The Big Guy

I have been traveling to Vegas for 30 years and while I have been in many gay clubs I am yet to find one that consistently has male strippers. ……sigh

Sorry to hear this. I am about to start traveling to Toronto again on business and was hoping Cock Bar might be fun. Any other suggestions?

These do sometimes offer good yields but make sure you understand the steps to exit and how long it may take to get your money back. My mom had one and it took a long time jumping through multiple hoops to get the cash. Best wishes.

I am intrigued but my go to guy has a piercing in the BB. I wonder if that is a plus or minus? Only one way to find out I guess!

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Interesting in that if I read his profile correctly he does not indicate he is on prep. Seems like a guy that concerned would be on prep and require proof of same from clients. All that said, I think he looks awesome and wish him success.

This is a good discussion and steps in retirement will obviously depend on one’s personal finances. Since retiring I have focused on simplifying my life and targeting cost savings from what I termed “low hanging fruit”. To simplify, I sold my house and moved into a mid-rise. The cost savings were not that much, but I take great peace of mind in being able to lock and leave in a secure building. On cost savings I was surprised by how many items I had on auto pilot that could be reduced. I realized very nice savings by (1)re-bidding all property, casualty and liability insurance (2) getting rid of cable and satellite subscriptions at my primary and secondary residences and using much cheaper options (3) protesting my property tax valuations (4) got rid of several club memberships I was under utilizing and (5) consolidated broker accounts to reduce advisor fees. These were relatively painless to accomplish but I never took the time while I was still working. Best of luck to retirees!

I am sorry to hear this. I met him about 4 years ago in Houston for a morning appointment. I found him very affectionate and had a great experience. No performance or energy issues. I did not repeat due to the cost. I hope he is ok.

Cute guy. If the video on his site is real and him, he has a very nice tool.

I have not done this but risk seems low unless the market experiences a “black swan event” with an associated melt down in stock prices i.e. like the initial reaction in 2020 to Covid. Good luck - I like having some rental property in the portfolio.

Interesting. Not my thing but would be curious to know if many female customers actually show up and what their expectations might be. Like @Alfstoria I have really scaled back going to baths as I have gotten older. I don’t think I now need to be rejected by male customers and snickered at by female customers!

I like @Jamie21 ‘s approach. I think if the cancellation is at the last minute, it is not unreasonable to be reimbursed for both sessions when rebooking.

I am intrigued as well. My go to guy and I are both tops so it looks like a fun solution!

Hey @BuffaloKyle love the posts. Are these acquaintances of yours? If so, keep up the good work!

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@Charlie thank you for this post. I enjoyed reading about your experiences.

I will probably stick with the old fashioned 2 hand massage. I must admit to only having one 4 hand massage that I did not enjoy. I also figure I was still only going to have one orgasm. To each their own, so I hope those trying 8 hands have a great experience..

If I have the proposal correct, the focus will be on you pleasing the two brothers during the same session and does not require them to focus on each other or on you. Also, since they seemed to be working at a strip club, it does not seem like an environment with which they are unfamiliar. They approached you. If all that is true, this does not seem to be a big leap from their current activity and I can’t believe it would affect the psychological state of two adult males.

My thanks to @CheckCar for the very thoughtful posts. Has give me a lot to think about.

I realize he is not everyone’s type but I always thought he was adorable. Several years ago, when he was located in the Columbus Circle are in NYC, I reached out while I was there on business but sadly got no response. I hope he is doing well.

Great example. Far too many companies fail to develop these “soft” skills that can provide a development opportunity. Members of our community can always use an ally or be an ally in the workplace.

I loved the video and technique but would have liked the masseur to have been naked as well.

A young gay friend of mine mentioned he would like to have children. It seems that many of us experienced parenting in life and could be a trusted advisor on related issues. Also we have many successful business executives that could be a mentor/coach toward success in that world.

Thank you for this timely post. I also would like to find a way to be more helpful.

Interesting. Thanks!