jusmeinbr Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 Just wondering if the only advantage to RM Premium is the ability to provide reviews? I ask because I've been a Premium Member for several years. I have left very favorable reviews acting upon impulse after a satisfying experience only to realize later that I'd basically jumped the gun in considering everything. I was just too slow to figure it out until the escort completely ignored my follow-up texts asking when we may be able to meet again. I had overlooked him asking for a face pic about 15 minutes before our meet (figuring he just wanted to confirm who was at the door when he opened it matched). After me standing for 10 minutes at the entrance (the resident had to come open a small gate to let the visitor into the courtyard where he resides) for what should have been about a 90-second (at most) trip downstairs (based on how quickly he and I were back at the gate once our session was over), I should have realized that he didn't REALLY want to meet at all after the face photo was sent. He was also concerned that surrounding neighbors may hear even us talking in a low voice (that was a first for me) and basically wanted to have extremely soft-spoken communication while we met. Nevertheless, his performance was phenomenal, and I looked forward to meeting again until I realized the totality of the matter which was easy to deduce once he declined to respond to any of the communications I sent (even the one letting him know the 5-star review had posted) after that meeting. Anyway, after the passage of some time, I quietly removed the five-star review, and that was the second time an episode like that has happened within the last year (I also quietly removed the other 5-star review about four weeks after supplying that one). So, I'm just asking if being a RM Premium Member's only benefit is the ability to leave reviews because, if so, I think I'm going to become an ex-Premium Member because, certainly for the two above reviews, I would have been better off not having the ability to leave reviews in the first place. Thanks. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution + azdr0710 Posted August 30, 2023 Solution Share Posted August 30, 2023 RM Premium members also get to see the semi-private pictures (flame logo) and see a couple additional stats (forget which ones). Plus it may look good to some providers that you appear "serious" and legit. Luv2play, peter831, BonVivant and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BonVivant Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 You also get to see Pics and videos. + keroscenefire, Luv2play and Nodalguy 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 I don’t buy the argument for needing to look serious to a provider. Unless it’s some superstar - and I avoid those regarded as such anyway - I take the approach that no provider is unique (unless after a meet I have context and experience with someone), and I consider myself to be respectful and aware of their concerns and and if they can’t show they’d appreciate my business from the minute we start interacting, they don’t deserve it - no matter how insignificant my session may be in the bigger picture of their huge success. I dont think the respect we should provide each other is influenced by my payment to an external service. + daytongay and soloyo215 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jusmeinbr Posted August 30, 2023 Author Share Posted August 30, 2023 33 minutes ago, azdr0710 said: RM Premium members also get to see the semi-private pictures (flame logo) and see a couple additional stats (forget which ones). Plus it may look good to some providers that you appear "serious" and legit. Thank you. That’s enough for me to justify sticking with it, but I’m just not going to be so “trigger happy” on leaving reviews going forward 😒. MikeBiDude, + KensingtonHomo, Luv2play and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JTtorretto Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 (edited) 18 minutes ago, DWnyc said: I don’t buy the argument for needing to look serious to a provider. Unless it’s some superstar - and I avoid those regarded as such anyway - I take the approach that no provider is unique (unless after a meet I have context and experience with someone), and I consider myself to be respectful and aware of their concerns and and if they can’t show they’d appreciate my business from the minute we start interacting, they don’t deserve it - no matter how insignificant my session may be in the bigger picture of their huge success. I dont think the respect we should provide each other is influenced by my payment to an external service. And likely they avoid you as you are one giant red flag 🚩 that anyone with experience knows best to be avoided. Edited August 30, 2023 by JTtorretto + azdr0710 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cliff Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 49 minutes ago, BonVivant said: You also get to see Pics and videos. That alone makes it worth it to me. The private pics and videos help me better decide if I want to pursue a provider or not. Luv2play, builder boy, MikeBiDude and 7 others 6 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ jeezopete Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 Also, if you're a premium member at the recurring $9.95 per month and then you cancel but later decide to rejoin I believe the cost is much higher. Not sure about that, so if anyone has better info please correct me. Luv2play and + azdr0710 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bokomaru Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 10 minutes ago, jeezopete said: and then you cancel but later decide to rejoin I believe the cost is much higher. Correct. Will cost $19.95 to become premium again. I see no option for a discount for multiple months either, which is a bit strange. Nodalguy, DWnyc and BonVivant 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 1 hour ago, Bokomaru said: Correct. Will cost $19.95 to become premium again. I see no option for a discount for multiple months either, which is a bit strange. It's showing it's back to $9.95 a month for a premium membership for me with $49.95 for six months or $99.95 for a year. BonVivant, MikeBiDude, Bokomaru and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 4 hours ago, JTtorretto said: And likely they avoid you as you are one giant red flag 🚩 that anyone with experience knows best to be avoided. In case it was unclear I was referring to premium subscriptions