What do you do with an Escort over the weekend?

[Nebost]

So after years of admiration, I befriended my most favorite porn star ever, and am in process of setting up a weekend in NYC with him.  . Suggestions on how to spend the time between the sex?   Looking to do just fun stuff that might be more low-key casual, interactive and can get to know him a bit better.  Thanks in advance for any suggestions

Not going to name him because he has a family now and has been away from porn for years. He does more mundane stuff now like changing light bulbs lol.   But he’s mid-thirties now, in fantastic shape and the maturity looks great on him.

 

Edited October 18 by Nebost
Added discreet pics

[+ KensingtonHomo]

It's NYC! What do you want to do? Do you know his interests? 

You could see a show. You could explore cool restaurants. The weather is nice so you could head to Central Park or Union Square park.  

[big-n-tall]

Not trying to out your escort friend, but judging by those pics it looks like an older Marcus Mojo (and more ripped/muscled). If it is him, lucky you. I remember he used to advertise and people on this forum said he was hard to schedule.

As @KensingtonHomo suggested in NYC you can do almost anything in between. Ask him what he likes to do and find out if there is something you'll mutual enjoy and go do it.

Edited October 18 by big-n-tall

[jeezifonly]

I gather that the city is home for neither of you - you're on equal footing as visitors. Ask him for input - he's likely been there before - have you? Attending theatre reduces time for convo, but inspires it after. Do things you would do with any good friend.

Flea markets? Park/museum stuff? Does your agreement allow for him to have some alone/other client time? In NY simply walking down a street can inspire a mutual interest, so you'll surely figure out something fun! 

 

[+ PhileasFogg]

I encourage you to act as though you’re his host giving him opportunity to short list some things that he’d like to do and involve him in the dinner reservation choices. 

Edited October 19 by PhileasFogg

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’ll add that I’m currently ona  week long trip with an RM that many know well (but he prefers to maintain low profile - hence nameless) We are in Iceland.  We planned the trip together over the last six weeks.  We blended our short list, I gave it to an Icelandic Gay Travel Agency and they made nearly all of it happen. 

[Nebost]

Thanks everyone for the input.  I’ll ask my buddy if there’s anything in particular he’d like to do, and make a list of suggestions.  Top of my list would be Hudson yards (Beehive, Observations deck, walking trails)…something active and engaging that would still allow for conversation.  One thing I nixed is Adonis club , I’d  enjoy that more by myself, without worrying that somebody would try to steal away my escort, lol!

Phileas,

Your iceland trip sounds amazing.  Sometimes I wonder how we got to a place where we’re able to do what we truly most want..  Thinking of oneself as a good host is a great framework, thanks for that.

Big n Tall,

Perhaps I need be better at discretion, lol.

Jeez,

Yes , my buddy wanted to get away from his East Coast hometown, he’s a dad with toddlers and seemed to want a break from his regular life.   I’m West Coast so I thought of NYC.  Thanks for the encouragement.

Kensington,

Central Park sounds great, I did that with my last NYC escort trip we had a very nice time.

Edited October 19 by Nebost

[+ PhileasFogg]

There are endless opportunities for conversation in my experience.  It is funny though.  Yesterday, my guest and I went snorkeling between the tectonic plates in 35° temps.  He indulged me in that side trip with apprehension.  He LOVED it!  As an accommodation to him embracing the plan, I made sure we were covering every thermal lagoon we could fit in.  We also did a 6 mile hike to get inside a volcano.  My 60+ yr old a$$ was the oldest in the group and nothing slowed us down.  We talked the whole time and enjoyed interacting with the other hikers.

If you view this arrangement as travel companionship with side benefits, it usually makes the side benefits more gratifying for each of you. 

[Rod Hagen]

If I were single and hiring, I'd want an escort, 5'8" or shorter, bottom who snowboards as well or better than I do so we could spend each day boarding and each morning and late afternoon and evening, and in every empty godola, fucking. That's what we''d do for the weekend.  I'd be like Squirrel Murphy, but with a guy.

 

Edited October 22 by Rod Hagen

[Walt]

In NYC:

-WALK!

• Walk in the beautiful park along the Hudson between Chambers Street and the Battery
• Explore Central Park: It's HUGE. Look at a map before hand and maybe see: The Mall and Bethesda Fountain, The Belvedere, The Conservatory Water, The Zoo, ...and The Rambles* .
• Along the Highline
• Take the aerial tram to Roosevelt Island and walk at least to the Roosevelt Memorial at the tip, if not the entire perimeter.
• Wander through the West Village, staying off the Avenues (which are loud and very commercial) favoring the tree-lined side streets. Sit at outside at a cafe  or restaurant and watch the crowd

 -Take at Tour of the United Nations

-Go to the Metropolitan and see at least the Temple of Dendur, the Chinese courtyard, The American Court, The Medieval Court, The Greek and Roman atrium, . It's also huge: just wander. Stop at the Petrie Court Cafe for a coffee: It's nothing special except you can see Cleopatra's Needle in Central Park through the windows.

-Take the [free!]Staten Island Ferry round trip  just for the lark of being out in the upper harbor. . Be sure to time it so your ferry is on the water EXACTLY at sunset or a few minutes before.

 

Give him several hours on his own mid visit to decompress and have some private time (if he wants)!

 

 

*The Rambles is also a fabled after-dark gay cruising area, which at that hour is not terribly safe at all, or really that good a cruising spot anyway.

[pubic_assistance]

On 10/19/2025 at 8:17 AM, Nebost said:

 I’ll ask my buddy if there’s anything in particular he’d like to do, and make a list of suggestions.  Top of my list would be Hudson yards

NYC offers a wide array of things to do. BUT not everyone is interested in the same things. So absolutely ask about HIS interests first. You are the host to his visit, so your itinerary should be built around his interests especially if they overlap your own.

NYC has dozens of exhibits, museums, parks, landmarks, theatres, and other cultural institutions. There are also tons of fantastic food destinations on the island of Manhattan and out in the boroughs. Every week there are special events posted by TimeOutNY  I completely agree with @Walt go for a WALK in the many interesting neighborhoods and destinations he mentioned.

As far as Hudson Yards....that's nothing more than a luxury shopping mall that continues to collapse in size as the shops fail to bring customers. Not sure I would put that at the TOP of any list.  It's the most NON New York thing to do.

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[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

The Big Apple Circus opened in town last week at Lincoln Center for a limited engagement.
No animals anymore, but still plenty of fun and excitement.
A must-see for any visiting escort:

BTC
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[SecretProvider]

Weekend bookings are true BFE experiences. I agree with what other posters have said - in these situations it's better to collaborate with the provider and give them some input into would make the time enjoyable for them also. This will make them put more effort in to as it makes it an easier job. 

 

For eg. if you want to go for dinner - ask the provider what cuisines they enjoy most. 

you mentioned you are in NYC - if you want to see a broadway show, ask him if there are any shows that he would love to see.

As always - instead of just asking people here: ask the provider straight up. 

[BuffaloKyle]

Just one quick thought is you said he has a family including toddlers so let him know if he needs to check his phone or take a call from them at any time during your weekend it's ok and to just let you know. During a short session it's frowned on but considering the length of time that you'll be with him that it's very likely to come up.