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1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm mostly a bottom so I do expect to be rimmed as warming up to fucking. I haven't had too many guys turn me down. 

I also think if you approach a provider with the info that you are a bottom and you're into it, most would think rimming is on the table. And, yes, bidets are nice but I am completely prepped (douched, freshly showered) before I meet up. 

I think it should be a constitutional right!

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151 out of 271 escorts in San Francisco included rimming in their preferences on Rent.men.

193 out of 300+ in West Hollywood included rimming in their ads.

70 out of 102 in Seattle.

And so on. 

Now, I know that just because someone includes an activity under Preferences doesn't mean he will do that activity with every client, but barring the ones that just click everything I think these numbers at least give an indication that a large number of providers are open to rimming, being rimmed, or both.

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3 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm mostly a bottom so I do expect to be rimmed as warming up to fucking. I haven't had too many guys turn me down. 

I also think if you approach a provider with the info that you are a bottom and you're into it, most would think rimming is on the table. And, yes, bidets are nice but I am completely prepped (douched, freshly showered) before I meet up. 

Sorry but that's waaaay too personal to be "on the table" or a MUST do. 

I'm glad you get rimmed most of the time. 

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2 hours ago, maninsoma said:

151 out of 271 escorts in San Francisco included rimming in their preferences on Rent.men.

193 out of 300+ in West Hollywood included rimming in their ads.

70 out of 102 in Seattle.

And so on. 

Now, I know that just because someone includes an activity under Preferences doesn't mean he will do that activity with every client, but barring the ones that just click everything I think these numbers at least give an indication that a large number of providers are open to rimming, being rimmed, or both.

Exactly not all clients are desirable enough or in condition to be rimmed. Besides most of them click "rimming" because there's no "getting rimmed" choice.

 

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I nominate Maus to compete in the rimming Olympics!  Got to enjoy his tongue and whole body twice a few weeks ago.

https://rentmen.eu/ShermanMaus

But by far, the best rim jobs I ever had were last summer in Vienna and Zurich.  I found it queer that almost every man I met in Europe insisted on using condoms but were willing to go to town on my ass with their tongue. 👅 🍑

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Regarding bidets: my "old toilet" finally gave up the ghost last year. So - I did a little homework and got myself a Toto toilet/bidet combo. It has changed my life, from the heated seat to the leaving me feeling "fresh as a Spring morning" down there. Once you've tried it, you will never want to use toilet paper again. Check out the great deals on BidetKing dot com. Seriously: it has been worth every penny. 

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22 hours ago, PileDriver said:

who puts out and goes down? elusive topic with many providers...

I think that this practice is included as an option in the providers' profiles in providers' websites. That can give you an idea of who's up (or down) for it. In my observation, like every other practice, there are some who love it, some who don't and some who specialize in it. I know of a masseur who seems to be quite dedicated to that practice (most definietly not a critique or complaint)

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50 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

You're welcome to your opinion but if you're having sex with someone, how is any part of that "too personal?" 

we're talking about ass eating.... it doesn't get more personal than that. 

I know escort who might do it 2 or 3 time per year if the client is surprisingly good looking (in shape and young) and also prepared for that. Not only showering but soap and not just one time.

Picture yourself when you were young engaging in such act with someone you're not attracted to. 

Now everybody will talk about their amazing experiences getting rimmed by everyone they ever met. There's so much bragging in this forum....

 

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47 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

we're talking about ass eating.... it doesn't get more personal than that. 

I know escort who might do it 2 or 3 time per year if the client is surprisingly good looking (in shape and young) and also prepared for that. Not only showering but soap and not just one time.

Picture yourself when you were young engaging in such act with someone you're not attracted to. 

Now everybody will talk about their amazing experiences getting rimmed by everyone they ever met. There's so much bragging in this forum....

 

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

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20 minutes ago, maninsoma said:

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

First of all, I know that coming from you is not a personal attack! 

Repulsive? Disgusted? Those are strong words and I'm sorry you perceive it that way. 

In my honest opinion escorts find seriously unappealing 1/4 of their clients, unfortunately those gentlemen won't even truthfully describe themselves before the appointment and just show up. 

Obviously not everybody has the state of mind to become an escort. 

