sam.fitzpatrick

Several years ago (possibly seven or eight), he was splitting time between Columbus and Kentucky. I saw him then and I had a good, therapeutic massage. And then lost track of him. I would see him again for a massage.

Excellent news - I'm hanging around until Wednesday.

Of course!

Chicago in 2013. Paige Davis (of Trading Spaces) was subbing in as Roxie and I enjoyed her performance. And Christine Pedi was the Matron. I had seen multiple touring musicals, but this was my first show on Broadway. That week I also saw Nice Work If You Can Get It, Jekyll & Hyde, and Pippin.

Happy Birthday, Nate. Wishing you the best of everything!

Yes, these three resorts all have the same ownership. Santiago was the first location. I don't know if it is the oldest, as the other two were renovations of other places they acquired and converted. I've visited Santiago and Descanso, but not stayed at either. Both are nice and friends have given both of them nice reviews.

I will sign up to be your lap counter (and watch you do flip turns) when you are ready to return to that training!😉

I have only been asked for a deposit and a photo once. The photo request is because I had told the provider that I we had met at a Palm Springs "event" and he indicated that he didn't remember me, but maybe a photo would trigger his memory. In that light, I agreed to provide the photo and sure enough, he was able to recall some of our conversation. As to the deposit, I also paid it and wouldn't you know, it was the only time I've ever had to cancel on a provider, and with less than 24 hours notice at that.

If I was the provider that received such a letter I would think that I had a stalker problem and need to be concerned about my safety. I likely would contact either police or my attorney and request a restraining order. Also, what happens with this guy when he doesn't respond to your letter? Not knowing the provider, I suspect he is under 40 years old. If he is like my nephews, the letter will never be opened. If the letter doesn't have a return address from a known individual or company, it isn't opened.

Perhaps a more prominent placement, such as in Daddy's Den, would garner more usage by providers and more responses from clients that would actually see new posts in that section. Its current location may not draw sufficient attention to its existence.

Without you there, how will I know it is time to have breakfast?

When I am home, I may wake and get right out of bed or I may stay in bed listening to the local sports radio station while checking social media and reviewing prior nightmare sports scores. In either case, once my feet hit the floor: 1 - piss, brush teeth, mouthwash, blow nose, and Qtip clean ears 2 - open dining room blinds as signal to neighbors that I am still alive 3 - take daily multi-vitamin and Truvada with a full 8 ounces of water And there any semblance of routine ends.

When they originally opened, Matt had intended to be able to do full nudity; however, he could not get a license approved for that and alcohol service.

While I've frequently hosted in my home, I've only hosted five or six first-time providers. I think it is no different than hosting someone in my hotel room when traveling and follow the same security standards as I would then. Always use the peep hole or side window to make sure they match a photo before opening the door, make sure they are alone, and don't have valuables sitting out where they can be seen. In addition, I don't drink any alcohol with this new person to help me remain alert to the situation. As to other things, I make sure my place is tidy, including the front porch. (Since I go through the garage 99% of the time for my personal use, I've had guests arrive to find cobwebs across the front door, and they were not Halloween decorations.) I also assume that he will want to use the bathroom before we meet to quickly freshen up. Also I don't know that it is needed, but I always assume that the escort may want a shower afterwards and have fresh towels in the bathroom for him. I also have bottled water on hand to offer after the session.

I've found that since retiring, this is a more frequent occurrence, usually once or twice a week. I suspect that since I'm not thinking about work in my sleep, my thoughts can move to more enjoyable places.

For me, it makes a difference if the escort is staying overnight. In those cases, I prefer a king. Although I sleep better without body contact, there's just something special about knowing that it is possible. And it makes things easier to helping your guest take care of his morning wood. ☺️

Today on Facebook, Matt Colunga (owner of Johnson's in Wilton Manors and Tampa) teased that a Miami location with full nude will be coming this fall.

I didn’t take the comment that way at all. It wasn’t a matter of comp but of respecting an escort’s limits and trying to stretch those.

