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Pre-pandemic, I hired escorts about once a month and had been doing so for a number of years. Today, it’s been exactly 18 months without any encounters. Yeah, I’m horny as hell. Up until a year ago, I was a regular at a gym where I had developed a bit of a friendship with another guy who came in almost everyday when I was there. We talked a lot about fitness, equipment, cars, food, sports and I really enjoyed his company. He’s about 32-ish, tall, extremely well-built, buzz cut, sort of resembles Beckham without the facial hair. What really was intriguing were the cars he drove - Lamborghini, BMW, Maserati among others. Turns out he’s a salesman for a luxury dealership and gets to drive them as advertising. That would explain the “dealer” tags on the cars. I don’t think he’s hurting for funds. But there’s just something about him that gets me turned on every time I see him - he is beyond sexy.  
 

So a month ago, I started going back to the gym, and sure enough, he shows up. We reconnect and since then I’ve seen him almost daily. If anything, he’s even more attractive. Yesterday, we played pickleball after our workout and went next door to a pizza joint for a few beers. I can’t remember exactly what we were talking about, but out of the clear blue he says, “so do you date women, or men, or both?” Holy shit. Did I just hear that?  Before I could even process, I said, “both, and you?”  (I lied.) He says, “what do you think?” Ok, so the cards are on the table and I said, “men, I hope.” So he starts laughing (a lot) and I am tongue-tied. Did I just fuck up? Then, he tells me he dates men and women  for money. Not only does he sell fancy cars, he’s an escort on the very down-low. Seems like a couple of his really  wealthy car customers also paid for other “services” and I’m  stunned. He tells me a couple of quick stories and it’s a good thing we are seated, ‘cause my boner is at full-mast. 
 

It’s time to go, and as we get to the parking lot, he pauses and says, “think it over - I’d give you a nice discount” then winks at me, and leaves. That was Saturday. I didn’t go to the gym yesterday but will later today. Hell yeah, I’ve saved a bundle this past year, so money is not the issue. Never had anything like this happen. It could be a great thing or not. Thoughts, gentlemen? He is one hell of a salesman!

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If you have also met up with guys from Grindr or Scruff, then I guess it would be the same risk you'd be taking if you meet up with this hunk, right? You just know he's actually hot. While your situation will never happen to me, if it were to happen to happen to me, I would probably still do some due diligence but IDK what sources you could get to do such a thing. If your loins are burning up for him, I'd say YOLO (or some cream). LOL.

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30 minutes ago, KrisParr said:

Pre-pandemic, I hired escorts about once a month and had been doing so for a number of years. Today, it’s been exactly 18 months without any encounters. Yeah, I’m horny as hell. Up until a year ago, I was a regular at a gym where I had developed a bit of a friendship with another guy who came in almost everyday when I was there. We talked a lot about fitness, equipment, cars, food, sports and I really enjoyed his company. He’s about 32-ish, tall, extremely well-built, buzz cut, sort of resembles Beckham without the facial hair. What really was intriguing were the cars he drove - Lamborghini, BMW, Maserati among others. Turns out he’s a salesman for a luxury dealership and gets to drive them as advertising. That would explain the “dealer” tags on the cars. I don’t think he’s hurting for funds. But there’s just something about him that gets me turned on every time I see him - he is beyond sexy.  
 

So a month ago, I started going back to the gym, and sure enough, he shows up. We reconnect and since then I’ve seen him almost daily. If anything, he’s even more attractive. Yesterday, we played pickleball after our workout and went next door to a pizza joint for a few beers. I can’t remember exactly what we were talking about, but out of the clear blue he says, “so do you date women, or men, or both?” Holy shit. Did I just hear that?  Before I could even process, I said, “both, and you?”  (I lied.) He says, “what do you think?” Ok, so the cards are on the table and I said, “men, I hope.” So he starts laughing (a lot) and I am tongue-tied. Did I just fuck up? Then, he tells me he dates men and women  for money. Not only does he sell fancy cars, he’s an escort on the very down-low. Seems like a couple of his really  wealthy car customers also paid for other “services” and I’m  stunned. He tells me a couple of quick stories and it’s a good thing we are seated, ‘cause my boner is at full-mast. 
 

