RM Videos with Vaginas

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

[d.anders]

It's a risky choice if you're trying to attract a gay customer with your ad. Gay guys are mostly horny when they shop, and the last thing most want to see in that state is a vagina. I imagine the market of gay guys who might find that hot is very small.

[StableMentalDefective]

2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

Depends on the lady. A nice tidy setup is fine, can be hot even. Anything too hairy, pierced or saggy and I’m out. 

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff.

Sexuality is a spectrum.

For ME that would be a huge turn ON.

Some men fantasize about hooking up with "str8" men ..so watching them enjoy a wet pussy confirms their masculinity.

Some "gay" men are capable of sex with women...just PREFER men..and others are totally repulsed by the thought of sex with a woman. One theory is that those men idolize their mother to a point that they can't view women as sexual objects. Of course there's the standard "born-this-way" theory. But in my years of exploring the sexual fringes of society I have found that men who are actually repulsed by women to be a minority of men who have sex with men.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

My preference is exactly opposite.  A penis that I can hire to fuck me is shown on video fucking a vagina:  sweet.   A vagina on a person advertising for hire: instant turn off.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

But in my years of exploring the sexual fringes of society I have found that men who are actually repulsed by women to be a minority of men who have sex with men.

Hmmm. For me, being desired is a huge turn-on. Since I don't have a pussy, seeing a guy fuck someone with one makes me think he's unlikely to find me desirable. To me, women are gorgeous, generally preferable company to men - especially any man who wants to discuss sports - and I've made out with and humped many AFAB people and women over the years. But going beyond that feels like I'd be faking a desire I don't have. But there's nothing about women I find repulsive. Somewhat similar to your experience, I find that the majority of men - especially straight-identified men - are attracted to femininity regardless of the actual sexual parts. Esteemed trans philosopher Natalie Wynn says, "Men experience femininity as an invitation." 

[soloyo215]

23 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

I find it off-putting too, mostly because of the common premise that hetero/bi is supposed to mean better or more desirable. I don't care for vaginas, and when I tried them was neither by choice nor because I pursed them.

No judgement for those who love it, but don't come to me with the attitude that it places you in a better position (socially speaking).

Edited April 6 by soloyo215

[+ sync]

23 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

[+ PhileasFogg]

On 4/5/2025 at 8:17 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

That's not the case for all of us.   Some of us even like doing the same things ourselves

[+ DrownedBoy]

It's off-putting to me as a gay man, yes, but it's also a hedged business move. Fat grandmas need loving too.

I can respect business savvy.

[+ DrownedBoy]

21 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

One theory is that those men idolize their mother to a point that they can't view women as sexual objects. Of course there's the standard "born-this-way" theory. 

@pubic_assistance , at times, you can be a master of subtle and polite homophobia.

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

@pubic_assistance , at times, you can be a master of subtle and polite homophobia.

It's not "homophobic" to have a different perspective.

[+ ThroatCummer]

On 4/5/2025 at 12:11 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Sexuality is a spectrum.........Some men fantasize about hooking up with "str8" men ..so watching them enjoy a wet pussy confirms their masculinity.......Some "gay" men are capable of sex with women...just PREFER men........

I always had my own personal test here. If someone were walking down the center of a street, and there was the most handsome perfect [insert type here] man on the left and the most beautiful perfect [insert type here] woman on the right, what percentage of looking/eye time be focused on either the left or the right side of the street?  I know my ratio.  

Edited April 13 by ThroatCummer

[pubic_assistance]

14 minutes ago, ThroatCummer said:

what percentage of looking/eye time be focused on either the left or the right side of the street? 

I like this..

When I was younger I would have probably stared down the dude, knowing my chances of an immediate hookup were higher. Now in my 50s I would definitely be checking out the woman as my chances with her are 100x higher.

[Nightowl]

If I were looking for a vagina, I wouldn’t be shopping for a man on a gay site.  If I saw an ad with a guy fucking a vagina I’d probably assume—inaccurately, perhaps—that he wouldn’t necessarily be focused on the body parts that I bring to the arrangement. I’d keep scrolling.

[marylander1940]

On 4/5/2025 at 9:17 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe it's just me, but when I see a provider's ad that includes videos of them fucking a vagina, it's a big turnoff. I have nothing against vaginas, and I find many trans men hot. But I was just looking at an ad and the videos are extreme close-ups of the provider fucking a vagina. It just makes me like blah... 

Maybe they want to prove they're truly bisexual! 

It's a marketing strategy! 

[marylander1940]

On 4/5/2025 at 10:05 AM, d.anders said:

It's a risky choice if you're trying to attract a gay customer with your ad. Gay guys are mostly horny when they shop, and the last thing most want to see in that state is a vagina. I imagine the market of gay guys who might find that hot is very small.

no doubt but many guys would prefer hiring a gay-per-pay provider who only fucks men for money. 

