Do you ever question it?

[Reggyreg56]

Now I would never call anyone on here a liar but do you ever question some of the clients who have such glowing experiences from some of these providers? Sometimes the experiences seem out of this world. If you do, why do you think some clients embellish their experiences if they do at all?

[Nightowl]

You’ve probably seen comments here like ”Your mileage may vary.”. There’s a lot of truth in that.  Different people often have different experiences with the same provider.  Those clients aren’t necessarily lying if they write glowing comments about someone that you weren’t impressed by.  

[Nue2thegame]

21 minutes ago, Nightowl said:

You’ve probably seen comments here like ”Your mileage may vary.”. There’s a lot of truth in that.  Different people often have different experiences with the same provider.  Those clients aren’t necessarily lying if they write glowing comments about someone that you weren’t impressed by.  

Very true. While I’ve found reviews to be helpful, I’ve had several profoundly different experiences from others, more often better but sometimes worse. We each have different appearances, perceptions, personalities and preferences and it’s only natural that we would have different experiences. My tip is to find a reviewer that you consistently have similar experiences and follow him. Conversely, I’ve tended to discount those that my experiences have been much different. I have a limited appetite for taking one for the team and look closely at reviews, here and elsewhere. 

[marylander1940]

44 minutes ago, Nightowl said:

You’ve probably seen comments here like ”Your mileage may vary.”. There’s a lot of truth in that.  Different people often have different experiences with the same provider.  Those clients aren’t necessarily lying if they write glowing comments about someone that you weren’t impressed by.  

Not completely on subject but as a wiseman recently told me by PM when it comes to some personal "stories":

There is more than one fantasist here with stories that aren't even remotely believable.

Back to subject: Not all providers always have good days or have chemistry with all clients, besides some folks are just hard to please or see the glass half empty.

[+ PhileasFogg]

One man’s garbage is another man’s treasure.

Also, it takes two to tango…and to do it well

[Becket]

It's all about chemistry. One of my best regular hires had just average looks. But we got along so well I couldn't wait to see him again.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, Reggyreg56 said:

Now I would never call anyone on here a liar but do you ever question some of the clients who have such glowing experiences from some of these providers? Sometimes the experiences seem out of this world. If you do, why do you think some clients embellish their experiences if they do at all?

I tend to observe who in this Company recommends the same providers as I've enjoyed; then, see who else they recommend because we have similar tastes and expectations of a good time.

[hungry4darkmeat]

44 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I tend to observe who in this Company recommends the same providers as I've enjoyed; then, see who else they recommend because we have similar tastes and expectations of a good time.

Agreed - I often chat with other clients on RM and other forums about their experiences and compare notes on the providers we’ve worked with.

My best advice across the board is to first be honest with yourself and then be upfront with potential providers about exactly what you want from the experience.

Finding others with similar tastes and preferences and makes it so much easier to avoid disappointments. That’s one reason I love this site! I actually met another member with the same predilections as me and we’ve had a few fantastic group sessions together and I’ve discussed doing the same with others here as well. We were just saying how nice it is to have peers in this space.

[Reggyreg56]

12 hours ago, Nightowl said:

You’ve probably seen comments here like ”Your mileage may vary.”. There’s a lot of truth in that.  Different people often have different experiences with the same provider.  Those clients aren’t necessarily lying if they write glowing comments about someone that you weren’t impressed by.  

That's an excellent point! 

[Reggyreg56]

11 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Not completely on subject but as a wiseman recently told me by PM when it comes to some personal "stories":

There is more than one fantasist here with stories that aren't even remotely believable.

Back to subject: Not all providers always have good days or have chemistry with all clients, besides some folks are just hard to please or see the glass half empty.

That makes sense as well.

[Reggyreg56]

9 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I tend to observe who in this Company recommends the same providers as I've enjoyed; then, see who else they recommend because we have similar tastes and expectations of a good time.

Wow that's a good strategy! 

[maninsoma]

First of all it's important to remember that just because a post about an escort purports to be from a client doesn't necessarily make that true.  I was researching a provider yesterday and found a thread from a year ago where one person chimed in to offer high praise.  Another member responded, "Welcome to the forum," which is an indirect way of questioning the veracity of the post since it might actually just be the provider or someone who's friends with him creating an account here to drum up business.  Turns out that person made no other post on this site after that first one.  How likely is it that someone would join a site like this just to post one glowing review of one provider?

