Provider Proselytizing To Clients

[Heart It Deep]

I've had an experience with a repeat provider who started talking extensively to me about the Jesus when I was trying to exit his apartment.  We keep in touch over text (another topic I suppose) and unsolicited he has sent me texts that are clearly Christian Psalms.  I am a member of a different Faith, and I will definitely not be changing that.  This particular provider does provide pleasure I haven't experienced with anyone else... so I'm reticent to express that the sharing of Christian things makes me uncomfortable. 

1.  Has anyone else experienced anything similar?

2. Any advice is appreciated. 

 

Thank You!

[+ purplekow]

Have you considered saying something such as:  Every experience with you makes me feel like I have found god, but after I leave, I happily go back to my usual place of worship.  

If that does not change things, then you just need to make it clear:  Politics and religion are not appropriate discussions considering your arrangement.  

Edited Thursday at 06:54 PM by purplekow

[+ SirBillybob]

As long as his rod and staff comfort you. 🤷🏼

Edited Thursday at 07:03 PM by SirBillybob

[+ ApexNomad]

From missionary position to missionary work in under 30 seconds.

 

[Heart It Deep]

@ApexNomad You're kinda spot on.  I'm laughing so hard, except my dick isn't. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

I once had a regular who was a SJW and hooked it up to his Christianity, and was always blabbing about how his religion should compel everyone to think the way he did.

We got into frequent theological arguments.

[Heart It Deep]

2 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

I once had a regular who was a SJW and hooked it up to his Christianity, and was always blabbing about how his religion should compel everyone to think the way he did.

We got into frequent theological arguments.

Was that a turn on for the regular?

[+ SirBillybob]

I can barely think of a Brazilian acompanhante whose socials' profiles don’t describe ‘'god & family 1st", a biblical passage reference, and whose chained crucifix doesn’t dangle in my face while he has his way with me. They may not lose their religion but I def lose my ass.

Edited Thursday at 10:35 PM by SirBillybob

[+ PhileasFogg]

My view - he has a business. Religion and politics generally don’t mix well with business.  But he is also a business owner and can run his business as he pleases.  And as a consumer, you can also choose to take your business elsewhere.

To me, that’s the true definition of freedom.  

[+ KensingtonHomo]

If you’re serious about your faith, you can say that you know he’s excited about his own faith but your prefer to keep religion out of your relationship. If he can’t respect that boundary, I’d find someone else. 

[pubic_assistance]

8 hours ago, Heart It Deep said:

I am a member of a different Faith, and I will definitely not be changing that.  This particular provider does provide pleasure I haven't experienced with anyone else... so I'm reticent to express that the sharing of Christian things makes me uncomfortable. 

My grandmother used to let people into her parlor from the various wandering faiths who send out missionaries to try and convert people. She would always rattle them by trying to convert THEM to HER own faith. I always found that to be slightly hysterical and to be a completely practical way of shutting someone down who tries to sell you on his own personal Jesus journey. 

[+ Pensant]

I’ve never encountered a proselyte in 20 years of hobbying. Bizarre!

[ShortCutie7]

I work part-time in a church (so am there almost every Sunday) and am not a Christian… nobody has once tried to proselytize me!

[Nightowl]

That would be the end of the “relationship” for me.

[soloyo215]

On 8/14/2025 at 2:38 PM, Heart It Deep said:

I've had an experience with a repeat provider who started talking extensively to me about the Jesus when I was trying to exit his apartment.  We keep in touch over text (another topic I suppose) and unsolicited he has sent me texts that are clearly Christian Psalms.  I am a member of a different Faith, and I will definitely not be changing that.  This particular provider does provide pleasure I haven't experienced with anyone else... so I'm reticent to express that the sharing of Christian things makes me uncomfortable. 

1.  Has anyone else experienced anything similar?

2. Any advice is appreciated. 

 

Thank You!

That's a huge no-no for me. If he's hot enough and good in every other aspect, I might try to politely letting him know to stop that Christian shit. In my experience, however, I know that they don't stop until they feel disrespected. To avoid things getting to that point (since I won't stop either until they get it - part of the problem with people like that is that they always want to have the last word in everything), I prefer to thank him, then just end it and block him.