I am simply saying in shape good looking clients might happen 2 or 3 times per year, I don't think that's a way to insult "the vast majority or people who post on here".

"Rim me or I won't hire you" to me sounds like slavery, a high paying slavery no doubt but slavery. 

I'm glad to know some providers don't mind doing it.

 

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1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

Rim me or I won't hire you" to me sounds like slavery, a high paying slavery no doubt but slavery. 

Why is it any different than asking about any other activity? Top, bottom, kissing, oral, etc., clients are free to decide not to hire someone based on a provider not being interested in the client’s preferences. 

Slavery? 

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26 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

Why is it any different than asking about any other activity? Top, bottom, kissing, oral, etc., clients are free to decide not to hire someone based on a provider not being interested in the client’s preferences. 

Slavery? 

Do you rim the twinks you hire? I certainly would, they're young, smooth and in great shape. Now picture yourself when you were young rimming older possibly out of shape men? Think about that. 

Again, if some providers do it for $, good for them and good for the clients too. 

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5 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Now picture yourself when you were young rimming older possibly out of shape men?

Hot 🔥.  I love me some Daddies!  My first serious boyfriend was approximately 50 when I was in my 20s.  But, he was not an escort; and I believe the original post was asking for recommendations of escorts who are great at eating ass.

I stand by my earlier recommendation of @IronMaus.  He's the first guy to ever eat me out in the pool, under water! 🌊 What a sensation!

But @Simon Suraci's enthusiastic response to this subject has just put him at the top of my list to hire as well 😉

 

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3 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

In my honest opinion escorts find seriously unappealing 1/4 of their clients, unfortunately those gentlemen won't even truthfully describe themselves before the appointment and just show up. 

Obviously not everybody has the state of mind to become an escort. 

I am simply saying in shape good looking clients might happen 2 or 3 times per year, I don't think that's a way to insult "the vast majority or people who post on here".

"Rim me or I won't hire you" to me sounds like slavery, a high paying slavery no doubt but slavery. 

I'm glad to know some providers don't mind doing it.

 

There's a lot of projection in posts like these. Speaking for myself, I am conventionally attractive, look ten years younger than my (middle) age, and am a lot of fun in and out of bed. But you - and a few others on here - seem to think most of us are hideous and obese.

A significant number of us hire, not because we can't find sex but because it's much more convenient. We're paying, so we don't have to spend hours on apps to schedule a hook-up. And "good looking" is incredibly subjective. I'd say 80 percent of the providers who get posted here by members looking for information, hold zero appeal for me. But most guys are salivating over them. 

Lastly, the "slavery" comment is just horrible. Not only do we have a history of chattel slavery in this country, but there are people all over the world, including the US, who are being trafficked to have sex against their will. And, they do not get paid. In fact, by definition slaves don't get paid. 

And that rimming is what set you off, feels very personal. It's a practice you find distasteful or abhorrent, so you cannot imagine someone enjoying it. So it's worse to you then "fuck me or I won't hire you", "let me fuck you or I won't hire you", "blow me or I won't hire you." Really, they're all the same. 

Lastly, no one should ever coerce a provider into doing something they are uncomfortable with. But if I hire someone who says they provide a particular service - and let's stipulate that everyone involved is pristinely hygienic - and they will not perform, I would let it go. But I also would not hire them again. 

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1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

Do you rim the twinks you hire? I certainly would, they're young, smooth and in great shape. Now picture yourself when you were young rimming older possibly out of shape men? Think about that. 

Again, if some providers do it for $, good for them and good for the clients too. 

This is hilarious. Twinks as the sine qua non of gay desirability is a fad! I was a twink in the 90s and we were not appreciated. 80-90 percent of guys wanted muscular "Chelsea" boys. Pre-AIDS, the clone with the mustache and hairy chest was the hottest of all. 

If 1940 in your profile indicates your age, you lived through this and should know that Twinks have been considered hot for about a decade. And in the next 5-10 years, it will be something else. 

Like @Vegas_Millennial I generally dated older men and my husband is older than me, though we're the same generation. I would not rim or otherwise have sex with someone who was under 30 and smooth. That didn't appeal to me when I was in my 20s and it doesn't now. And I'm not into huge muscles either. 

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