Very high end escorts

[BCMan]

Is there a site, outside of RM, that contains generally older (35-50), well educated, more sophisticated than typical, escorts? Someone comfortable in a social/professional setting or vacation travel spanning several days? Someone just as comfortable as your date at a corporate social function in a coat and tie as he is sitting quietly by a pool reading a book while keeping you company. I have definitely met one or two guys on RM that fit that bill. Was just wondering if there is a site with a greater concentration of such gentlemen.

If there is no such site, does anybody have any other suggestions on how one might procure such a gentleman?

I appreciate any thoughts anyone has on the matter. Thank you.

Edited yesterday at 03:58 AM by BCMan

[+ RyanDean]

Such an interesting question, @BCMan

I don't know that there's such a website, aside from perhaps Seeking.com (which has its own limits).

That said, some thoughts...

• it sounds like forum contributor @BenjaminNicholas would deftly meet this criteria.
• you might explore the offerings of LuxeMentor;
• and depending on your location (and height requirements), I'd endorse James Dumont for your consideration.

And I'll be interested to see which other providers come to mind for other forum contributors...

[Thelatin]

I’m 55 - in shape and willing to travel.  Woo me. 

[Wings246]

I am a peasant and I'll never be able to afford what you describe unless I win the jackpot of the next lottery.  But I just did a quick Google search by typing in "super high end male escorts for gay men" and I found:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/

Does this website fulfill your requirements?

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

There are plenty of escorts between 35 - 50 years old currently advertising on Rentmen...
They just don't admit to it!

BTC
🤡

[BCMan]

16 minutes ago, Wings246 said:

I am a peasant and I'll never be able to afford what you describe unless I win the jackpot of the next lottery.  But I just did a quick Google search by typing in "super high end male escorts for gay men" and I found:

https://www.themaleescortagency.com/us/

Does this website fulfill your requirements?

Thanks, I will have to check it out!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Honestly, I think your best bet is referrals. While we don’t hire for multi-day engagements, we’ve met several escorts who would fit your bill. Intelligent, well read, well traveled, interesting conversationalists. And if you are planning for important events or vacations, I think meeting them for dinner first is a good way to gage if he’s what you’re looking for and if you have chemistry. 

[theplayerking]

On 2/13/2026 at 10:55 PM, BCMan said:

in a coat and tie

This is going to sound very snobbish, but tailored menswear is almost always going a challenge for providers. The jackets and ties in these photos are just awful. 

[Danny-Darko]

On 2/13/2026 at 10:55 PM, BCMan said:

Is there a site, outside of RM, that contains generally older (35-50), well educated, more sophisticated than typical, escorts? Someone comfortable in a social/professional setting or vacation travel spanning several days? Someone just as comfortable as your date at a corporate social function in a coat and tie as he is sitting quietly by a pool reading a book while keeping you company. I have definitely met one or two guys on RM that fit that bill. Was just wondering if there is a site with a greater concentration of such gentlemen.

If there is no such site, does anybody have any other suggestions on how one might procure such a gentleman?

I appreciate any thoughts anyone has on the matter. Thank you.

I have come across them in the past, but they were all for women of means and made it clear that services were not offered for men. Yet I've always suspected that such high-end connections are made through discreet acquaintances in the know within certain circles. I remember a post long ago by pubic_assistance that kind of alluded to this, if I remember correctly. Good luck! 😉