I have twice bumped into providers in social settings. In one case, I simply said "hi" as I walked by and he responded "hi" back. A few minutes later, he came over to my table and we caught up for a couple of minutes. He hadn't recognized me as I had shaved off my beard that we had when I had seen him three months before. In the other case, I was in the wait area for my barber with my nose in my phone. As the barber was checking out his previous client he called my name and I looked up. Standing next to him was my masseur from the previous evening paying and scheduling his next appointment. The massuer made eye contact with me and said "hi." It appeared he was with a friend, so I simply responded with a "hi" and he left. Fairly innocent that it allowed each of us to acknowledge recognition, but casual like saying "hi" to a stranger as we pass on a walk through the park.

I just watched Kelce, a documentary out today on Amazon Prime. With Jason Kelce at the center, it was an enjoyable view about an offensive lineman's season. The addition of his family as part of the story, especially the Super Bowl match up against his brother's Chiefs was nice. Not much on football strategy or play calling, but a nice peak into the personal life of a football player.

Isn't that Grindr?

Thanks for starting a conversation about this event @V_Marco. I will channel our dear departed friend Epigonos. He was fond of stating that if you have an inkling that you would enjoy going, just make the plans and attend. You never know when it will be the last year you can attend, and there are no guarantees that this private event will continue each year. For those readers who are not familiar with the event, it is an event planned by one of our members who kindly invites members of this Forum to attend. Although attendees usually have this website in common and Company of Men generously permits the event to be publicized here, it is not an event organized or sponsored by this site. So as soon as a date is announced, make your plans.

With your thoughts of the judicial system, I hope you are never the victim or a relative of one that is needs an independent jury to evaluate the evidence. You hadn't previously asked for the evidence of why I believed the victim did not change her mind. Here it is: (1) there were several witnesses that testified that she had declined his advances earlier in the evening, (2) both the victim and accused confirmed that the victim was asleep when the incident started, (3) the accused indicated that while they were long-time friends, she had said no when he had previously asked her out on dates nor had she expressed a desire for a sexual relationship with him, and (4) the accused admitted that he had never asked her to be physical with her, nor had the victim asked him to be physical with her. I agree with you that every juror is responsible the verdict that was reached. I used the full jury to demonstrate that when this jury was unanimous, it removed any doubt from my mind that the jury reached the correct verdicts. Lastly, I didn't mention the verdict on the rape charge. You wrongly assumed that we found the defendant guilty of rape. While the jurors believed that the contact between the victim and accused was non-consensual, we found the accused "not guilty" of the rape charge. Our state law requires penile penetration in the vagina for it to be rape. I didn't believe that there was any evidence of penetration as the rape kit only reflected the boyfriend's (not the accused) although the accused DNA did appear on the victim's bra and panties. Again, I rest comfortable that the verdicts we reached on each count were correct according to the law, despite the law, in my opinion, being flawed in this case.

Have you never served on a jury? I would think that you would know that a jury reaches a unanimous decision to reach a verdict and that I was not a sole decider. As you stated, you do not know the facts of the case, nor do you know the composition of the jury or the length of our deliberations. I have no problems sleeping for the verdict results. As to my use of the words "placing her hands" on him. If you review the video again, you will see that the emotional hugs were between many of the players and those in the receiving line. In this case, the kiss occurred after the hug and she placed her hands at his waist as the kiss occurred. It was the latter action that I was recalling when typing those words. We both have strong opinions, but in this case, I will defend my ability to assess reality objectively and open-mindedly.

@augustus, @BSR, and @BOZO T CLOWN I've watched the video of the kiss. Even if innocent, it was not appropriate. In the workplace, one employee doesn't spontaneously kiss another colleague on the lips to celebrate closing the biggest deal in the company's history. This is no different - and it doesn't matter the gender of the two parties. I had responsibility to sit on a jury in a rape trial where the victim didn't react when the act happened because she couldn't process at the time what was happening. This happened so quickly, that the lack of reaction and even her placing her hands on him should no way be taken as an acceptance of the kiss. And this was in front of a live audience both in the stadium and on television. I'm sure this wasn't a scenario given to the team members that could happen with instructions on the proper protocol to stop it from happening. Should she have slapped his face or kneed him in the groin? The team member that was kissed has stated that she did not enjoy it and was embarrassed by it.