Threesome Protocol

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’ve arranged 4 threesome’s in recent months.  Most notable being recent experiences with cuteblondeboy/FTM_AngelGabe and last weekend with Roman_Speers/AshtenSky.

I once had a regular indicate he’d prefer not to participate in a threesome  His reason was that, whereas in an orgy he could tap out if he needed a break, in a threesome he felt he needed to stay engaged.  Silly me, I never considered that   

But, while in my 60’s, my catholic school upbringing has still left me somewhat naive in certain things.

So, I’m curious - should a threesome be a completely “go with the flow” exercise, or are there certain techniques/routines that keep everyone engaged and satisfied?

Please share your favorite examples if you have any.  

[+ Just Chuck]

Often the two people with the most chemistry will start to focus on each other and it’s easy to leave someone out.  There are some tricks to make sure that everyone is getting plenty of attention throughout.  One that I’ve used: I set an interval timer for the gym set to give a soft chime every so often (maybe 90 seconds) and set the “ground rules” every time that my phone chimes, we switch positions.”  It turned out to be a lot of fun and didn’t really feel forced at all.

On another note: I absolutely love trans men.  Please let me know how your experience with cuteblondeboy goes.  I thought that my work was going to take me to New Orleans earlier this year and was really excited that I might be able to meet him.

[+ PhileasFogg]

Cuteblondeboy is in LA.  We’ve met twice and have a third trip on schedule in Feb to Palm Springs.  He’s awesome!

AngelGabe is the TransMan and in NOLA.  We have our second meeting planned this weekend. He is well educated and worldly with an edge of sarcastic humor that matches my own. Looking forward to our Friday meeting. 🕺🏼

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Since my husband and I mostly hire together, we often have threesomes. I find that with any sex people occasionally need a break because they've been going too hard, or they're overwhelmed with stimulation. I don't see that to be an issue. If anything, it's an advantage of having more than two people. That said, depending on participants' preferences (who's a top, bottom, vers), I could see someone feeling pressured to perform throughout. But we usually try to assure the other guys that they're allowed ot take a break. 

[+ Just Chuck]

If you’re hiring the other two, you might set a ground rule that they don’t try to make you cum for the first 2/3rds (or something) of the appointment. Sitting out and feeling like taking a nap while the other two partners keep going at it would be fine for a group of three volunteers, but it would feel like a waste to be paying for.

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, Just Chuck said:

If you’re hiring the other two, you might set a ground rule that they don’t try to make you cum for the first 2/3rds (or something) of the appointment. Sitting out and feeling like taking a nap while the other two partners keep going at it would be fine for a group of three volunteers, but it would feel like a waste to be paying for.

I'm OK with sloppy seconds

[+ Jamie21]

The best rule is no compulsion for anyone on anything. All you need to know, or ask your partners is what they definitely don’t want. If anything else is optional for anyone then no participant feels an obligation to do anything. That’s the best way for everyone to have a good time. 

[SecretProvider]

Just go with the flow. Sitting back and watching for a bit is also really sexy for all parties. 

I would not invite the provider who has said he doesn't enjoy it. I think most providers would like group bookings - I really enjoy when I get to invited to threesomes with other providers by clients- it's a chance to have sex with someone I am much more likely to have sex with in my personal life so almost like catching me in my natural habitat. I always make sure not to get carried away and that the client feels important though.

[+ purplekow]

It is considerate of you to want the escorts you are financing to have a good time, but really it is there job to make sure that you do.  You need to be clear what you need and what they need should be secondary to that.  Not to say that they cannot have fun, but it should only be at your willingness.  So, in the threesomes I have arranged, most were with partners and they were told that my expectation was that at least one of them should be paying attention to me unless I indicate that I am all for being the odd man out for a bit. 

I once had a three way with a couple whom I hired several times.   One was always the top for anal though he gave excellent head and the other always the bottom.  I enjoyed watching them go at it as I am not into bottoming.  One time, the last time actually, the top asked me to top him.  He told me he did not usually bottom during paid encounters but he wanted to see how that would work out.  He apparently did not inform his partner that this was going to happen and when the top suddenly threw his legs in the air and groaned for me to fuck him, I obliged, to the consternation of the the bottom who watched for a bit and then asked if he was needed in a way that was not conducive to my continuing to fuck his partner.  

After that encounter, which did continue with my switching to fucking the bottom, I never did hire them again.  I wanted to hire the top as a single, but I did not want to cause any difficulty.  The top said he would need to clear it with his partner if I was going to fuck him.  So even the best laid plans can go awry.  

Edited Tuesday at 12:50 AM by purplekow

[+ KensingtonHomo]

47 minutes ago, SecretProvider said:

it's a chance to have sex with someone I am much more likely to have sex with in my personal life so almost like catching me in my natural habitat

Thank God you're anonymous. 🤣🤣🤣

[Nikba]

For those already experienced with group sessions in a private party or sauna, it comes easy and only needed to agree with rules and roles. Not so easy task for the first timer, I had it years ago with lot of excitement and expectations. The first time was horrible with miscommunication and engagement. The second time, a year later, I asked the provider (I hired a few times) to pick the third one, that might be best suited the situation. It turned out fantastic and beyond my imagination.  Since then, I regularly held 3some every 3 or 4 months depending on the vibe and budget. Top/versatile and completely versatile are best choices on most cases.