Very high end escorts

[BCMan]

Is there a site, outside of RM, that contains generally older (35-50), well educated, more sophisticated than typical, escorts? Someone comfortable in a social/professional setting or vacation travel spanning several days? Someone just as comfortable as your date at a corporate social function in a coat and tie as he is sitting quietly by a pool reading a book while keeping you company. I have definitely met one or two guys on RM that fit that bill. Was just wondering if there is a site with a greater concentration of such gentlemen.

If there is no such site, does anybody have any other suggestions on how one might procure such a gentleman?

I appreciate any thoughts anyone has on the matter. Thank you.

Edited Saturday at 03:58 AM by BCMan

[+ RyanDean]

Such an interesting question, @BCMan

I don't know that there's such a website, aside from perhaps Seeking.com (which has its own limits).

That said, some thoughts...

• it sounds like forum contributor @BenjaminNicholas would deftly meet this criteria.
• you might explore the offerings of LuxeMentor;
• and depending on your location (and height requirements), I'd endorse James Dumont for your consideration.

And I'll be interested to see which other providers come to mind for other forum contributors...

[Thelatin]

I’m 55 - in shape and willing to travel.  Woo me. 

[Wings246]

I am a peasant and I'll never be able to afford what you describe unless I win the jackpot of the next lottery.  But I just did a quick Google search by typing in "super high end male escorts for gay men" and I found:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/

Does this website fulfill your requirements?

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

There are plenty of escorts between 35 - 50 years old currently advertising on Rentmen...
They just don't admit to it!

BTC
🤡

[BCMan]

16 minutes ago, Wings246 said:

I am a peasant and I'll never be able to afford what you describe unless I win the jackpot of the next lottery.  But I just did a quick Google search by typing in "super high end male escorts for gay men" and I found:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/

Does this website fulfill your requirements?

Thanks, I will have to check it out!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Honestly, I think your best bet is referrals. While we don’t hire for multi-day engagements, we’ve met several escorts who would fit your bill. Intelligent, well read, well traveled, interesting conversationalists. And if you are planning for important events or vacations, I think meeting them for dinner first is a good way to gage if he’s what you’re looking for and if you have chemistry. 

[theplayerking]

On 2/13/2026 at 10:55 PM, BCMan said:

in a coat and tie

This is going to sound very snobbish, but tailored menswear is almost always going a challenge for providers. The jackets and ties in these photos are just awful. 

[Danny-Darko]

On 2/13/2026 at 10:55 PM, BCMan said:

Is there a site, outside of RM, that contains generally older (35-50), well educated, more sophisticated than typical, escorts? Someone comfortable in a social/professional setting or vacation travel spanning several days? Someone just as comfortable as your date at a corporate social function in a coat and tie as he is sitting quietly by a pool reading a book while keeping you company. I have definitely met one or two guys on RM that fit that bill. Was just wondering if there is a site with a greater concentration of such gentlemen.

If there is no such site, does anybody have any other suggestions on how one might procure such a gentleman?

I appreciate any thoughts anyone has on the matter. Thank you.

I have come across them in the past, but they were all for women of means and made it clear that services were not offered for men. Yet I've always suspected that such high-end connections are made through discreet acquaintances in the know within certain circles. I remember a post long ago by pubic_assistance that kind of alluded to this, if I remember correctly. Good luck! 😉 

[Wings246]

Another quick Google search yields some additional results, most of which are quite disappointing though:

1.  https://www.gigolodirect.com/en/      There are a handful of gay/bisexual male escorts here.

2.  https://www.gigolo-escort.co.uk/escortservice/escort-men/      All of them easily fit OP's requests; unfortunately, the target audience is female.

3.  https://cowboys4angels.com/all-cowboys/      This is another site that is full of possibilities; however, again, it's for female only.

If there are gay versions of #2 and #3 above, OP will be swimming in joy.   😉 

[nate_sf]

I’d thought of Cowboys and Angels too, but yes it’s oriented to women. Too bad, there are some hot guys there…

[LookingAround]

You've heard the expression, "If you have to ask, you can't afford it?" The real high-end escorts will not be found on a Google search or on website such as COM. I was once in the steam room at Equinox when one hot friend asked another hot friend what he was doing, and the friend said, "I'm a consort" Real (ultra) high end guys are only found through word of mouth. 

