+ The Big Guy Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 I have never asked for a discount from a regular provider. I have had the provider offer a lower rate if I would hire more often but a discount will not likely change how often I hire. So for me anyway, the provider is better off not offering the discount. Simon Suraci and ICTJOCK 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 The whole discount thing would be easy to nip in the bud if providers took the time to do a check out especially after the first session, which they rarely do. It entails spending a few minutes at the end of the session asking the client what they liked and didn’t like about the session, what could be improved upon next time and what they might like to see at the next encounter. At this point it is the ideal time for the escort to suggest a longer session for X dollars and outline what you would do for the extra money. The sad truth is that most guys are so eager to bolt out the door that they pass up a key opportunity to foster repeat business and loyalty and they set themselves up for the future discounting discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 (edited) 14 minutes ago, dbar123 said: The whole discount thing would be easy to nip in the bud if providers took the time to do a check out especially after the first session, which they rarely do. It entails spending a few minutes at the end of the session asking the client what they liked and didn’t like about the session, what could be improved upon next time and what they might like to see at the next encounter. At this point it is the ideal time for the escort to suggest a longer session for X dollars and outline what you would do for the extra money. The sad truth is that most guys are so eager to bolt out the door that they pass up a key opportunity to foster repeat business and loyalty and they set themselves up for the future discounting discussion. This might work for a subset of escorts who want to work shorter, hourly frames of time, but if you want to earn career money, I don't know if this is an ideal way to go. You never put your client on the spot with a focus group: It ruins what should have been a fun time spent by bringing it back to business. You can more easily email these kinds of questions later, if necessary. Guys- at least the men I see- aren't hiring me to be reminded that they're paying for my service. They want to relax, vacation, enjoy, cut loose and simply have a friend with them who makes it all flow and feel easy. Edited September 25, 2023 by BenjaminNicholas dcguy20, Luv2play, + keroscenefire and 10 others 7 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 7 minutes ago, dbar123 said: The sad truth is that most guys are so eager to bolt out the door that they pass up a key opportunity to foster repeat business and loyalty and they set themselves up for the future discounting discussion. Possibly low level guys, but a great provider is oftentimes generous with his time ( if it permits ) , no clock watching. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 The bottom line is that this whole subject is a personal and private matter and if and when anyone on either side chooses to be extra generous for a lack of better words, it shouldn't come at a request and certainly doesn't need to be telegraphed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 (edited) On 9/24/2023 at 9:05 AM, ICTJOCK said: Do any other escorts here give regulars a discount? Even if some do give discounts...that doesn't mean YOU should. Never cheapen your value by accepting less than you are worth. If you wish to treat a regular...give him added attention not discounted service. Edited September 25, 2023 by pubic_assistance + keroscenefire, Simon Suraci, Your Man in Arlington and 3 others 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ daytongay Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 I used to see a local guy regularly. In fact one year I saw him on my birthday. Didn't tell him but he saw something and asked about it. He wouldn't take any money that time and said it was his treat. I thought he was very sweet and probably tipped him enough in subsequent meetings to more than make up for one freebie. + nycman, + bashful, Yukon21 and 4 others 3 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jawjateck Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 What is this discount stuff? I'm more likely to be hit with a price increase between the first and second encounter. 🤣 Luv2play, + nycman, MikeBiDude and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 38 minutes ago, jawjateck said: What is this discount stuff? I'm more likely to be hit with a price increase between the first and second encounter. 🤣 Wow. You’re THAT bad in bed? grin Luv2play, NJF and ICTJOCK 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChasingGirth Posted September 26, 2023 Share Posted September 26, 2023 Do not give a discount. Stay longer. Tell him you can’t do better than your actual rate, that you appreciate him and that you can stay a bit longer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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+ DrownedBoy Posted September 27, 2023 Share Posted September 27, 2023 It's been said many times. A good regular will grandfather in your rate. A bad one won't (personal experience). That being said, a client in this situation should be generous in other matters, like tips or more regular patronage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BobPS Posted September 27, 2023 Share Posted September 27, 2023 2 hours ago, Vin_Marco said: “Quality is remembered long after the price is forgotten” –Aldo Gucci. Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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DamizzonNYC Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 On 9/24/2023 at 9:05 AM, ICTJOCK said: So I have a particular regular client who occasionally "hints" about the desire to get a discount since he is a regular. I don't dismiss the idea, but am a little reluctant. Do any other escorts here give regulars a discount? If I give one a discount, I'd feel the need the "give all" to be fair. What qualifies as a "regular"? In the end it might diminish my work since I'm giving discounts. I do have a lot of regulars, but if someone books me once a week do they get a discount while the regular who books once a month doesn't? What about the "irregular regular" lol. I think it is a "slippery slope"? Thoughts? Maybe throw the regular a bone occasionally.... or "boner". ha I've had both experience with regulars. One is a weekly client, and it ultimately ended up being to my benefit to negotiate a lower rate for him. Simply because of the reliability of knowing where I'd be one night every week midweek. It's worked out well for both of us. The only drawback is that - with the regularity of it - he's fallen out of any extra generosity. No tips, no surprise gifts. But at the end of the day, the reliability has made it a good choice. If others fall through, I know I can rely on that weekly gig. Another burgeoning regular asked if I was willing to negotiate in exchange for reliability. I indicated that I was open to it. Back and forth ultimately led to this: "Don't we feel that our relationship transcends cash?" My response: "My relationship with my therapist transcends cash, but I still pay him." Turns out I inadvertently opened the door to constant bellyaching about price, and I ultimately stopped scheduling with him. + azdr0710, GTMike, Your Man in Arlington and 3 others 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 18 minutes ago, ModelScort said: "Don't we feel that our relationship transcends cash?" + BenjaminNicholas and + bashful 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DamizzonNYC Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 36 minutes ago, nycman said: Exactly!! I was like… I think we’re done here. I guess the ‘boyfriend experience’ was too convincing? pubic_assistance, + nycman, + azdr0710 and 4 others 2 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTJOCK Posted October 14, 2023 Author Share Posted October 14, 2023 2 hours ago, ModelScort said: I've had both experience with regulars. One is a weekly client, and it ultimately ended up being to my benefit to negotiate a lower rate for him. Simply because of the reliability of knowing where I'd be one night every week midweek. It's worked out well for both of us. The only drawback is that - with the regularity of it - he's fallen out of any extra generosity. No tips, no surprise gifts. But at the end of the day, the reliability has made it a good choice. If others fall through, I know I can rely on that weekly gig. Another burgeoning regular asked if I was willing to negotiate in exchange for reliability. I indicated that I was open to it. Back and forth ultimately led to this: "Don't we feel that our relationship transcends cash?" My response: "My relationship with my therapist transcends cash, but I still pay him." Turns out I inadvertently opened the door to constant bellyaching about price, and I ultimately stopped scheduling with him. Really appreciate the input. Productive, positive and encouraging an evaluation of both sides of the issue. Your comment here was definitely one of the best. Thank you for taking the time to respond. thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cany10011 Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 2 hours ago, ModelScort said: I've had both experience with regulars. One is a weekly client, and it ultimately ended up being to my benefit to negotiate a lower rate for him. Simply because of the reliability of knowing where I'd be one night every week midweek. It's worked out well for both of us. The only drawback is that - with the regularity of it - he's fallen out of any extra generosity. No tips, no surprise gifts. But at the end of the day, the reliability has made it a good choice. If others fall through, I know I can rely on that weekly gig. Another burgeoning regular asked if I was willing to negotiate in exchange for reliability. I indicated that I was open to it. Back and forth ultimately led to this: "Don't we feel that our relationship transcends cash?" My response: "My relationship with my therapist transcends cash, but I still pay him." Turns out I inadvertently opened the door to constant bellyaching about price, and I ultimately stopped scheduling with him. Nice profile pic! DamizzonNYC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decatur Guy Posted October 21, 2023 Share Posted October 21, 2023 From the perspective of a client: If some gives me a discount (let's say $300 instead of his usual $350), he goes to the top of my "call-first" list. DWnyc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted October 21, 2023 Share Posted October 21, 2023 I hate to be asked for a discount. It makes the session (if it happens) awkward. I have a simple rule, no discounts, ever…especially if my client asks for one. So the answer is always ‘no’. The rate is advertised, so I think if you don’t want to pay it please don’t approach me. Some might see that as inflexible but I think in this business you need really strict boundaries. For regulars I’ll go over on time (if possible) but never discount on my rate. + BenjaminNicholas, 56harrisond and Simon Suraci 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanDean Posted October 22, 2023 Share Posted October 22, 2023 On 9/24/2023 at 4:17 PM, dbar123 said: For regulars you are always better off adding value vs. subtracting price. this, this, this... a gazillion times this... Your Man in Arlington, Simon Suraci and mike carey 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Man in Arlington Posted October 22, 2023 Share Posted October 22, 2023 On 10/14/2023 at 7:46 AM, ModelScort said: My relationship with my therapist transcends cash, but I still pay him. This! I've had therapists (<cough>I've now decided to apply those funds to something else that improves my mental health and is far more enjoyable<cough>) and personal trainers with whom I developed personal connections, and even though I was or are a "regular" with them I would never expect or want a "discount" for their services. I've even had to tell a personal trainer that they needed to raise their rate! Now, I consistently tip preferred providers well, so that they know I really do appreciate their work and that they I take bookings with them seriously. RyanDean and Simon Suraci 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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