Nonsexual turnons

[56harrisond]

What are your nonsexual turnons?

[56harrisond]

A guy with a fresh haircut, and smells just smells great (natural scent or cologne).

Looks great in tailored suit.

Can cook. He doesn't need to be a chef, but a man who knows his way around a kitchen is *chef's kiss*

[BuffaloKyle]

I love latino men so a guy with a sexy accent is a big one for me.

[Xavitv]

God

[misterhumphries]

A deep voice

[+ Lucky]

If something "turns you on" how can it be nonsexual?

[jeezifonly]

Talent 

(artistic, writing, building, acting, singing, musical instrument, culinary, any sort of talent)

Funniness. I have the sense of humor. I want to be around a mind that tickles it. 
 

 

 

 

[Mo Mason]

On 2/10/2023 at 3:35 PM, misterhumphries said:

A deep voice

I clicked on this with this answer in mind.  A deep voice.  To me, any man with a deep voice is just overflowing with alpha male testosterone.

One of my bosses at work has a deep voice (also tall, athletic, and sexy as hell) and every time he walks by me and asks, "how's it going?" I just want to fall to my knees and thank him for existing.  lol

[dbar123]

Certain types of clothing are triggers for me- like a nice white Oxford shirt with sleeves rolled up to reveal nice hairy forearms

[+ bashful]

3 hours ago, Mo Mason said:

I clicked on this with this answer in mind.  A deep voice.  To me, any man with a deep voice is just overflowing with alpha male testosterone.

One of my bosses at work has a deep voice (also tall, athletic, and sexy as hell) and every time he walks by me and asks, "how's it going?" I just want to fall to my knees and thank him for existing.  lol

It's been a while.  Nice to hear from you again.

[+ bashful]

Nice fitting clothes, whatever the occasion.  Nice hands, on the larger side.

[+ Jamie21]

No such thing as a non sexual turn on! 

[caramelsub]

I am also into latino men, so tan skin with dark features does it for me.

[+ GoingGood]

I enjoy a great conversationalist.  

[wsc]

Sometimes shy and a little awkward are endearing, especially if young and handsome.

[+ José Soplanucas]

• I like guys with speech issues like sissing
• I like the gap in the front upper tooth that many Black people have (sometimes this makes me horny even with women)
• deep voices

[+ nycman]

A deep appreciation for the Arts

Playfulness 

A deep voice

A willingness to be vulnerable 

[BtmBearDad]

• voices
• accents 
• sense of humour - dark, sarcastic, goofy, etc. 
• book smart, and successful but they betray an innocence, a naivety about everything else
• uses random historical, cultural references that have largely disappeared from modern usage

[+ sync]

I'm always surprised by what it might be that attracts me.

Some guys can just stand or sit quietly and exude an inexplicable charisma. 

[BtmBearDad]

7 minutes ago, sync said:

I'm always surprised by what it might be that attracts me.

Some guys can just stand or sit quietly and exude an inexplicable charisma. 

This 100%! 

Sometimes, there’s just something inexplicable about a guy that just attracts me 🤷🏼‍♂️

[misterhumphries]

And the way a man walks. Some men have the sexiest walk. It's hard to describe what constitutes a sexy walk, but I know it when I see it.

[Rudynate]

I like big men - tall, or bearish or musclemen.  Also like hairy men.  And men of color.

[KrisParr]

My 9th grade basketball coach / history teacher - when he walked by my desk, a whiff of Drakkar … those huge hands when he wrote on the board, his velvet deep voice … so many boners and nothing to do

[misterhumphries]

2 hours ago, KrisParr said:

My 9th grade basketball coach / history teacher - when he walked by my desk, a whiff of Drakkar … those huge hands when he wrote on the board, his velvet deep voice … so many boners and nothing to do

Drakkar! That was the fragrance of the 90s or thereabouts. I loved the scent too.

[keefer]

To be honest, after the week I've had (and month I'm about to have)... someone offering me an unopened container of Ben and Jerry's would probably be the most extreme turn-on I've had this year...