The Big Guy

I think for your peace of mind I suggest you move on to someone else. Even if he says he fell and cut himself, you may still have doubts. It should be a fun hobby so do what you are comfortable with. Good luck.

Lol. I did Google it to make sure!

Thank you for reporting this to the group. I enjoy this site and it’s most valuable when this type of info is shared.

I know this is a delicate area but how do you find a “service”?

This thread is educational on both sides of the coin. I look back to when I was young and recall many times being “hit on” and had no clue at the time what was going on. I wish I knew then what I know now!

If he is really 8”, I need to get my eye prescription updated.

I have not seen him in a long time. I think he only does massage. I agree - he is a nice guy. We had a great conversation about investing.

Yikes!!

In todays world, it is more likely the manager pushed against you out of a future fear he could lose his job over the incident.

Once you find one you like, it helps to find a way to do some extras like dinner, gifts, or travel. But really if the chemistry is good, I think once you start, just be consistent so that he can depend on the income at a regular interval.

On several occasions when meeting up at their place, my only option for the late provider was to wait in the car or stand outside. Not a great option in a Houston summer. That’s why I always check in before I leave the house and reinforce I will be on time. It’s usually at least a 30 minute drive. If they are then non responsive or more than 15 minutes late I feel ok about leaving.

I never heard it called a ham sandwich before.

I wish. He look very attractive.

All of the above🤭

Best advice learned is to use the points quickly before my partner does!

Looks like a very attractive man.

I would probably pay that for the right person. Most likely it would be to feed my own ego by doing it with a well known person, but that’s ok. I am pretty reserved so I would also want to tell close friends about the date. 🤷

Yes find an experienced top, and remember you must communicate as to what feels good and what hurts. Sometimes it’s just a matter of finding the right position, so a patient top will work with you until you get things in the right spot. Hope you enjoy.

Probably not an arrangement I would pay for but if I am understanding the post, he is at least up front with the client that he will come and you will not. I have to wonder the mindset of the masseur. Sounds like he is straight but I have to wonder if he just enjoys making a gay client horny just to leave him unsatisfied. Seems a little off to me. If I were just looking for therapeutic massage, I might stick with him but ask him to leave out the sensual elements that are designed only to leave him satisfied.

I wish I could do that!

I could lose 40 lbs by cutting off my leg if that would work but I may be missing the point.

This is the approach I have taken. I would only add that one needs to be willing to dollar cost average getting in as interest rates have been so volatile. I did not start out doing this and my investments in the preferred’s is under water but I am slowly catching up by now adding to the position monthly.

I love New Mexico. I lived in the northwest part of the state and while I would not retire there, I definitely would in Albuquerque or Santa Fe. Both cities have a large gay community.

Try to stay on topic please🤣

Does Tin Room have a private dance area?