It’s time to go, and as we get to the parking lot, he pauses and says, “think it over - I’d give you a nice discount” then winks at me, and leaves. That was Saturday. I didn’t go to the gym yesterday but will later today. Hell yeah, I’ve saved a bundle this past year, so money is not the issue. Never had anything like this happen. It could be a great thing or not. Thoughts, gentlemen? He is one hell of a salesman!

If you can do it without your gym interaction getting uncomfortable...and if the price is right...go for it! 😉 

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1 hour ago, Lucky said:

Sounds like a fairy tale come true!

I know, I know. Keep telling myself, “is this really happening?” I’m as nervous as a school girl on a first date.  My dad was forever saying, “no guts, no glory”.  And speaking of Dad, he called yesterday and as a joke (more or less) always asks about my love life.  My usual response:  too fucking busy, and vice-versa. 

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Hell, why is this so difficult? You've been eyeing him off for ages, and he's now made an offer. Not the one you expected or probably even considered, but an offer nevertheless. If money hadn't been part of the equation you would probably have had sex that night, but not knowing you have hired before, he is conscious that hiring might be something that would be cautious about so gave you time to think. On your side of the table, you have been hiring since, oh, about forever, so the concept of hiring someone is not challenging. I totally get that you might have preferred an offer not involving money, but since that wasn't what you received, and you've already established a cordial relationship,, if you're going to hire, why not him?

All that aside, I'm not you, and not being the one who was propositioned it's easy for me to have an opinion of what for me is a hypothetical situation, whereas it's real for you.

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Thanks, gentlemen, for the kinds words of advice and the reactions. Update: so I went to the gym this morning as hot-dude was leaving. We had a quick chat with him saying, “You okay?”  I muttered something like, yeah, sure and went on in.  About 10 minutes later I got a text from him and he wants to know if we can meet for a drink later tonight. I replied that I’d love to, so we will see what unfolds. I’ve decided to pursue him and go with the flow.  Will keep the thread updated if anything happens.  Again, many thanks for the encouragement.

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4 hours ago, mike carey said:

Hell, why is this so difficult? You've been eyeing him off for ages, and he's now made an offer. Not the one you expected or probably even considered, but an offer nevertheless. If money hadn't been part of the equation you would probably have had sex that night, but not knowing you have hired before, he is conscious that hiring might be something that would be cautious about so gave you time to think. On your side of the table, you have been hiring since, oh, about forever, so the concept of hiring someone is not challenging. I totally get that you might have preferred an offer not involving money, but since that wasn't what you received, and you've already established a cordial relationship,, if you're going to hire, why not him?

All that aside, I'm not you, and not being the one who was propositioned it's easy for me to have an opinion of what for me is a hypothetical situation, whereas it's real for you.

Kriss asked for opinions; you gave a rather salient one, a response that would mirror mine if I had responded.  I don't know why you wrote the last sentence, for what preceded was candid as well as encouraging.  

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32 minutes ago, KrisParr said:

Thanks, gentlemen, for the kinds words of advice and the reactions. Update: so I went to the gym this morning as hot-dude was leaving. We had a quick chat with him saying, “You okay?”  I muttered something like, yeah, sure and went on in.  About 10 minutes later I got a text from him and he wants to know if we can meet for a drink later tonight. I replied that I’d love to, so we will see what unfolds. I’ve decided to pursue him and go with the flow.  Will keep the thread updated if anything happens.  Again, many thanks for the encouragement.

"Will keep the thread updated if anything happens."

Please do.  Your post piqued my interest, and I am anxious to find out the outcome.  Have fun on your date, and do try to enjoy the one-on-one company of this hot man whom you described.

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I agree that this is a fairy tale come true. This would not be a casual encounter but one based on knowing the guy fairly well in a specific setting, a gym.
 

Over the years I would have been excited beyond words if a hunk I met there offered his services which I never would have expected on a casual hookup because of the age and physical attributes differences between him and myself.

I take it you are somewhat younger than perhaps many of us clients here on the forum so you might be in that more grey zone.  Anyway, if the guy turns your crank, I would go for it, assuming you are compatible sexually, which I would want to establish before sealing the deal.
 

And a discount yet. Swoon.

