Eyes During Massage

[Bobozn]

Hi All,

I've searched the forum for this but I couldn't find anything or much on it at all or I'm just bad at searching lol

During a massage when you are turned over and your face is aimed at the ceiling, do you keep your eyes open during that portion to admire the masseur? I may just be self conscious or weird but I keep it closed with some peeks here and there. I do want to look at them most of the time but don't want it to be weird as well. What's a good balance to you and what do you do when you're turned up? Thanks!

[+ Jamie21]

From the masseur’s perspective I like the client to have their eyes open. Nothing better than gazing into his eyes. Some decent writer once wrote ‘the eyes are the window to your soul’. He knew. 

[simongayx]

I have found that some masseurs like to cover your eyes with a cloth after turning over.   I always take it off. I love to look into his eyes as the massage gets more erotic.   And the best masseurs return the gaze.  I find that a real turn on.   

[+ poolboy48220]

eyes open, definitely - even when I'm face down so I might see when they've gotten naked.

[+ SirBillybob]

But the one-eyed snake gives everything away anyway.

[polysome]

Eyes open but don't stare. Lingering looks ok but definitely blink - not blinking is creepy.

Once they start going down on you, there's definitely a "performative look" that both the blower and the blowie should do to at least make some eye contact to signal "fuck yeah, it's on". Than lay back, eyes on the ceiling and enjoy.

[Whippoorwill]

My favorite boy has a large mirror strategically positioned next to the massage table so you can admire the goings-on whether on your stomach or on your back. Depending, you can feast your eyes on his beautiful ass as well as chiseled torso, six pack, and raging hard cock. No need to fumble around feeling for his cock and grabbing air. No doubt that a massage in that room will end in debauchery! 

[Nightowl]

When the massage transitions from therapeutic to erotic, it’s eyes open.  I love having our eyes locked as things heat up.

[CuriousByNature]

[Bobozn]

Thanks for all of your thoughts and suggestions! I will probably have to wear contacts next time to get a better view of my masseur haha

[uclablueyes]

18 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

My favorite boy has a large mirror strategically positioned next to the massage table so you can admire the goings-on whether on your stomach or on your back. Depending, you can feast your eyes on his beautiful ass as well as chiseled torso, six pack, and raging hard cock. No need to fumble around feeling for his cock and grabbing air. No doubt that a massage in that room will end in debauchery! 

Nice touch. Can you share his profile? I would love to enjoy the view  

[theplayerking]

On 8/30/2025 at 7:13 AM, simongayx said:

I have found that some masseurs like to cover your eyes with a cloth after turning over.   I always take it off. I love to look into his eyes as the massage gets more erotic.   And the best masseurs return the gaze.  I find that a real turn on.   

Yes, but the opposite is also true. If the provider is looking at the wall, I prefer not to see. 

[simongayx]

22 minutes ago, uclablueyes said:

Nice touch. Can you share his profile? I would love to enjoy the view  

Yes, I wish more masseurs would use "strategically placed" mirrors.   

[You_Can_Turn_Over]

3 hours ago, theplayerking said:

Yes, but the opposite is also true. If the provider is looking at the wall, I prefer not to see. 

That is uncommon but it means that I will not repeat with that provider.

[jeezifonly]

Especially the first time with a masseur, I prefer focusing on breathing, and listening to my body's response to his touch and energy flow. This provides a less clouded assessment on his skills and intuition, without the visual stimulation of his perfect ass fooling me into thinking he's better than he is. I'm an outlier among clients, i imagine. I hire massage for the massage. if I want more, I hire from listings offering more and am willing to pay more. 

 

[ShortCutie7]

I have no experience with masseurs, but I have had guys (both providers and regular hookups) call me out for keeping my eyes open while making out… I don’t think it’s weird to want to admire the hot guy I’m with and create memories, but apparently others do lol

[urbanfetish]

On 8/31/2025 at 9:23 AM, theplayerking said:

Yes, but the opposite is also true. If the provider is looking at the wall, I prefer not to see. 

I had a masseur who kept staring at his own reflexion in the mirror. The self-worshiping was annoying and certainly didn't help set the mood I was looking for. lol Never met him again.