Edited Monday at 10:46 AM by LookingAround

[MikeBiDude]

9 hours ago, LookingAround said:

You've heard the expression, "If you have to ask, you can't afford it?" The real high-end escorts will not be found on a Google search or on website such as COM. I was once in the steam room at Equinox when one hot friend asked another hot friend what he was doing, and the friend said, "I'm a consort" Real (ultra) high end guys are only found through word of mouth. 

This is one of the best replies.

Many, many years ago I fell into touch with a 28-29 year old provider who was a “scout” for possible high end providers for upscale clients. Think movie producers, actors, CEO’s, etc. He would visit strip shows etc. and recruit. Once or twice he had me try out one of his finds before they moved onto to the “big leagues” and out of my league.

It was ALL word of mouth, in person contact. No RM ads (or Frontiers ads as was the default back then!).

[jeezifonly]

It's not going to be an online connection - strictly recs through your new friends in the high-income social circle in your region where such companions are talked about discreetly, or are perhaps even in attendance themselves. 

Start by attending the biggest Mega-Church in your city, then...

[Peter Eater]

A couple of intriguing options at themaleescortagency. Like this:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/portfolio/tom/
 

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, Peter Eater said:

A couple of intriguing options at themaleescortagency. Like this:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/portfolio/tom/
 

When I looked at their portfolio in my backwater location, I thought some of the guys made sniffies look like a better source

Oops...they're the same guys linked to all the states they cover!

 

 

Edited Tuesday at 03:51 PM by PhileasFogg

[EZEtoGRU]

9 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

Oops...they're the same guys linked to all the states they cover!

 

 

I noticed the same thing. I’m not sure it’s really a legit source. True high-end discreet companions are not going to want to plaster their facepics online. 
 

The sort of escorts we are discussing in this thread are mostly not going to be found on the internet. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, Peter Eater said:

A couple of intriguing options at themaleescortagency. Like this:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/portfolio/tom/
 

Does this person have a Rent.men profile? 

[+ PhileasFogg]

11 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Does this person have a Rent.men profile? 

He looks familiar 

[+ azdr0710]

3 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

A couple of intriguing options at themaleescortagency. Like this:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/portfolio/tom/
 

 

2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Does this person have a Rent.men profile? 

 

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

He looks familiar 

 

Edited Tuesday at 06:19 PM by azdr0710

[EZEtoGRU]

3 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

 

 

 

Good catch!

[BCMan]

https://rent.men/Theonlytomforyou

[d.anders]

LOL. Isn't the elitist sales pitch dead? Look what's happening to the Glambot guy. Canceled. Most of the wealthy people I've encountered in my life are cheap as hell. They are all looking for bargains and freebies when they can get them. Saks and Neiman's just filed for bankruptcy protection. Money is so transactional these days. High prices are far more marketing tactics than any indication of quality, especially with all the luxury crap that is now being made in China. I don't know any billionaires, so maybe there's a discreet pool of guys who cater to these circles, but how many billionaires are looking for man-on-man sex-for-hire? Name one product that a billionaire might buy today that doesn't have a website.

[Peter Eater]

9 minutes ago, d.anders said:

Most of the wealthy people I've encountered in my life are cheap as hell.

👏👏👏

[Whoisyourdaddy]

4 hours ago, d.anders said:

LOL. Isn't the elitist sales pitch dead? Look what's happening to the Glambot guy. Canceled. Most of the wealthy people I've encountered in my life are cheap as hell. They are all looking for bargains and freebies when they can get them. Saks and Neiman's just filed for bankruptcy protection. Money is so transactional these days. High prices are far more marketing tactics than any indication of quality, especially with all the luxury crap that is now being made in China. I don't know any billionaires, so maybe there's a discreet pool of guys who cater to these circles, but how many billionaires are looking for man-on-man sex-for-hire? Name one product that a billionaire might buy today that doesn't have a website.

The notion that wealthy men would pay escorts massive amounts of money to go to dinner or an entertainment venue (and never have sex) with them sounds overblown. I'm sure there are clients out there who would do it, but they're in the slim minority.