As to being skeptical about legitimate praises posted by genuine clients, as others have written it may just be that they had great chemistry with someone that won't necessarily translate to every client that provider sees.  This is true for everything in life.  I might love a particular restaurant and someone else will find it lacking; it doesn't make either of us right or wrong.  One of my biggest disappointments in hiring was with someone who had glowing reviews on the previous site (back in Hooboy's days).  For me he showed up a bit late, sweaty and couldn't get hard.  I suspect he was coming down from a meth binge.  I didn't review him since my experience was such an outlier.  

[jeezifonly]

It's fair, and even sometimes imperative, to question everything you read - both here and elsewhere. Words on a screen can be written in good faith, and sometimes not. Providers perhaps have more motivation to misrepresent in their profiles, simply to minimize flaws. Reviewers on RM and have motivations of their own, and don't represent any more experiences than their own.  Most mean well. 

Desire has always involved a degree of deception.

[+ Gar1eth]

On 1/8/2026 at 9:38 AM, maninsoma said:

Welcome to the forum," which is an indirect way of questioning the veracity of the post since it might actually just be the provider or someone who's friends with him creating an account here to drum up business. 

Yes definitely sometimes. But at least in my case, sometimes I'm just being friendly and welcoming a newbie-or trying to politely suggest how things are usually done on here -like informing them that it's helpful to post a link if  they inquire about a particular provider. 

[TUOT89]

I got to know a provider very well.  Got to know the type of guys he liked and what he was really "into."

Never had any delusions about him.

However, based on his glowing reviews as a "top," I wish I had.  I think when you don't know what a provider is really like or what he really likes it's easier to believe that you are having an "out of this world" experience.

Which reminds me of something a hookup (a CHP officer) once told me.  If we talk too much, I don't think I can f*** you.  I did not say another word.

Edited Friday at 09:53 PM by TUOT89

[+ purplekow]

44 minutes ago, TUOT89 said:

I got to know a provider very well.  Got to know the type of guys he liked and what he was really "into."

Never had any delusions about him.

However, based on his glowing reviews as a "top," I wish I had.  I think when you don't know what a provider is really like or what he really likes it's easier to believe that you are having an "out of this world" experience.

Which reminds me of something a hookup (a CHP officer) once told me.  If we talk too much, I don't think I can f*** you.  I did not say another word.

Sound like virgin whore-syndrome.  As long as I do not know you I can do vile unspeakable things to you that you will write about in your diary and be praised in your obituary.  One I know you, not so much.  I, on the other hand, prefer to have some knowledge about the person to whom  I am about to do vile unsepeakable things.  That way, I can get his name and details right in my diary.  

In response to the original question, of course some experiences written here have a bent toward the better, but as long as they are not using the no one could fuck better, he had the best body I could imagine, only I could stop seven wars  type of hyperbole, then I trust it.  That last one I find most damning and least believable. 

Edited Friday at 10:41 PM by purplekow

[+ Lucky]

I  can't imagine anyone here posting an exaggerated review of a good hire. After all, aren't we all dedicated to the integrity of the site?

[TMB]

I've been very truthful and, I hope, fair about the good and not so good experiences I've had. If it's been great, I will say it was great and mean it. I think it's the over the top hyperbole that doesn't pass the sniff test for me. 

[+ Gar1eth]

10 hours ago, TUOT89 said:

hookup (a CHP officer)

Would this be an abbreviation for California Highway Patrol? Or to put it more succinctly-you were vo-do-de-oh-doe-ing with Erik Estrada? 

Edited Saturday at 08:47 AM by Gar1eth

[+ poolboy48220]

17 hours ago, TUOT89 said:

Which reminds me of something a hookup (a CHP officer) once told me.  If we talk too much, I don't think I can f*** you.  I did not say another word.

There's a word for that.  I read Zachary Zane's memoir "Boyslut" (which I recommend) and he names the "once I make a connection with a person, I lose interest in fucking them" mindset. Damned if I can remember what that term is, though (I got the book from the library (and was surprised the library carried it)), so can't refer to the book to refresh my memory. 

[+ poolboy48220]

1 hour ago, poolboy48220 said:

There's a word for that.  I read Zachary Zane's memoir "Boyslut" (which I recommend) and he names the "once I make a connection with a person, I lose interest in fucking them" mindset. Damned if I can remember what that term is, though (I got the book from the library (and was surprised the library carried it)), so can't refer to the book to refresh my memory. 

Fraysexual!