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KeepItReal

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  1. If you offer politely, they can accept/reject politely. A polite decline has happened to me, no one has ever thrown a bill back at me. But there are douchebags everywhere so there is that. See chart below as of 2023.
  2. I always check Wirecutter before making a purchase on a big ticket or unknown item. 😁 https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-standing-desk/
  3. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/146245-camilo-uribe/
  4. KeepItReal

    Camilo Uribe

    Yes, he is back in NYC. The gist of our conversation was: he is looking for twinks to film content with.
  5. Is it really a case of not understanding it...or not accepting it? I am sure she can live without your understanding or acceptance. If you really crave understanding, the American Psychological Association wrote an excellent article on it in 1975.
  6. I met him. Nice enough. A little quiet. Massage seemed very mechanical. Wouldn't recommend. 😆😆
  7. Life and liberty isn't political - though some will try to make it so. Land of the free, home of the brave after all.
  8. This hasn't been my experience. Perhaps it has something to do with your location or the type of guys you are reaching out to (traveling guys).
  9. Never pay upfront. If you do decide to take a chance and provide a deposit up front, always use PayPal "Paying for an item or service" with a description "Vendor deposit". That way, if he disappears you can file for a refund by telling PayPal the vendor did not show up. PayPal is usually quite good at charge backs if you have an established account for more than a year and no history of frequent charge backs. 🤓
  10. Kevinslater Toniazzo Start with tthese2 guys on rentmen - all are warm, friendly and happy to please.
  11. Not clear on what you are looking for...top or bttm?
  12. Sounds like a very good deal...take it or send him my way!! 😉😉
  13. I've been traveling extensively the past month in Central and Southern Africa. Options have been very limited. My NYC regulars keep texting me...I guess they miss me. 😋
  14. Okay you two... @Monarchy79 @pubic_assistance...get a room!
  15. I haven't used an expediter service before - would you care to recommend one? Thanks!
  16. So what's your secret to success? 🤔
  17. If there was a "frequently asked" section here, you would find this topic at the top of the list. With no consensus. 10% will say zero tip, 10% will say 100% tip...and the rest will be somewhere in between. I choose to tip for excellent service, but apply judgment as to the size of tip - based on service, fee, experience and history with companion.
  18. I agree with our resident bean counter! ( @Beancounter) There are income limits for a Roth IRA - you can make too much money to qualify...but there are ways around it. Most firms use a financial firm to administer their 401k - like Vanguard, Fidelity or Empower. These firms often offer free advice and you can ask to speak to an advisor about a Roth - just don't let them talk you into doing a rollover (moving money from your 401k to an IRA). If you like podcasts - the Moneygirl podcast has episodes on retirement accounts that will be an hour well spent, before you talk to an advisor.
  19. Here’s what I want to know: How did you find your provider(s)? A: I did some online research - Did you use any specialized kink platforms like Recon or others? A: I ended up on Seeking.com - Did you approach providers who did not list findom as an option, or only those who list findom on their ads? A: No, only those that listed it What made you choose your provider? A: Looks and attitude How did you ask for what you wanted? A: We moves the conversation to Telegram and were able to be direct about expectations Did you clearly, and without feeling any sense of coercion, consent to a findom roleplay scenario before your provider began engaging in your desired role play? A: Yes, we had a meeting of the minds on expectations What boundaries, if any, did you set with your provider before engaging his services? A: We agreed on boundaries, specifically I did not want any items/experiences or locations posted on social media. Did your provider violate any of your clearly communicated and agreed-upon boundaries? A; Yes. I was clear about parameters, but he pushed. For example, he wanted a credit card to operate independently, but that was outside the boundaries we discusses. Did your provider force you to do anything to which you did not consent? A: No Which methods of contact did you use throughout the process, and why? Phone, text, email, app, etc. A: Telegram Did you meet in person? If so, where, and how often? A: Yes, multiple times, first in public and then privately. Weekly. What was your experience like overall? A: Meh How did the experience make you feel? A: A little weird, to be honest. Was the exchange worthwhile? A: No, I wouldnt repeat this adventure How did your experience differ from your expectations? A: It pretty much turned out the way I expected Would you engage your provider again? A: No, not for findom. As a regular hire, yes. Would you seek out a different provider for similar services in the future? A: No Where do you recommend others with similar interests seek out professional, experienced, reliable findom providers? A: I would hesitate to recommend this particular pass time.
  20. The two sites are very different, not just the topics covered but the audience as well. Which is a good thing. Yeay diversity! 👏
  21. That hasn't been my experience and I have floated between the two sites for years as a participating member. Guess I am just lucky! 😌 Thanks @Lucky
  22. It is no worse over there than it is over here. Every forest has its "special" trees. If you hang around long enough, you will figure it out. Different isn't necessarily nut-job. 🤓
  23. Previously discussed here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142889-cristopherbu-rentmen-eu-ny/ You participated in discussion - why the new thread?
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