Is it standard for a provider to cum?

[Ali Gator]

I have found masseurs find it easier to cum than escorts for me. Not sure why. 

I have a semi-regular masseur who always cums at the end of the massage. He's in his mid-30s and is able to cum a couple of times a day (according to him) - as soon as he wakes up and then once more later in the day. I book him earlier in the day for a late afternoon / early evening appointment and he always cums for me.  I asked if he does this with every client and he says never - he considers it more 'escort territory' and he doesn't advertise as that (he also asked me not to let anyone else know if ever I refer him to a friend). This started around our third or fourth appointment (about five years ago), and I was pleasantly surprised. He usually cums all over my chest or face (I prefer face) and then he gets me off and I cum all over my stomach. 

 

[jmichaeliii]

38 minutes ago, Ali Gator said:

I have found masseurs find it easier to cum than escorts for me. Not sure why. 

I have a semi-regular masseur who always cums at the end of the massage. He's in his mid-30s and is able to cum a couple of times a day (according to him) - as soon as he wakes up and then once more later in the day. I book him earlier in the day for a late afternoon / early evening appointment and he always cums for me.  I asked if he does this with every client and he says never - he considers it more 'escort territory' and he doesn't advertise as that (he also asked me not to let anyone else know if ever I refer him to a friend). This started around our third or fourth appointment (about five years ago), and I was pleasantly surprised. He usually cums all over my chest or face (I prefer face) and then he gets me off and I cum all over my stomach. 

 

You have a good vibe with each other.  Enjoy it!  

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.  It makes for a nice bond.

[SirBillybob]

17 hours ago, jmichaeliii said:

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.  It makes for a nice bond.

As we say in my neck of the woods, a nice Registered Retirement Savings Plan contribution. 

[Aaron 90]

I recently tried a new request with my provider and we both enjoyed it. I brought a shot glass and asked him to cum into it. It was nice to see how much of the glass was filled how much I was going to swallow. A nice cum shot in a shot glass 😋

[+ Jamie21]

On 6/15/2025 at 10:55 PM, jmichaeliii said:

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.

Yeah, I tell that to my clients too…

[+ purplekow]

I have had several escorts say that they are doing things with me, or more usually, I am doing things to them which they do not do with others.  Whether that is true or not, it does give a certain feeling of there being a real connection between us.  With at least two of them, I believe it to be true as they ask for the house special when we are together.  So even if the same act is being performed elsewhere, I am the Broadway original cast and ever one else is the community theater version.  I suppose there may be a national tour guy or two as well.  

In addition, there have been times I have asked for a specific act and the escort has let me know that he does not do that.  When it happens that he does actually do it and seems into it, I think that he has certain acts he does only rarely and mostly in the privacy of a non monetary interaction.  

[marylander1940]

On 6/15/2025 at 5:55 PM, jmichaeliii said:

You have a good vibe with each other.  Enjoy it!  

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.  It makes for a nice bond.

How do you know they don't do "those things" with others?

 

[Gilfson]

On 5/22/2025 at 12:29 AM, cumconnoiseur said:

First post. I'm about to start my hiring era. I'm wondering, say for example I have an agreement with a provider for an hour of his time. Is it a foregone conclusion or expectation (in his perspective) that he's cumming for me at the end of that hour? Or do I have to specifically ask for it during negotiation? I've heard of guys who take multiple clients a day so I'm wondering if they're cumming for each client. I have to ask because getting the cum is always the goal for me when having sex, and if I need to make it clear with the provider from the get-go.

I cum everytime haha what’s the point if not

[jmichaeliii]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

How do you know they don't do "those things" with others?

 

I don't,  but it doesn't really matter if its someone you enjoy.