I don't want to drag this into an old subject but I'd rather hiring gay men, feel more comfortable with them, at least I have something they want. 

 

[ArchwayAlex]

I have  never penetrated a vagina.  I am > 50 years old. Am I missing anything? 

[Danny-Darko]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

no doubt but many guys would prefer hiring a gay-per-pay provider who only fucks men for money. 

I don't want to drag this into an old subject but I'd rather hiring gay men, feel more comfortable with them, at least I have something they want. 

 

I do get your point, but when hiring gay men, they have always just wanted what's in my wallet, and it's the only thing they've wanted just like the straight men I've hired. At least the straights don't fake the arousal and "pretend" with fake "Oo's and Ahh's" which I personally find off-putting! The only "shows" I like are to see my men naked and cumming. I've never been bad looking, but since my youth I've liked to hire. I have always gotten my share of bf's and hook-ups, (women still till this day find me particularly attractive, flattering but not my cup of tea). But I hire for a variety of reasons and prefer it that way. I've never even in my youth had a hire that was honestly "into me" and wanted something other than my busine$$. This has just been my perspective and experience in life. I realize other have different ones. 

Edited April 17 by Danny-Darko

[Danny-Darko]

11 minutes ago, ArchwayAlex said:

I have  never penetrated a vagina.  I am > 50 years old. Am I missing anything? 

If you've never been inclined to, then no! I tried it a few times in my youth and realized there was a reason I preferred men and tried it no more! LOL We all like what we like, and I don't miss not trying things that I'm just not attracted to. 

[marylander1940]

26 minutes ago, ArchwayAlex said:

I have  never penetrated a vagina.  I am > 50 years old. Am I missing anything? 

nope

[+ ApexNomad]

18 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

I do get your point, but when hiring gay men, they have always just wanted what's in my wallet, and it's the only thing they've wanted just like the straight men I've hired. At least the straights don't fake the arousal and "pretend" with fake "Oo's and Ahh's" which I personally find off-putting! The only "shows" I like are to see my men naked and cumming. I've never been bad looking, but since my youth I've liked to hire. I have always gotten my share of bf's and hook-ups, (women still till this day find me particularly attractive, flattering but not my cup of tea). But I hire for a variety of reasons and prefer it that way. I've never even in my youth had a hire that was honestly "into me" and wanted something other than my busine$$. This has just been my perspective and experience in life. I realize other have different one. 

I completely understand your perspective, and thank you for sharing.

For me, especially when it comes to regulars, I’ve found that it takes a certain level of compartmentalizing. Otherwise, I can absolutely see how it becomes easy to get enamored or emotionally invested in the provider. There’s something about the intimacy—even if it’s transactional—that can blur the lines. The body might understand its business, but the heart doesn’t always get the memo. We’re human! 

And without veering too far off topic, I can also understand the appeal of hiring straight providers. There’s sometimes an emotional detachment there that, paradoxically, makes the experience feel safer for some. Less performance, less pretense. Maybe even a sense of mystery or unattainability that makes the dynamic feel more grounded in reality, oddly enough.

Everyone comes to this space with different needs, histories, and expectations. And at the end of the day, I think it’s okay to want what you want—so long as it’s respectful, honest, and clear-eyed.
 

Edited April 17 by ApexNomad

[jeezifonly]

The videos posted within the advertisement, in order to better display equipment and technique, may depict applications different from those involved related to my intended outcome, and, as it is merely one illustration of goods and services, I don’t let it exclude the possibility of hiring.

(Most gay men are not Gold-Star Gays. We have seen vaginas and survived. We have done things to them and in them and survived…)

[d.anders]

10 hours ago, ArchwayAlex said:

I have  never penetrated a vagina.  I am > 50 years old. Am I missing anything?

I had my share of three-ways in my youth, 2 guys and 1 girl. I was always more into the guys, but some of the girls were very pretty model types, with slender bodies and perfect skin. Penetrating a vagina can be a spectacular feeling, especially if guy #2 likes sucking your dick as you pull in and out. I always found that action very hot. Women-sex smells very different from men-sex, and since scent is important to me, sex with women by itself doesn't work. A man's butt hole is usually much tighter and dryer than a vagina, but experienced bottoms know what to do. Oftentimes, the tightness can be more stimulating, and some bottoms know how to work their butt muscles in just the right way.

[BrooklynIrish]

5 hours ago, d.anders said:

Oftentimes, the tightness can be more stimulating, and some bottoms know how to work their butt muscles in just the right way.

Some of us have trained our whole lives for just that level of muscle control. 😂