edinbrooklyn Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 I have a girlfriend who swears it never happens. But there are a lot of anecdotes to the contrary. I’d love to get the group’s input. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 Get new friends. thomas, Danny-Darko and + Vegas_Millennial 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 Of course it happens - i know for a fact. Danny-Darko, + Vegas_Millennial and liubit 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShortCutie7 Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 My grandparents were having sex in their 80s after over 60 years of marriage! + Just Sayin, + augustus, thomas and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 What is this "sex" of which you speak? + nycman, Danny-Darko, liubit and 6 others 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 I remember hearing my parents having sex while I was visiting for a holiday. I was 30...so...the flame was still burning. My wife and I have been living together for 18 years. The frequency of our sex life is much lower but not non-existent. I think the fact that we both hook up with other people prevents it from feeling monotonous. Danny-Darko, + Charlie, liubit and 4 others 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted May 1 Share Posted May 1 5 hours ago, edinbrooklyn said: I have a girlfriend who swears it never happens. But there are a lot of anecdotes to the contrary. I’d love to get the group’s input. According to Mrs. White from Clue... + augustus, + Charlie, thomas and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edinbrooklyn Posted May 2 Author Share Posted May 2 26 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: According to Mrs. White from Clue... Funny. Very. But I’m not married. I would love to have a frank, honest exchange on this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liubit Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) 6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: My wife and I have been living together for 18 years. The frequency of our sex life is much lower but not non-existent. I think the fact that we both hook up with other people prevents it from feeling monotonous. That is exactly the case with my husband (living together for 20+ years, married for 3): infrequent sex together, but many sexcapades. We don’t do 3-ways, we play separately, and most certainly “kiss and tell”. We have even hired simultaneously in contiguous rooms. Edited May 2 by liubit Danny-Darko, pubic_assistance and + Vegas_Millennial 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muscleking Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 My wife and I have been married 25 years, we used to have a lot of fun specifically with other couples when we were younger but after our daughter we haven’t done any of that.. sex life is still there but not as much so I get off often with masseur or escorts. We have recently considered hiring someone together tho. + Just Sayin, thomas, + Vegas_Millennial and 3 others 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 I remain convinced that humans aren't designed to be monogamous. liubit, zaddydaddy2022, + nycman and 6 others 3 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edinbrooklyn Posted May 2 Author Share Posted May 2 5 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said: I remain convinced that humans aren't designed to be monogamous. I think you are correct. pubic_assistance and + BenjaminNicholas 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShortCutie7 Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: I remain convinced that humans aren't designed to be monogamous. The vast majority of humans… 1000% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) 6 hours ago, Muscleking said: My wife and I have been married 25 years, we used to have a lot of fun specifically with other couples when we were younger but after our daughter we haven’t done any of that.. sex life is still there but not as much so I get off often with masseur or escorts. Same here. My wife ( former college friend ) and I were pretty wild in our college days and in through our early 20s. Once we married and had kids, we felt the need to act like responsible adults. So... somehow watching your wife get spit-roasted by two other men in a sex dungeon just doesn't seem to fit the "mommy&me" image we feel compelled to provide for our children. 🤣 Edited May 2 by pubic_assistance spelling Danny-Darko, Muscleking, thomas and 2 others 2 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edinbrooklyn Posted May 2 Author Share Posted May 2 4 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Same here. My wife ( former college friend ) and I were pretty wild in our college days and in through our early 20s. Once we married an had kids, we felt the need to act like responsible adults. So... somehow watching your wife get spit-roasted by two other men in a sex dungeon just doesn't seem to fit the "mommy&me" image we feel compelled to provide for our children. 🤣 Where is this dungeon of which you speak! Danny-Darko 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 7 minutes ago, edinbrooklyn said: Where is this dungeon of which you speak! There are sex dungeons all over New York City. Danny-Darko and cany10011 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny-Darko Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 38 minutes ago, edinbrooklyn said: Where is this dungeon of which you speak! You've must have at least heard of Swingers Clubs and Swinger's Parties ie. "The Life-Style" community?! They cater to heterosexual couples! pubic_assistance and + Charlie 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 1 minute ago, Danny-Darko said: You've must have at least heard of Swingers Clubs and Swinger's Parties ie. "The Life-Style" community?! They cater to heterosexual couples! Le Trapeze used to attract a lot of heterosexual couples who ( like my wife and me ) weren't entirely hetero. Had some fun times there. ( Many moons ago ) + Charlie, thomas and Danny-Darko 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sniper Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 I think the reality is that a fair fraction of women post having children really do simply lose interest in sex, whether due to stress levels or something hormonal. A masseur friend tells me no small part of his business is men who love their wives but have settled on letting a masseur get them off without reciprocation as their sexual outlet. + Charlie, pubic_assistance and Danny-Darko 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 4 Share Posted May 4 7 hours ago, sniper said: no small part of his business is men who love their wives but have settled on letting a masseur get them off without reciprocation as their sexual outlet. Bingo. This is why all this talk of kissing 💋 providers is always lost on me. I just wanna get off. It's very possible to be happily married but unsatisfied with the frequency of your sex life at home. Danny-Darko, + augustus and + Vegas_Millennial 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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