Jason Dutch

Most of the time I find the clients aren't out the door until 20 minutes beyond the scheduled time... I try not to "watch the clock" anyhow, but mentally I plan for a little spillover. It can be tricky timing a client's orgasm, too - not always up to me if you end up busting sooner! But in the case he busts with time to spare, I always remain attentive and available for the remainder of the hour, for cuddling/aftercare/conversation or even a bit more play if they're game. Some clients take advantage of this, and others are ready to hit the road right away after they nut.

OMG I never realized, your avatar must be an old pic haha. Love our cutie QB. Go Bills!

As a provider, I don't think I would put a travel alert up for such a visit.. As you've described, I won't have any availability and it's a short trip. I've never been flown out by somebody, but I've absolutely done quick 2-day trips for unrelated purposes and chosen not to push my ad since I'd have to turn everybody down and I'd rather not disappoint, and have little patience for fruitless texting as it is. That said, your date choosing to do so for whatever reason — to sus out the market, to get his name/face out there, just ~because~ - is totally harmless, as others said. If, on the other hand, you noticed his profile set to Available Now in the midst of your overnight, that might be cause to quibble!

I had no idea there was such a horny spa culture in Vegas. I figured the more explicitly gay bathhouse establishments would fill that need but there's something super hot about the tension and furtive fun one can have in places like these. Thanks for the info

An escort friend of mine told me last week about being pulled aside at the airport back in April when he was on his way to Orlando for a porn industry event. He had actually deactivated his RM profile months previous and stopped escort work. He said they surmised that he had stopped escorting and that his story checked out but warned him to be careful. By contrast, as a US citizen I have it easier than most. I cross the Peace Bridge (sometimes Lewiston) 15-20 times each way every year, and I almost never get any hassle crossing by land. Been gently searched once or twice going into Canada over the past 4 years or so of frequent land crossing. But crossing into the Buffalo side, the officer usually just says hello, blinks a few times, ask me what I'm importing (I always declare super honestly, they like that haha) and waves me me on through. (Detroit is a different story, but that was never related to my work, they're just total dicks there to gay people, people of colour, anyone they can bark at. Always take Pt Huron if you can, haha) I'll note that, after 2 years waiting, I finally did my NEXUS interview last month. So now I'm just waiting on the card (any day now...) and also waiting for my citizenship stuff to go through in the next few months... with those settled, I will feel even more secure. But for now I'm thinking over what precautions might I take given this increased scrutiny, and I will certainly keep an eye on this as it further unfolds. I'm mostly just very grateful for having the wild privilege of having a US passport and therefore enjoyed pretty unfettered freedom of mobility compared to most of the world. Would be stupid to lose that by being careless somehow...

Now we're talking! This is better than any savings acct APY I've seen (or at least been eligible for) for a while. Nice.

Travelling alone for escorting work can be super fun and adventurous but can be really lonely. Travelling with another escort can be also fun, but inevitably creates some logistical knots. If I'm travelling with family, a partner, a good friend, I decide in advance whether I'm going to work on any of the days and usually I prefer not to work at all during some of those trips. Also, not all destinations are worth the effort due to being remote or without the proper infrastructure

Only ever even considered it for street pick up situations

Thanks for this! I'm also going to Vegas for my first ever visit and will be working - someone recommended the Flamingo to me so that's where I booked a few nights. Anybody have experience with meeting up there?

Brad and I shot a scene or two and have gotten to know each other a bit since I started living part-time in Buffalo. He's a wonderful, masculine, thick 'n' sexy, professional daddy bear with a hot firm belly that's grown in since his studio days. He certainly does love to chat, which I for one always enjoyed. He has a strong and bright personality, but he's really just there to please and do what's expected of him whether in porn or massage. I know this is long after OP's visit, but figured I'd drop my thoughts in case someone else goes searching.

Thank you both @Decatur Guy and @Archangel

Once I've locked in time and place with a client, I always say "My only request is that we both be showered and brush our teeth ahead of time so we can get right into the action." Sometimes I ask if they prefer I do or don't wear deoderant depending on the conversation we've had. I'd estimate 80% of my clients prefer that I don't wear deoderant and I figure I can always put some on but I can't easily take it off. So if we haven't discussed it, I always have some in my bag and take no offense at all if my client requests or suggests that I put some on. As for trimming, I've had a few clients request that I shave completely which is not on the table. I shoot porn every week and being hairy with a bush is part of what my fans come for. I do my own light trim regularly and I'd need someone to offer a substantial rate increase to consider anything more dramatic.

Just on a break right now while I help my mom through chemo. Thanks for checking in.

As others have said, it takes a lot of prep to get ready for a session of any length so that's built into the higher price for a shorter time. Depends on the city but typically my I ask $300 for the first hour and then $200 for each hour after that. I don't advertise half hours but if someone requests one, I usually price them for $200 outcall and $180 incall.

Ahahaha lol you know what that might be so