being a means of looking serious to a provider - I wasn’t saying “I don’t think clients should try to appear serious to providers”. If your response means you think clients should be premium members to show skin in the game (like they need iPhones) I disagree. And you don’t know what you’re talking about, you know nothing about me and my “track record” with providers that I actually want to see (rather than those I would avoid like the plague …). It’s pretty high, I’ve never been unable to make an appointment with someone I actually wanted to after knowing everything relevant, and I have enough who proactively follow up suggesting repeats that tells me from a biz perspective at least (as let’s not kid ourselves) I’m tolerable. soloyo215, search0925, jusmeinbr and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 Whether or not it's right or smart to use a Premium profile as a sign of seriousness, many escorts do. Also, new escorts can be very desperate for good reviews. These are the advantages I've enjoyed as a Premium.....although the extra pics help..... BuzzLiteQueer, soloyo215, DWnyc and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted August 30, 2023 Share Posted August 30, 2023 This is informative to me. I like the different perspectives and advantages, whether they are beneficial to some or not to others. I have been thinking of a premium membership, but I in all honesty, though I have not been able to get a good sense of all my providers, I am learning and have been able to make wiser decisions without the premium membership. I'm still on the fence on it. This is great information. DWnyc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted August 31, 2023 Share Posted August 31, 2023 43 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said: Whether or not it's right or smart to use a Premium profile as a sign of seriousness, many escorts do. Also, new escorts can be very desperate for good reviews. These are the advantages I've enjoyed as a Premium.....although the extra pics help..... I had one provider offer to pay for me to be premium for a month in order to leave a good review. And at least two others offered extra time or another session if I agreed to become a premium member and leave a positive review. Funnily the three I’m thinking about were well established (one had an online channel that he said earlier was doing so well he’d likely never have to work again after a few years etc) and you wouldn’t think they’d need to “buy” votes. soloyo215, + DrownedBoy and Cliff 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted August 31, 2023 Share Posted August 31, 2023 6 hours ago, jusmeinbr said: Thank you. That’s enough for me to justify sticking with it, but I’m just not going to be so “trigger happy” on leaving reviews going forward 😒. I have done the same thing many times. I tend to write my reviews right after the encounter and fresh from an orgasm I am often too positive. Maybe I should wait a day or two and think through the entire encounter. jusmeinbr and Luv2play 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jusmeinbr Posted August 31, 2023 Author Share Posted August 31, 2023 12 minutes ago, TorontoDrew said: I have done the same thing many times. I tend to write my reviews right after the encounter and fresh from an orgasm I am often too positive. Maybe I should wait a day or two and think through the entire encounter. Thanks for letting me know I’m not the only one and, yes, the timing was the same for me, and I actually couldn’t wait to get home to draft the review. I’m now unlikely to provide a review on any escort with whom I plan to meet with regularity until at least the second meeting. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boaxxx Posted April 5 Share Posted April 5 (edited) Just curious, can premium members leave written reviews like on Rent Masseur? This is all I'm able to see as a non-paying member. Edited April 5 by Boaxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiet Posted April 5 Share Posted April 5 Anyone know the most discreet way to pay for this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted April 5 Share Posted April 5 10 hours ago, Boaxxx said: Just curious, can premium members leave written reviews like on Rent Masseur? This is all I'm able to see as a non-paying member. All premium members can fill in the written comments with their review. The written reviews are hidden for users in the US, however, because of how RM decided to respond to US laws. Users in Canada can see them, for example. You can view the written comments by using a proxy/VPN that lets you appear to be coming from outside the US. Boaxxx and peter831 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted April 5 Share Posted April 5 8 hours ago, Quiet said: Anyone know the most discreet way to pay for this? RM offers Bitcoin as a payment method... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted April 5 Share Posted April 5 Don't forget about the incredible Christmas party that RM throws for their premium members. Simon Suraci, + azdr0710, TorontoDrew and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted April 5 Share Posted April 5 (edited) 19 hours ago, Quiet said: Anyone know the most discreet way to pay for this? I use a virtual credit card number, which my main CC gives me. It's completely anonymous. It's not perfectly untraceable, but I believe the only way it could be traced is if law enforcement both specifically targets EDIT that number and is able to get a warrant to force the bank to reveal info. You'd have to do something a lot worse than hire a legally-aged escort to get that, and generally, only the FBI or higher would have the resources to do that. (also, I use it for all web transactions to keep anyone from stealing my number) Edited April 5 by DrownedBoy clarify Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted April 6 Share Posted April 6 18 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Don't forget about the incredible Christmas party that RM throws for their premium members. Can't forget the RM premium member punch card. Get 10 escorts you get one free! 😄 BuzzLiteQueer, + APPLE1, peter831 and 4 others 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted April 7 Share Posted April 7 On 4/5/2024 at 6:03 PM, BenjaminNicholas said: Don't forget about the incredible Christmas party that RM throws for their premium members. I would settle for gift coupons from RM for my fave providers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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