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Maybe I’m too late with an opinion here, but I say go for it. The worst thing that could happen is that it doesn’t go as smoothly as you hope and you still see him at the gym. But if he’s a car salesman and an escort on the side, he’s been told “no” many times and likely won’t make it awkward. Can’t wait to hear what happens. 

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Not sure if this counts as a vicarious thrill, but here goes:

So “hot dude” texts me and says he’ll be late – he’s with a client. Anyhow, he does show up at the pizza joint again next to the gym. We shoot the shit for a while, quaff a few beers and finally I just had to say something about the “discount offer”. His response was, “I was just messin’ with ya” and started laughing. But the evil grin and half-wink still overpowered what he was saying. Fuck. I’m more confused than ever. He changes the subject and we start talking about sports. He asks me when was the last time I saw the Braves play in person.  (The stadium in not that far from us). I said, “like never” and again, got the smirky laugh.  I left for a few minutes to take a piss and when I get back, he hands me his phone. It’s a confirmation from Stubhub for two dugout tickets to Friday night’s Braves-Dodgers game – like for $600 total. Holy mother … I said, “Damn” – and he says he hopes I have Friday night free.  Tongue-tied again.  I mumbled something like “hell yes” – and I’m shaking my head. Where is this going?  So we finish the brews and head out to the cars (it was pushing midnight) and we’re standing in kind of in a dark place and we’re just talking and next thing I know, his tongue is in my mouth. Didn’t last too long, but long enough to awake old one-eye.  He pulls back and the only thing I can think of to say is, “Are we like dating now?” And he says, “what do you think?” and gets in his car and away he goes.  Okay, let’s clarify – I am twenty years older than him, I’m not that attractive, though in damn good shape right now. He’s hot, he’s hip, he’s “with it” and I’m just your average 52 year old horny dude who’s been around the block many, many times.  He said he has a quick trip to Macon for a couple of days but will be back late Thursday and we can work out details of our “date”.  My brain can’t compute all this – but that’s where we are.

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1 hour ago, WilliamM said:

A lot of money for baseball tickets even for StubHub. 

Not hardly. When I went to see the price of tickets for an Angels/Yankees game, marginal seats along the base lines were over $800!

And that was the box office, not StubHub.

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1 hour ago, Lucky said:

Not hardly. When I went to see the price of tickets for an Angels/Yankees game, marginal seats along the base lines were over $800!

And that was the box office, not StubHub.

yea I typically wouldn't pay for tickets myself...in my previous job, I used to be close to the executive assistants of the senior partners, so if there's a sudden unused club box or PNC diamond club seats (with parking passes), they would just holler at me to pick em up. lol...oh the life back then.

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4 hours ago, KrisParr said:

Not sure if this counts as a vicarious thrill, but here goes:

So “hot dude” texts me and says he’ll be late – he’s with a client. Anyhow, he does show up at the pizza joint again next to the gym. We shoot the shit for a while, quaff a few beers and finally I just had to say something about the “discount offer”. His response was, “I was just messin’ with ya” and started laughing. But the evil grin and half-wink still overpowered what he was saying. Fuck. I’m more confused than ever. He changes the subject and we start talking about sports. He asks me when was the last time I saw the Braves play in person.  (The stadium in not that far from us). I said, “like never” and again, got the smirky laugh.  I left for a few minutes to take a piss and when I get back, he hands me his phone. It’s a confirmation from Stubhub for two dugout tickets to Friday night’s Braves-Dodgers game – like for $600 total. Holy mother … I said, “Damn” – and he says he hopes I have Friday night free.  Tongue-tied again.  I mumbled something like “hell yes” – and I’m shaking my head. Where is this going?  So we finish the brews and head out to the cars (it was pushing midnight) and we’re standing in kind of in a dark place and we’re just talking and next thing I know, his tongue is in my mouth. Didn’t last too long, but long enough to awake old one-eye.  He pulls back and the only thing I can think of to say is, “Are we like dating now?” And he says, “what do you think?” and gets in his car and away he goes.  Okay, let’s clarify – I am twenty years older than him, I’m not that attractive, though in damn good shape right now. He’s hot, he’s hip, he’s “with it” and I’m just your average 52 year old horny dude who’s been around the block many, many times.  He said he has a quick trip to Macon for a couple of days but will be back late Thursday and we can work out details of our “date”.  My brain can’t compute all this – but that’s where we are.

Run with it!

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