I'm a Paralegal, Turns Out a Lawyer at My Firm Escorts, What to do?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

4 hours ago, BBB89 said:

Hi! I am a young paralegal who works at a big firm. A week or so ago, I was looking for someone. Well, it turns out there is a lawyer at my firm who hooks on the side. Not gonna lie, he's attractive AF and want to hire him, but understand it's completely inappropriate. Maybe pay for videos and sexy pics? lol 

What should I do? Thanks! 

I don't really understand what other option you have here:  You should forget you saw anything and block his working profile. 

Don't ever bring it up if you see him at the firm.

It's not your call to ruin someone's career.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

3 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I don't really understand what other option you have here:  You should forget you saw anything and block his working profile. 

Don't ever bring it up if you see him at the firm.

It's not your call to ruin someone's career.

Unsurprisingly I agree with @BenjaminNicholas. I also believe that literally nothing good can come of this for you. I'm sympathetic to the desire to cross a taboo. We've all found people at work hot, even arrogant jackasses. That said, I worked at a few gay orgs in my time and saw lots of fraternization - though I was with my husband at the time so never participated. Trust me when I tell you it never worked out well for the people involved. And this is before MeToo and the much greater sensitivity organizations have for this now. 

A founding partner of a firm here in NYC was just forced out for just being a bitch to everyone. So block his profile and forget you ever saw it or him. 

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

This is a workplace situation.  As others have stated, most companies have HR policies addressing interpersonal relationships among employees which usually requires notifying supervisors and HR prior to beginning dating and obtaining consent that such a relationship would not create a conflict of interest.  

Whether hooking up because you met at bar or you reached out to a profile on an app, once you realized you both work at the same company, he's off limits unless you clear it according to your policy first.  

[+ muscleboyinsd]

If you have ever thought about finding a new firm -- to get a salary bump, or because something annoys you at work -- look for a new firm and get hired there.  THEN you can hire this super hot lawyer escort 😈

 

[Colton]

Does the lawyer show his face in his ad?  How obvious is it him?  Is this a BigLaw firm?  
 

The “Ex-Judge” referred to above was a solo lawyer and not really a judge. 

[wanderlust307]

Do nothing. You saw nothing. Don't stick your nose to other people's business.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

The trolling vibe on this one is strong.

[DunwoodyGuy]

2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

The trolling vibe on this one is strong.

Yeah. It kinda smells of the ol' "I have this friend who has this problem..."

[maninsoma]

3 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

The trolling vibe on this one is strong.

I agree.  Typically when I reply to a post that I think is disingenuous, I begin with something along the lines of, "Assuming you are serious..."

What makes the OP highly questionable is that the poster wants to hire the lawyer at the firm, even though he apparently finds his personality off-putting while, at the same time, admitting that he really only "knows of" the guy but doesn't really know him.

[Constantine]

Why would a lawyer need to make extra money as an escort? Even if he's not in biglaw he's not exactly living in poverty.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

9 minutes ago, Quincy_7 said:

Why would a lawyer need to make extra money as an escort? Even if he's not in biglaw he's not exactly living in poverty.

Maybe he actually enjoys it! 

I'm an engineer making good money, but I private tutor kids in math for $10/hr (not for the money, but for the love of helping people).  I think it's great that he's sharing his body with the rest of us, rather than just his mind in court.

[Constantine]

13 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Maybe he actually enjoys it! 

I'm an engineer making good money, but I private tutor kids in math for $10/hr (not for the money, but for the love of helping people).  I think it's great that he's sharing his body with the rest of us, rather than just his mind in court.

You clearly don't know any lawyers in private practice. The idea that an associate would have enough spare time to escort is hilarious. 

[+ mature_guy]

30 minutes ago, Quincy_7 said:

Why would a lawyer need to make extra money as an escort? Even if he's not in biglaw he's not exactly living in poverty.

Assuming the post is serious, maybe he enjoys being an escort? Or he's paying off some big student loans?  Escorting is how I paid for law school and having met some great guys, I kept seeing several of them even after I no longer needed the income.

[Constantine]

23 minutes ago, mature_guy said:

Assuming the post is serious, maybe he enjoys being an escort? Or he's paying off some big student loans?  Escorting is how I paid for law school and having met some great guys, I kept seeing several of them even after I no longer needed the income.

When did you go to law school? These days there's no way any escort money is making a dent in a 200K tuition bill.

[KrisParr]

On 6/30/2024 at 5:34 PM, Lucky said:

@KrisParr is one of my favorite posters, but I don't know if he is an escort and a lawyer.

My brother is a lawyer. The closest thing I got to law was a few years as a Probation Officer while going to grad school. As far as escorting goes, let’s not relive that nightmare, please. 

[+ glutes]

 

I'm whet!

Sweet James might be a 'provider'!

Edited July 2, 2024 by glutes

[Trick]

7 hours ago, Quincy_7 said:

Why would a lawyer need to make extra money as an escort? Even if he's not in biglaw he's not exactly living in poverty.

I know a popular escort who is also a lawyer, so these two professions are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

[+ JamesB]

40 minutes ago, Trick said:

I know a popular escort who is also a lawyer, so these two professions are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

 

https://rent.men/IanGael

[+ sniper]

"Don't shit where you eat" is generally good advice. Take it.

[+ azdr0710]

let's see.....

getting cum stains out of the sofa.....

I need your help in finding the perfect pair of underwear.......

my DL boss needs an ultra-discreet provider who doesn't advertise on Rentmen......

I wonder if this thread will join that legendary list of COM/Daddy's topics......hmm, maybe not......

[nate_sf]

1 hour ago, JamesB said:

 

https://rent.men/IanGael

Mmmmmm…. I’d sure like to check out his briefs! 

[jeezifonly]

[+ sync]

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 7/1/2024 at 2:12 PM, Quincy_7 said:

You clearly don't know any lawyers in private practice. The idea that an associate would have enough spare time to escort is hilarious. 

Actually, I do.  My assistant boy scout leader is a lawyer in private practice.  He gives up his time to help others, as do I.  If lawyers have time to help for charity, they also have time to have paid recreational sex.

Edited July 3, 2024 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ friendofsheila]

On 6/30/2024 at 1:29 PM, ShortCutie7 said:

I think paying for videos/pics is a decent balance for having you fulfill your fantasy without getting anyone in trouble as long as he has no way of finding out who you are.

I agree, and He might be more interesting in the videos that he is in person.