining!

Not a requirement; my usual range is same height to taller. A fantasy is to be dominated by a 6’5” guy with a massive penis appropriately scaled.

Do tell! How exactly do you manage this?

Six reviews are actually a healthy number for RM. For the rest, the others have provided you excellent advice and protocols.

Yes I criticized bc getting blocked doesn’t equal getting used. I have been blocked; I had no idea why. I just move on. Your experience is valid as it is your experience. And mine is valid as well. The other thread on him also has positive personal experiences. Hopefully yours was a one off. 🤷‍♂️

Hmmm. Well…. My experience was limited to one hour. I had no issues.

Hard to say why there was a blocking. You’d have to ask him. But… in these situations (and it has happened to me by another provider (and more than once) and to lots of other folks) my advice is to just move on. Who knows why…. 🤷‍♂️

I think he went by “puka shell dude”. Now it is: https://rent.men/thepukadude. He always has kept “Puka” in the name.

This is false. He does not “use people”. Did you have a bad time? A bad experience? Then go into the details if you have first hand knowledge; if not, don’t be a lil gossip queen. I have actually met Puka. Spent time with him. I had a great time. He was sweet, personable and a great lover. Can’t wait to see him again. Why don’t you reach out and communicate directly? Maybe you will find out if he has any plans to travel to LA. Maybe he does. Maybe he doesn’t. No one in here will know that.

Soon you’ll be able to order a customizable one to service daily needs.

And inflated self-image and ego.