The Big Guy

There could be many different reasons. I handle taxes for two elderly people who make less that 85,000 per year but their taxes were both up slightly due to higher income from CD’s and MMF’s due to higher interest rates.

Depends on who is next to me when I wake up. 🙂

Given the number of providers I have been with that spent much of the appointment looking at the phone, I have a hard time believing they cannot answer in a 3 or 4 hour time period.

So I think I am a little better off now. I am retired. I had been sitting on cash for a time waiting on a chance for higher fixed income returns. Post Covid inflation has given me the opportunity to raise my cash flow by investing at these higher rates.

Never met him though he has been around a long time. He used to have an ad up in Houston.

Hard to take that seriously. I guess he realizes some sex would be a part of the harmony, tapestry, dreams and aspirations?

I realize the topic refers to NYC but it’s interesting to look back as to how many providers had orgasms. I have hired for both massage and escort in the past. I really think I have had more on the massage side orgasm than the escorts. I do hire for MT and HE with the Masseur so that may be a factor.

I try to be respectful when walking my dog and honor signs to keep pets off their lawn. I also avoid any space where children might play. I think the problem originates with pet owners who do not clean up after their pets making all pet owners look bad. I have some areas that are designed for pets that I try to let my dog relieve himself but sometimes things just happen. I make sure I clean up after my dog and also a mess made by others pets if I come across them.

I have been to several masseurs that have both a table and bed available making for a nice transition at the appropriate time. I agree that a bed massage is not ideal.

As I think back, a couple of times I was asked this question because they had a gay friend they wanted to fix me up with. I did find that annoying.

Les Miserables circa 1989. Great performance but a somewhat depressing way to start seeing Broadway shows.

I would not describe myself as “out” but if asked will gladly describe myself as gay. I don’t think it is an issue unless entering a relationship with a closeted man which makes things very difficult. So unless it impacts a relationship I am in, I don’t see a reason to care if someone is “out” or not.

I’ve never thought about it before but in Houston it seems to be more in the steam room. I will pay closer attention!

Hope he makes it back to Houston soon.

I would love to hear the details on getting to full penetration in 15 minutes! Sounds like a great experience.

Prior to the advent of Prep I used condoms for most all oral and certainly anal sex. In the last few years it seems like it is a non-starter to request condoms for oral. Prior to that I got push back maybe 50% of the time but I maintained my sexual health since the 80’s so no regrets. Now I just have one exclusive partner so not an issue. I sense my rejection rate would be much higher today if condoms were requested for oral.

I have to admit I enjoyed the article. I have noticed an interest lately from a couple guys that work in my apartment building. Since they work here I won’t pursue but I do enjoy the flirting.

I hired him pre-pandemic so not recently; but, it was a very nice experience. I am really into long hair but also found him to be a very nice and genuine guy. Read his website carefully as I found the hiring process very easy using his guidance. Also you can sign up for his e mail updates which are infrequent but do give great insights on his travel plans.

I like this. Open the dialogue and see where it goes. Sounds like both of you enjoyed the experience and you won’t know unless you ask.

Out of curiosity how often do you end up extending? I like your approach!

I used to go there 10 or so years ago. The facility was pretty dated at that time so not sure what kind of shape it may be in now. Never had much luck with hooking up there either so have not been back. Would love to hear if those with more recent experience had better luck.

I’ve only been asked for a deposit one time. I politely replied I would not send one. He went ahead with the appointment anyway without and it was a great session.

There are many good observations in these last few posts. I don’t think it is about race. It is about how much you trust someone you don’t know very well. I have been with white, black, and brown and prefer to protect my privacy and valuables until we know each other well enough that we have developed that mutual trust.

I like the anticipation as well. Now having said that, I always specify erotic massage and would be disappointed if I didn’t get the HE. A hand job is all I expect. I have only been disappointed a couple times over many hires.

Thank you for this reminder. I like the way you handled this issue with appropriate privacy and yet reminding of risk factors.